Intsha ingayithanda kanjani amalungelo akhe?

Cishe bonke abesilisa nabesifazane abasencane baphupha ukuba babe abantu abadala ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze bathole wonke amalungelo abazali babo. Lesi sifiso sibangelwa ukuthi izingane zivame ukuzizwa njengezidalwa ezingenasidingo, ngoba zikholelwa ukuthi ziyizigqila futhi ziyaphoqeleka ukuba zilalele njalo intando kababa nomama, othisha nabanye abantu abadala.

Eqinisweni, kuzo zonke izimo zomthetho, kuhlanganise neRussia ne-Ukraine, abafana namantombazane asebancane banamalungelo amaningana angathí sina abenza amalungu agcwele emphakathini. Okwamanje, akuwona wonke umntwana owazi kahle isimo sakhe somthetho ngakho-ke akaqondi ukuthi singasetshenziswa kanjani.

Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi ingane ingathokozela kanjani amalungelo akhe okuzizwa eyisakhamuzi esiphelele sezwe lakhe, hhayi iseli elingenamandla lomphakathi elihlala kuphela embonweni womunye umuntu.

Yimaphi amalungelo ingane enayo?

Uhlu lwamalungelo ayisisekelo abasha lufana nawo wonke amazwe angokomthetho. Lezi zibandakanya ilungelo lokuphila, ukuvikelwa, ukuthuthukiswa, kanye nokubamba iqhaza okusebenzayo empilweni yomphakathi. Njengoba iningi lempilo yomntwana osemusha eqhubeka esikoleni, kulesi sikhungo semfundo okufanele aqaphele amalungelo akhe amaningi. Ikakhulukazi, intsha ingasebenzisa amalungelo akhe ngezindlela ezifana nalezi:

• ukuthola ulwazi oludingekayo nemfundo edingekayo emtatsheni wezincwadi;
• khetha ngokuzikhethela uhlelo lwezemfundo;
• ngokwabo bayodluliselwa kwesinye isikole noma esikoleni sobuchwepheshe;
• ukuveza imibono nezinkolelo zabo kunoma yiziphi izindlela ezitholakalayo;
• ukudala izinhlangano zomphakathi esikoleni.

Emndenini wakhe, intombazane noma intombazane ekhulile nayo inelungelo eligcwele lokuhlanganyela ezingxoxweni, ukuveza isikhundla somuntu siqu nokuhlonipha izinkolelo zakhe. Empeleni, ngokwenza lokhu akusilo njalo, futhi abanye abazali bakhulisa izingane zabo, bakholelwa ukuthi inzalo yabo kufanele ilalele ngokuphelele izifiso zabo zonke izindlela.

Emikhayeni enjalo, ingane engeke ihambisane nemibono yesizukulwane esidala ibhekene nokungazinaki izinkolelo zakhe, ukuphoqelela ukwenza isenzo noma ngisho nodlame. Kodwa-ke, namuhla ngezici zobudlova ezinganeni ezitholakalayo zingatholakala ezindongeni zesikole.

Izenzo ezinjalo zabantu abadala zivumelekile neze kunoma yisiphi isimo somthetho, ngoba baphula inani elikhulu lamalungelo wengane encane. Yingakho yonke intsha idinga ukwazi ukuthi ingavikela kanjani amalungelo akhe. Kuzo zonke izimo lapho umntwana ekholelwa ukuthi amalungelo akhe aphulwe, unelungelo lokufaka izicelo ezinhlanganweni ezikhethekile - amaphoyisa, ihhovisi lezeshushisi, ikhomishana yezindaba zabantwana, iziphathimandla zokugcinwa kanye neziphathimandla ze-trusteeship, uKhomishane wamalungelo omntwana nokunye.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, esikoleni esilandelayo, amaqembu abasha anelungelo lokuqhuba imihlangano ekhethekile kanye nemihlangano emikhulu ngokuphakanyiswa kwezidingo ezingahambisani nomthetho wamanje.