Sonke kufanele senze ukukhetha ekuphileni ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngezinye izikhathi kufanele sikwenze emaminithini ambalwa. Isibonelo, uthenge ingubo noma i-blouse nge-trousers, iya ejimini noma ngosuku, bhala umbiko noma uhlole ibhalansi? Kukhona okukhethwa kukho futhi okuyinkimbinkimbi, ukulungiselela kuqala impilo eqhubekayo - ukhetho lomyeni, indawo yomsebenzi , indawo yokuphumula. Ekuphileni, konke kuyingqayizivele, futhi ngokuvamile silahleka, siyanqikaza, singakwazi ukwenza kahle.
Abaningi bethu ekusebenzeni kokusebenzisa izindlela eziyinqaba - bazama ukubona "izibonakaliso zesikhathi esizayo", beka usizo kumakhadi, ukubikezela inhlanhla , kodwa abazi ukuthi bangakhetha kanjani. Ngenhlanhla, ekucwaningweni kwengqondo, kunezinqubo ezithile ezisiza ukwenza izinqumo ezifanele.
Indlela yokwenza okulungile?
- Zama ukucabanga ukuthi ungashintsha kanjani impilo yakho yesikhathi esizayo nazo zonke izinto ozikhethayo, ubheke phambili eminyakeni eminingana noma ngisho namashumi eminyaka. Chaza izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zekusasa lakho, bese ukhetha ukuthi yini ezokuholela kuzo. Ingabe ukhetho lwakho luzokunika kude iphupho elibalulekile, kusuka kulokho okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe empilweni?
- Sebenzisa indlela endala, evivinywe futhi evivinywayo: uthathe ucezu lwephepha bese ubhala kulokho okuyizinzuzo nezingozi zenketho ngayinye, bese uhlola isici ngasinye ngokubaluleka kwakho kuwe, esilinganisweni sezinto eziyishumi. Bala imiphumela bese ukhetha.
- Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uzibuze - kungenzeka yini ukugwema ukukhetha izinto ezimbili okwamanje? Uma unqikaza kakhulu futhi ukhathazekile, lokhu kungase kube uphawu lokuthi akukho okukhethwa kukho okukhethwa kukho okukufanele.
- Amantombazane, ukwenza isinqumo esifanele, ngezinye izikhathi bathanda ukuxhumana nabangani nomndeni. Khetha kusuka endaweni ozungezile abantu abahlanu. Kufanele kube ngabantu abahlakaniphile, obahloniphayo, obazethembayo. Yiqiniso, akufanele bahileleke kule ndaba nganoma iyiphi indlela. Chaza isimo kubo, cela iseluleko.
Imizwa ezayo emva kokwenza isinqumo esifanele:
- uqinisekile ukuthi ukhetho ozokwenza esikhathini esizayo luzoletha izinzuzo, inzuzo nenjabulo;
- ngisho noma manje kunzima kuwe, amandla azobuya kancane kancane, futhi uzozizwa uzolile futhi uthula kwengqondo.
Uma wenze ukukhetha okungalungile, uzoba nesifiso esinamandla sokubuyela emuva, futhi i-alamu izokhuphula kuphela. Futhi khumbula - awukwazi ukulungisa amaphutha esidlule, udinga nje ukufika endleleni efanele manje, okwamanje. Into esemqoka ukukhetha okulungile namhlanje.