Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu uzizwa engavamile. Noma ngisho nangokwengeziwe, akuzizwa kahle. Isimo sesifo esithile somuntu, ukuhlukaniswa kwabanye noma ngokuphelele izinqubo zengqondo. Ukuzwa okungokoqobo okwenzeka kuwe. E-psychoanalysis, le nqubo ibizwa ngokuthi i-depersonalization.
Kuyini ukuxoshwa komuntu?
Ukuzimela komuntu kuyinto ethakazelisayo. Akunakwenzeka nabantu abathile abakwazi ukugula ngengqondo. Ukuzibandakanya komuntu kungenziwa nomuntu ngamunye kulokhu noma leso sigaba sokuphila kwakhe. Izizathu zalokhu zingahluka ngokuphelele. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kwenzeka ngesikhathi umuntu ehlangabezana nesimo esithile esibuhlungu emoyeni wakhe - kungaba ukufa komuntu othandekayo, ingozi, ukucindezeleka. Ngakho-ke, umzimba wethu, njengokungathi, uvikelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho nokubuhlungu okuhambisana nalesi sikhathi. Ukuzimela phansi, njengoba kuchazwa ngengqondo ye-psychoanalyst, akuyona impumelelo ephumelela kakhulu ekusongweni kwangaphandle nangokwesaba kwangaphakathi. Ivumela ubuchopho bomuntu ukuthi bungabonakali futhi bunengqondo ukubuka isimo, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa imizwelo ngalesi sikhathi. Lokhu kuvamile esimweni sesikhathi esisodwa futhi, ngokuvamile, sidlula lapho isimo esibuhlungu siphelile. Okubi - uma iba isimo esingunaphakade.
Ukungena ngokuzimela kunempawu ezifana nalezi:
- ukuhlanekezela umbono, ukulahlekelwa ubunye;
- ukuzwa ukuhlukaniswa kwangaphakathi maqondana nemizwa nemicabango yomuntu;
- ukucabanga, njengokungathi, ukunyakaza komzimba wakho;
- ukulahlekelwa ikhono lokuveza injabulo, ukudabuka kanye neminye imizwa kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo;
- Izwi lakho lingabonakala lihlukile futhi lingabomunye umuntu.
Ama-Psychoanalysts, lapho ekhuluma mayelana nendlela yokuqeda u-depersonalization, ngokuvamile uncoma ukuphathwa kwengqondo kwengqondo. Bachazwa ukuthi leyo mizwa yokuhlukanisa nomuntu siqu emzimbeni wakhe - ungafihleli ngokwabo noma yini engavamile futhi engacacisiswanga. Kunezibonelo eziningi ezivela emisebenzini yombhalo lapho kuvela khona umuntu ngokuzenzekelayo - ukuzwa ukunganaki nokungakwazi ukubhekana nalokhu noma leso simo, ukuzibona bona njengokungaphandle, ukungavamile kwento yonke eyenzekayo - kubantu abajwayelekile nabanempilo. Kancane kancane, abantu bakholelwa ekutheni waphinde waqala ukuxhumana phakathi kwakhe kanye nakho konke okwenzeka kuye nakwaye.
Uma lokhu kungenele, khona-ke lapho ukwelashwa khona, kungenzeka ukuthi usebenzise i-hypnosis nokuqeqeshwa kwe-autogenic (ukukhuluma ngokwemvelo - ukuzibamba ngokweqile nokuzifundela). Ngesikhathi esifanayo, isondelene kakhulu nezokwelapha ezichazayo. Umuntu onomuntu ongenawo umuntu unikezwa isiphakamiso sokuthi angathuthukisa ngokuthula izwe elikuzungezile uma kwenzeka okuthile okuphazamisayo. Emva kwalokho, bamchazela ukuthi ukushintsha okunjalo kunciphisa umuzwa wokuhlukanisa futhi, ngokufanele, kunciphisa umuzwa wokwesaba okuhlobene nalokhu.
Lapho ochwepheshe be-depersonalization bengavumi kakhulu:
- ukubhema;
- ikhofi yokuphuza;
- ukuphuza utshwala.
Konke okunye, njengoba kwakushiwo ekuqaleni kwalesi sihloko, isifo sohlelo lwe-depersonalization luyinto evamile kakhulu. Ezimweni eziningi, idlula ngokwayo, ngokuncintisana nokusekelwa kwezihlobo nabantu abaseduze. Into eyinhloko ukuzilalela, kodwa ungazihlukanisi izingxenye!