Umuntu ngamunye unendlela yakhe yokuziphatha ekhethekile ehlukanisa nabanye. Ukuphelele kwalezi zici ezinzile kuthiwa uhlamvu. I-Psychology iye yahlala isikhathi eside futhi yaqhubeka ifundela lesi simo, ibuye ikwazi ngisho nokukhipha i-characteristic-characterology. Ngaphansi kwesithakazelo sakhe yizici zobuntu bomuntu, ukwakheka kwayo nesakhiwo, izindlela zokuthola izici ezihlukile nokunye okuningi. Ake sicabangele eminye yale mibuzo ngokuningiliziwe.
Ukwenziwa kohlamvu
Ngezinye izikhathi ungase uzwe inkulumo echaza uhlobo lomuntu "Ngazalwa kakhulu futhi angikwazi ngenye indlela". Mhlawumbe kuyiqiniso, kodwa kusukela ekuboneni kwengqondo kwengqondo akulungile. Iqiniso liwukuthi lo mlingiswa awunikelwa yona lapho sizalwa, kuhlanganiswa ngaphansi kwezimo ezihlukahlukene. Ukuqiniswa komlingiswa kuqala eminyakeni yobudala, futhi eminyakeni engaba ngu-15 umuntu unesimo sengqondo kwabanye. Intando ngesakhiwo somlingiswa iqala ukulungiswa ekukhuleni, futhi izisekelo zokuziphatha zakhiwa ngisho nasekusaneni. Ngesikhathi esineminyaka engu-17, ukuzinza kokubukwa kutholakala, izici ezizoba yisisekelo kulo lonke ukuphila zihlanganisiwe. Ngokwengqondo, kukholelwa ukuthi emva kweminyaka engu-30 yokuguqulwa kwesakhiwo somlingiswa womuntu kunzima kakhulu ukwenza, ukukholelwa ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi ubuntu buza nemibono evele ivele ngokugcwele.
Ukwakhiwa kobuntu ku-psychology
Izici eziyinhloko zobuntu zinokuxhumana okucacile phakathi kwabo, ukwakha isakhiwo somlingiswa. Ukwaziswa ngalolu hlelo luvumela, ukuthi uthole isici esisodwa kumuntu, ukuthatha ukuba khona kwalabo abahamba nabo, nokungabi khona kwamaqembu angaphikisana nesici esiveziwe.
Phakathi kwezici zomlingiswa, izici zamabanga aphansi neziyisisekelo, zokuxhumana, amabhizinisi, okugqugquzelayo nokuxhumana zihlukile. Ukuphuma kukhona amaqembu ezinkomba zomlingiswa - evamile futhi engavamile, kanye nezici ezithuthukisiwe ezithatha igebe phakathi kwalezi zibonda ezimbili.
Izici eziyinhloko zihlanganisa lezo ezibonakaliswa ngomlingiswa ngaphambi kweminye, kanti eyesibili yizo ezavela kamuva, futhi zenziwa ngesisekelo sokuqala. Izici eziyisisekelo (eziyisisekelo) ngokuvamile azikwazi ukushintshwa, ukuhlala nomuntu wokuphila. Futhi okwesibili - hhayi okuzinzile, kwenziwa izinguquko ngaphansi kwethonya lemicimbi ehlukahlukene.
Izici ezikhuthazayo zibonisa umsebenzi wokuziphatha nesiqondiso saso. Lokhu kubandakanya izintshisekelo kanye nezinhloso zomuntu, ngokujwayelekile, konke okwenza athathe isinyathelo. Izici ze-Instrumental zihlanganisa nalabo abasiza ekufezeni imigomo ezimweni ezithile. Okusho ukuthi lezi zici ziyindlela yokuthola okufunayo. Uma sesinqume lezi zici kumuntu, singachaza indlela yakhe yokuziphatha, kanye nokubikezela izenzo ezalandela.
Ngencazelo yezici ezijwayelekile, konke kulula kakhulu, lezi yizici ezikhethekile kubantu abangenakho ingqondo