Iqiniso lokuthi amadoda nabesifazane bahluke kakhulu. Kodwa ngokuvamile lokhu kungezwani akuhambisani nomgomo "wokuphikisa ukuheha", kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho. Ngezindlela eziningi, ukuhlukumeza ngokobulili kuyaphazamisa ukuqonda okufanayo. Lezi zindlela zokuziphatha ezithile, imifanekiso ezinzile-izimpawu, ezibekwe kubamele bezocansi ezahlukene ngokubona komphakathi.
Izindinganiso zobulili nezinkolelo
Ngokusho kososayensi, ukutholakala kwezindima ezithile abesilisa nabesifazane abazenza emphakathini, futhi yisona sizathu esiyinhloko sokuvela kobulili. Ngakho-ke, esikhathini esidlule eRussia kwakukhona isiko ukuthi umuntu uyena, umvikeli, inhloko yendlu. Futhi lo wesifazane ungunina, umgcini wendlu, uthisha. Kodwa-ke, okwamanje, kuye kwaba nezinguquko ekuqapheliseni komphakathi, okushiye impendulo yabo, kuhlanganise nokusatshalaliswa kwemithwalo yemfanelo yabesilisa nabesifazane. Amantombazane amahle afunde ukuhola, aphakamise izingane yedwa, enze izinqumo ngokuzimela. Futhi abameleli abaningi bezocansi ezinamandla, futhi, bazi kahle "umsebenzi" wabesifazane besifazane nabaninikazi, ukushintsha ukukhathazeka kokusekelwa kwemali komndeni kumahlombe omshado wabo. Futhi, noma kunjalo, izigcawu zesikhathi esedlule azizange zihambe, ngoba zifudumele "izitembu" zobulili.
Izibonelo zokungafani kobulili
Izinkolelo ezijwayelekile kakhulu zobulili emphakathini wanamuhla yilezi:
- Amadoda ayingqayizivele yocansi, kanti abesifazane banesibindi (nakuba sekuyisikhathi eside kuboniswe ukuthi abesifazane bangakwazi ukuzinza kokubili ngokwengqondo nangokwenyama).
- Abamele ubulili obuqinile kumele bangalili (nakuba izinyembezi ziyisenzo semvelo sezinto eziphilayo).
- Amadoda anengqondo ephakeme (nje owesifazane unesifundazwe esithuthukisiwe, esibhekene nesigaba somzwelo).
- Owesifazane ongashadile ungaphansi (abesifazane abangabodwa namuhla basuke bengavamile futhi abazibheki njengabantu abangajabuli noma abaphutha).
- Inhloso eyinhloko yabesifazane - umndeni kanye nezingane, amadoda - umsebenzi (abesifazane abaningi baphelela ngokuphumelelayo bobabili, futhi amadoda amaningi akhetha ukuba ngabadade abahle nabayeni, hhayi abahluleli be-Everest yomsebenzi).
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ithonya elinamandla ekubhekaneni ngokobulili nokukhangisa. Ngesandla sokukhanya salesi simbonini ekuqaphelisweni kwenqwaba imisebenzi elandelayo yomphakathi-izimpawu zazinqunywa:
- Abesifazane - umlingani womuzi, umfazi oyisibonelo, owesifazane webhizinisi, i-seductress.
- Amadoda angamaqhawe, ama-macho, abadukisi, abahwebi abaphumelelayo, "umfana waphakade", umdlali wezemidlalo, indoda yomndeni oyisibonelo.
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