Ungasusa kanjani isipelingi?

Uma usungile ngokuqondile ukuthi uyipela , ungasheshi ukwenza okuthile. Ukubhekana nalesi simo, udinga ukuqoqa ulwazi, ngoba izenzo ezingenakukwazi ukukusiza.

Ngingayikhipha yini isipele?

Kusukela kupela, ungakwazi futhi kufanele ususwe, ngoba ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle. Kodwa ungesabi. Okukhethwa kukho ukuxhumana nomnikazi othembekile ohlinzeka ngamasevisi omlingo. Akuphephile ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuphazamisa ngokuzimela kulezi zakhiwo ezicashile. Kodwa-ke, uma umlingo ophezulu kakhulu kunobuthakathaka, khona-ke wena ngokwakho uzothola ukuthi ungasusa kanjani isipele sothando.

Ungasusa kanjani isipela ngokwakho?

Ngokuya ngokuthi ngabe i-privorot engathí sina noma i-"withakathi" yasekhaya elula, kuyadingeka ukukhetha izinyathelo okufanele zithathwe. Uma kukhona ukulala nokulala, ukulahlekelwa amehlo, ukubuka okukhathele, nokukhanga kumuntu kuba yisintu - kuyisisindo esinzima somlingo omnyama. Kulesi simo kungcono ukuya kumchwepheshe ngaphandle kokulibala.

Uma uzizwa ukhathele, ukunganaki kuyashintsha ngokungahambi kahle, futhi kudonsela kumuntu oqashile, kodwa uqhubeka uphila impilo evamile - lokhu kungenelela emilenzeni elula, kungenzeka ukuthi uyinqobe. Cabanga izindlela zokususa isipele.

Hlanganisa ngemifanekiso

NgoLwesihlanu ekuseni, vuka ekuseni, ungaphuzi noma udle, ungakhulumi futhi ungenzi lutho. Woza esontweni, uthenge ikhandlela uphinde uye esitokisini, eduze lapho ubeka amakhandlela ukuphumula. Khanyisa ikhandlela bese uthinta amalangabi omlilo wekhandlela ngalinye elizoshisa, ethi: "Thatha nawe, bantu bakaNkulunkulu, ukukhathazeka okuphoqelelwe lapho isigqila (a) (igama eligcwele) likhonza. Wena - ukuthula kwezinkathazo zomhlaba, nami (yena, yena) - kusukela ekudleni kwesono. Egameni likaYise, neNdodana, noMoya oNgcwele. " Lindela izikhathi ezimbalwa ukushisa ikhandlela isikhathi eside.

Rite ngosawoti

Thela usawoti epanini nokushisa ekushiseni okuphakathi. Uma iqala ukuba mnyama, kuyisibonakaliso sesipelingi sothando. Thela usawoti isoso bese efaka isithombe somuntu othakazelisayo. Isithombe kufanele sibhekane phezulu. Yithi: "Usawoti mhlophe, usawoti uhlanzekile, ususe ezincekwini zikaNkulunkulu (ama-melancholy-mate). Susa konke okushiwo, udliwe ngokudla, udakwe ngamanzi, uthathwe ngendwangu. Letha iphunga emhlabeni, uphelele olwandle unomphela. Ilokhi ingezansi, futhi ukhiye usemlonyeni. " Dlulisa isithombe kusilawo bese uphinda isakhiwo.

Phinda inqubo yonke izinsuku ezintathu ngokulandelana, ngaphandle kokuguqula isithombe noma usawoti, futhi ngosuku lwesine, kulahla usawoti - kungcono ukuwufaka emhlabathini kude nomuzi. Ungadabuli isithombe noma usilahle, susa nje emehlweni akho.

Lezi zindlela zizosiza embuzweni wokuthi ungasusa kanjani isipele somyeni noma omunye umuntu oseduze, owenziwe imali.