Ukufa komuntu othandekayo kuyisihlungu esikhulu, kodwa nalokhu, izinkinga eziningi zibhekene nezihlwele zezihlobo, okumele zixazululwe ngokushesha. Ngokwezinga elikhulu, lokhu kusebenza kumasiko okungcwaba esontweni.
Iyini i-requiem futhi iyalwe nini?
Inkonzo yomngcwabo yinkonzo yesonto eyenziwa kumuntu oshonile, ngisho nasezinsukwini zokuzalwa kwakhe, ingelosi nokuvuka. Ngemuva kokuba umphefumulo uphume emzimbeni, uhamba nezilingo eziningi, ngakho-ke udinga usizo lwesonto. Kukholelwa ukuthi i-requiem iyasiza umphefumulo ukuba uguqule ube ngenye impilo.
Ukuqonda ukuthi yini i-requiem esontweni, kufanelekile ukusho uma kungcono ukuhleleka:
- Ngosuku lwesithathu emva kokufa, umphefumulo uwela ekukhulekeleni uNkulunkulu, ngakho-ke kunconywa ukuba ulandise inkonzo yomngcwabo ngalolo suku ukusekela umphefumulo. Kungcono ukubuza umpristi ukuthi akhonze eduze kwethuneni.
- Ngosuku lwesishiyagalolunye nesishiyagalolunye, futhi, umphefumulo ufika kuNkulunkulu futhi insimu yomngcwabo ibalulekile ukuphindaphinda futhi.
- Ukubhekana nazo zonke izinkinga ngosizo lwe-requiem yomphefumulo kuyoba lula kakhulu.
Ungalawula kanjani inkonzo yomngcwabo esontweni?
Uma ufuna ukuyala inkonzo yomngcwabo, kufanele uqale ukuya esontweni. Kulapho kudingekile ukuthi uvumelane nompristi mayelana ne-requiem, engasifunda kokubili esontweni nasethuneni. Ngisho ethempelini, udinga ukubhala inothi ngamagama abantu abafuna ukubalula phakathi nesevisi. Kusadingeka ukwazi ukuthi yini okufanele ulethe esontweni nge-requiem. Ukuya esontweni ukuze uhlele inkonzo, udinga ukuthatha nawe isethi ethile yemikhiqizo esele etafuleni le-panihid. Bayihlobo lomusa olunikezwa udumo lomuntu oshonile. Esikhathini esitokisini se-requiem singabekwa: imikhiqizo ehlukahlukene yokubhekwa, okusanhlamvu, izithelo, imifino, iwayini, amaqanda, ibhotela, ushukela namaswidi. Imikhiqizo engavinjelwe ihlanganisa ama-sausage ahlukene, inyama kanye nokudla okungcolile.