Kuyini ubuciko? Kubhalwe kwendawo yokugqoka, noma ivesi, eligcwele ukuhlangenwe nakho ngokomzwelo, umdwebo omusha wokwakha noma isitsha esimnandi esiphekwe ngumpheki? Ukuklama okuphefumulelwe umfutho womphefumulo kuboniswa ngezinto ezahlukene, kuyingqayizivele futhi kuyigugu hhayi kuphela kumlobi, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kubo bonke abantu.
Ukudala - kuyini?
Ukungafani kuyimigomo esemqoka yalo mqondo. Umqondo we "ubuciko" uchaza inqubo yomsebenzi womuntu, okwenza amanani athile, kokubili izinto ezibonakalayo nezingokomoya. Umphumela onjalo ungavela kuphela kumlobi walo msebenzi. Leli qiniso libuye linikeze inani lomphumela wokugcina. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ekwenzeni ukukhiqiza ngobuciko, umbhali uchaza izici zakhe.
I-Psychology yokudala
Isayensi, ubuchwepheshe, ubuciko, usuku oluvamile ekuphileni kwansuku zonke - konke lokhu kungaba yindawo lapho umuntu ebonisa khona ukuthi uyedwa. Isigaba sonke sengqondo sifunda umsebenzi wokudala womuntu. I-Psychology iqhaza ngokuzicabangela ukucabanga okudala nokudala , ukuphefumulelwa, ukucabanga, ukuzikhethela kanye nokufunda. Sekuyiminyaka, ukutadisha kulezi zindawo akuzange kube nezimpendulo ezicacile zemibuzo mayelana nokuthi yimuphi ubuciko nokuthi ungayifaka kanjani empilweni yabantu abavamile. Isisekelo se-psychology yobuciko ubuhlobo obuvela phakathi komlobi nomkhiqizo.
Ifilosofi yokudala
Umuntu akanalo umkhawulo ezweni lemifiso namafantasy. I-egoist idinga konke abanye abangenakho, indoda ekhishwe ngephupho, efisa into engekho emvelweni, kusuka kumuntu onengqondo ukoma ukudala okukhiphayo ulwazi lwezwe . Ifilosofi yonke yobuciko ihloswe ukuthi ubuhle nobuhle benziwa, futhi izinto ezidalwa zakhiwe ukuze kuzuze impucuko.
Izinhlobo zokwakha
Ubuntu bokudala bungayifaka ukugcwaliseka kwemibono yakhe, imibono, izindiza eziyinkimbinkimbi ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zomsebenzi:
- Ukuklama kwezesayensi - izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuthola, umkhiqizo wokugcina - ulwazi.
- Ukwakhiwa kwezobuciko kuyisisindo noma ukuthuthukiswa kwezobuchwepheshe, umkhiqizo wokugcina uyindlela noma ukuklama.
- Ukudala ubuciko kuyisisekelo sobuhle bezwe, isifiso sobuhle. Umkhiqizo wokugcina umfanekiso wesithombe (inkondlo, isithombe, isithombe).
- Ukwakhiwa ngokubambisana kuyimbono yemisebenzi yobuciko, incazelo yabo.
- Ukwakhiwa kwengane kuyindlela yokucabanga kwengane, ingqondo yakhe.
- Ubuciko bokufundisa kuyindlela ekhethekile yokufundisa ulwazi, inhloso yalo ukufundisa okuthile okusha.
Yini eyenza ukudala kumuntu?
Akekho ongakunika impendulo ecacile, ecacile yombuzo obhalwe. Ukuze uvule futhi uhlakulele amakhono okudala umuntu kufanele aziphendule kumbuzo, yikuphi ukuklama ngokuqondile kuye? Ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono abantu ngobuciko kungabangela ukuvumelana, kubalulekile ukuzama ukubuka umhlaba ojwayelekile ngezamehlo ezahlukene, kusuka ekhoneni elisha. Ukuhlanza ingqondo yakho kulula ukuyikhipha, bese kube khona okusha okuzokwethula umhlaba. Umdali wangempela uhlala, kuwo wonke umuntu.
Yini ekhuthaza ukudala?
Ukubekezela ezweni langaphandle nokuthula kwangaphakathi kuyisisekelo senqubo yokudala. Kumuntu ovulekile emhlabeni, ongenazo izinkolelo nokubandlulula, kulula ukuzwa indaba encane yokudala, uzizwe ukuphefumula komswakama ngemuva kwakhe:
- Kuyafaneleka ukuthola umculo owenza umphumela omuhle ohlelweni lokudala.
- Incwadi evela esandleni, hhayi ngekhompuyutha, ifaka isandla ekwakheni.
- Ukuzindla yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuphumula ukuze ulethe imicabango ngokuhlelekile.
- Amakilasi anezinhlangano zamahhala azovusa umcabango.
- Ungasindiswa, ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukucabanga okuthile okude kakhulu. Isibonelo, indlela yokugubha uNyaka Omusha ngo-2030.
- Imibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nembala eluhlaza kuthinta ubuciko.
- Ukushintsha kwezwe kungabangela ekudaleni.
- Hamba, ngisho nangamandla. Lokhu kuzoba nethonya elihle ebuchosheni.
- Yenza okuthile ngezandla zakho.
- Isitimela. Phakathi nemidlalo, akuyona nje umzimba oqiniswayo, kepha ubuchopho bukhululeke kakhulu.
- Zama okusha. Ukuphila nomsebenzi kuhlangene, imizwa emisha ingaletha, isibonelo, uhambo olwengeziwe, ukunqoba izintaba, ukucwiliswa ekujuleni kolwandle.
- Ukulala, khona-ke "ekuseni kuhlakaniphile kunobusuku" isebenza ngempela.
Ukuphi ukuklama kuqala kuphi?
Umqondo noma umqondo ukuqala kwanoma yimuphi umsebenzi womculi, umqambi, umlobi, umsunguli, umklami wefashini. Inqubo yokudala iqala ngomdwebo wokudweba, umklamo womsebenzi wonke. Umuntu ngamunye unenqubo ngale ndlela, kodwa njalo uhlukaniswe ngezigaba ezintathu. Ngaphandle kokuqaphela uhlelo olunjalo lokusebenza, lolu hlelo luzozalwa ngokuzenzekelayo futhi lungasetshenziswa ngaso sonke isikhathi.
- ukuhlonishwa nokucubungula okubonakalayo kokuvela;
- ukuvela komklamo wezobuciko;
- ukuqaphela umqondo.
Ukudala nokucabanga
Izithombe ezintsha zakhiwa ngesisekelo sezwe elizungezile. Kodwa enomqondo omuhle ngombono, benza umsebenzi uyingqayizivele ngempela. Imicabango yokudala ikuvumela ukuba uthole umbono wento ngenkathi wenza lokhu ngaphandle kokuxhumana naye. Ubuciko empilweni yomuntu kuhlale kuhlotshaniswa nomcabango, izibonelo zakhe zingabonakala lapho ufunda inqubo yokudala. Isibonelo, lapho udala izidalwa zezinganekwane nezinto ezihlukahlukene, amasu akhethekile asetshenziswa.
- ukuhambela - ukudlulisa okuzithobayo kwento ibe yizimo ezintsha, ezingavamile;
- ukuthayipha - ukwabela into ethile;
- ukufanisa - ukudala isithombe ngokufanisa nomunye;
- ukuphoqelela noma ukuphulukiswa;
- Imisebenzi emisha-izakhiwo nezakhiwo zithathwa into;
- ukuhlukunyezwa - ukwakha isithombe kusuka emibono emibili ehlukene.
Ukudala nobuciko
Ngokuvamile, abantu abaningi bayazibona lezi zengqondo njengeyodwa. Kodwa ukuqhathanisa okunjalo kuyiphutha. Igama elithi "ubuciko" ngasekupheleni kweminyaka engu-80 lafika emphakathini wezamabhizinisi, futhi ngemva kwalokho kwaqala ukusetshenziswa emibuthanweni eminingi. Ubuciko yikhono umuntu angabonisa ekucabangeni okungavamile, kokucabanga, ikhono lakhe lokukhuthaza imibono eyingqayizivele. Ukudala kuhilela imisebenzi yokudala, ikhono lokunqoba izinkolelo, lokhu kuyisisusa salokhu. Ukudala nobuciko kuhlobene kakhulu, kunzima kakhulu ukuhlukana komunye nomunye.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ubuciko?
Ukuzama okuningi, lokhu kuyindlela evamile yokuthuthukiswa komuntu kunoma iyiphi insimu. Amandla okudala omuntu angenamkhawulo, futhi ngokuqeqeshwa okulungile, angamangaza umnikazi, ongabaza ukuthi kukhona noma yikuphi ukuhleleka kokubumba ubuntu bakhe:
- Imikhosi yasekuseni. Ukuvuka, ngokushesha uthathe ipeni, inothi bese ubhala. Mayelana nalokho? Cishe konke! Into esemqoka ukubhala, awukwazi ukucabanga ngokukhethekile. Kufanele okungenani kubhalwe amagama okungenani angu-750.
- Sibuza umbuzo kunoma iyiphi into noma isenzo: "Kuthiwani uma?". Isibonelo, kuthiwani uma izinja zingakhuluma? Futhi kuthiwani uma bonke abantu emhlabeni bethula? Le ndlela yenzelwe ukuthuthukisa umcabango .
- Ukuchoboza futhi ujoyine amagama ahlukene. Le ndlela izokuphoqa ubuchopho ukucima ukucabanga okujwayelekile futhi kufaka ukucabanga. Kubalulekile ukuthatha amagama amabili ahlukene ukuze uwahlanganise. Isibonelo, umcamelo + ingubo = ukushaya, amakhethini + a tulle = igalari.
- Indlela ye-Torrens isekelwe kuhlobo olufanayo lwezinhlamvu, ezibizwa nangokuthi ama-doodle. Ekhasini ukudweba izimpawu ezifanayo (imibuthano eminingana noma izikwele, iziphambano, izambatho nokuningi). Sifaka iphutha bese sondela usebenzisa izibalo ezidwetshiwe.
- Indlela yezinto ezibalulekile. "Thatha" into engahleliwe, isibonelo ipensela, ikhefu, isibhakabhaka futhi uvule incwadi (iphephandaba, umagazini) kunoma yiliphi ikhasi. "Ukubamba" amagama angama-5 okungahleliwe, xhuma nabo ngendaba emlandweni.
I-Crisis Creative
I-Fantasy ayiphenduki, ukuphefumlelwa akufihlezi konke okuyimpunga futhi kulukhuni futhi ngokucacile akubambi ekuzalweni komqondo omusha noma ngobuciko obuhle. Inkinga yokudala ingathinta noma yimuphi umuntu onomsebenzi wakhe noma impilo yakhe nganoma iyiphi indlela ihlobene nokudala. Iyini inkinga yokudala? Ungabukeli izimpendulo ezweni elikuzungezile, ngaphandle kokuziqonda. Thola izimpendulo zemibuzo ethi "Kuyini ukudala? Ungaqala kanjani ukudala futhi? Kuphi ukuthola ukuphefumlelwa kokudala? "Ngeke kube okungaqondile, uma umuntu engatholi amandla ukuthola ukuthula.
Azikho izincomo eziyinkimbinkimbi ezingasiza ekusebenzeni izinqubo zokudala futhi zisinde inkinga yokudala:
- Kudingeka ukudala (ukubhala, ukudweba, ukuklama, njalonjalo) endaweni efanayo.
- Kudingekile ukuthi unikeze isikhathi esifanayo somsebenzi wokudala.
- Ngaphambi kokuqala, kufanele ulalele ingoma efanayo.
- Sebenzisa izinto ezifanayo ukuze usebenze, isibonelo, ngokubhala umhleli ofanayo wombhalo, ukudweba amabhulashi nama-easel avamile.
- Kufanele usebenze nsuku zonke, i-oda elibhubhisa kakhulu ngempelasonto.
Amabhuku mayelana nokudala
Ukudweba okuvela ezincwadini, abaningi baphefumulelwa ukuphila kwamaqhawe, izibonelo zokuphila kwabo. Izwe lokudala alijwayelekile, eliqhakazile futhi elinomdlandla elivezwe emisebenzini eminingi yabalobi abadumile:
- "Beba njengomculi" u-Austin Cleon . Umbhali utshela abafundi indlela yokuthola ubuciko.
- "Muse, kuphi amaphiko akho?" U-Yana Frank ugcwele ugqozi futhi wabhalwa abantu abaye banquma ukunikezela impilo yabo yonke ekudaleni ubuciko.
- "Ukuboniswa kwemibono" uScott Belksy uzokutshela indlela yokunqoba ukungabaza, ukubeka phambili phambili nokufeza imiphumela.
- "I-Genius yokuhleleka" evela kumlobi uMark Levy inikeza indlela engavamile yokuthola isisombululo senkinga - i-freeriding.
- "Yakha futhi uthengise" i-S . Voinskaya . Le ncwadi ilandisa indlela yokuthengisa indalo yakho.