Ukwakhiwa kombono womphakathi

Umuntu nomphakathi abakwazi ukuba khona ngaphandle komunye nomunye. Ukubaluleka kanye nendima yombono womphakathi ngathi ngezinye izikhathi kakhulu. Sizokukhuluma ngendlela yokuphatha umbono womphakathi nokuqeda ubandlululo olungadingekile namuhla.

Ukuba noma ukungabi khona?

Kangaki ngaphambi kokuthi usho noma wenze okuthile, ingabe lo muntu ubala ukuthi kungenzeka kanjani kwabanye? Umbuzo wokuthi sibheka kanjani, ukubaluleka kokuhlola ngezinye izikhathi akuvumeli umuntu ukuba abuke njengoba umphefumulo wakhe uthanda. Akusizi ngalutho ngokuphelele ukudinga abantu ukuthi babonisane lapho benza isinqumo esibalulekile. Yiqiniso, uma ucela iseluleko kumuntu ophumelelayo, umqeqeshi, isibonelo, noma ukuqala ibhizinisi, kufanelekile. Kodwa uma ubuza uninakazi womamakazi uKlava, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kufanele uhlakulele ibhizinisi elifanayo - lokhu, uxolisa, uvele uphapheme. Lokhu kuziphatha kufana nesifiso sokuzikhulula ngomthwalo wemfanelo. Yebo, lokhu kuyisiphetho sababuthakathaka.

Inkinga yemibono yomphakathi, kubonakala kimi, kungukuthi kunqunywe inkululeko yabantu. Omunye ulungele ukubekezelela lokhu, kodwa abanye abakwenzi.

Yiqiniso, asikhulumi ngemithetho evumayo yokuziphatha nokuziphatha emphakathini. Labo abangathathi umbono womphakathi ngalolu daba kuyi-violation of order. Ngoba ukwephula kulandela isijeziso, lokhu kufanele kukhunjulwe.

Ukuphazamiseka kombono womphakathi kuqhutshwa nsuku zonke yizindaba, ukuyihlela nokuthinta abantu. Ngosizo lwezincwadi eziphrintiwe, ukuthanda izinto ezithandwayo zethelevishini, imibono ethuthukile, imikhuba, izidingo. Ukuhlwanyela ukwesaba noma ukufaka ukuthula kubuye kube ngaphansi kwezindaba ezihlukahlukene.

Abantu ikakhulukazi abakhathazekayo ngokuvamile "bahlupheka" ekucindezelekeni okunjalo. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde ukuhlala uzolile futhi ungalahlekelwa ukuzithiba, ukuhlola ngokucophelela konke esikusakazwayo. Akudingekile ukuba "udlule" izici ezingalungile, kungcono ukugwema ulwazi olunjalo. Nakekela izinzwa zakho, cabanga ngawe kanye nempilo yakho yengqondo.

Imisebenzi yombono womphakathi ilula. Ngaphansi kwethonya lamadivaysi okuphatha wezwe, abakhiqizi abakhulu, babonisa izinkanyezi zebhizinisi, ngokusebenzisa imithombo yezindaba, umbono womphakathi ukhiwa ezindabeni ezifanele emhlabeni jikelele. Umuntu ongeke anqobe "imvelo yengane" uyamukela futhi asekele lo mbono. Labo ababethemba lokhu, ngoba kunenzuzo.