NgesiNgisi, igama elithi "ukuhlaziywa kwamagugu" kunombhalo we-analogue, ohunyushwe ngokuthi "ukufuna umphefumulo." Lokhu kunjalo ngempela: isimiso samagugu omuntu sinquma impilo yakhe, imisebenzi kanye nemvelo.
Ukuhlolisisa izindinganiso zokuphila akuwona umsebenzi olula, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kuwumzamo omuhle. Uma uzizwa ukuthi yisikhathi sokuyeka nokubuyekeza izimiso zakho zokuphila, amathiphu alandelayo azokusiza.
Misa okwesikhashana
Okokuqala, vumela ukuthi ube "osolisayo". Uma imigomo endala ingasasebenzi futhi kukhona okungahambi kahle nabo, kuyinto evamile - ukuthatha ikhefu, ucabange futhi ubuyekeze kabusha.
Ngesinye isikhathi, endleleni, iya ezintabeni noma olwandle ukuze ucabange ngawe, esikhathini esidlule nesikhathi esizayo. Uma lokhu kungenakwenzeka, mane nje uqhubeke ukwenza imisebenzi yakho yansuku zonke, kodwa ushiye indawo nesikhathi sokuzindla nokuphumula. Umuntu, okhathele ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, akakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezinengqondo.
Lapha futhi manje
Inkinga yokubukeza kabusha kokubili izindinganiso ezingokomoya nezingokwenyama ngokuqondile ukuthi ungakwazi kanjani ukwabelana ngamaqhinga namasu. Abantu abaningi babiza "ukuhlaziywa kabusha" umzamo wokushintsha kancane isigqi sokuphila noma ukuphonsa okuthile okuphuma kuwo okuphazamisa. Ungacabangi nje kuphela ngalokho okufunayo, kodwa futhi nokuthi kungani ufuna. Yini okufanele ibe yimpilo yakho emva kokugcwalisa lesi sifiso ?
Ukucabanga ngalokho obona impilo yakho yesikhathi esizayo, zibuze imibuzo embalwa ehola phambili. Yini ofuna ukuba njengomntwana? Ingabe leli phupho likhona langempela manje? Yini oyithokozisa ngempela futhi ufuna ukubona imvelo eseduzane? Yiziphi amandla akho? Futhi umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu - uyini ubuthakathaka bakho, futhi ungasetshenziswa kanjani ukuthuthukisa impilo yakho?
Zonke lezi zimpendulo zizogcina zibe yingxenye eyodwa, futhi zibaluleke kakhulu: kungani uhlala nhlobo?