Njengoba wazi, bonke abesifazane bavame ukukhathazeka kakhulu ngabathandekayo babo, kunzima kakhulu ukukhuthazelela ukulimala okubuhlungu, ngokungafani namadoda. Umthwalo omkhulu wemithwalo yemfanelo yezingane, imithwalo yemfanelo, ukupheka ukudla nsuku zonke, ngezinye izikhathi, ukucindezeleka komamazala, ukwesekwa kokuvumelana emphakathini - konke lokhu kuyathinta kakhulu impilo yengqondo yabesifazane.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, hhayi njalo, isigamu esihle sabantu sibhekene nokuphathwa kabi, ukukhwabanisa kwabantu, ukucindezeleka, okulimaza kakhulu impilo yengqondo yabesifazane, ukudala izinkimbinkimbi, ukuhlukanisa nokwehluleka. Kuyini ukuthula kwengqondo nokuzwana kobulili obuthakathaka, sizoxoxa ngakho esihlokweni sethu.
Impilo yengqondo nengokwengqondo yowesifazane
Ngeshwa, isiphetho sobulili obuthakathaka kuleli zwe cishe akunakushintshwa, ngoba imvelo ngokwayo idale abesifazane abangaphezu kokucasuka, abasengozini nabangokomzwelo.
Ngokuvamile, ubudlova nobuhlukumezi besilisa bushiya impendulo engapheli engqondweni yowesifazane futhi kuthinta ukwakhiwa kobuntu bakhe, ukuziphatha, ukuqonda kwezwe, impilo yengqondo nengqondo ngokujwayelekile. Ngenxa yalokho, izifo ze-psychosomatic, ukwesaba, ukungalingani, ukuhlukumezeka , izidakamizwa, njll zivela.
Ukuze wenze kube lula ukubona owesifazane onempilo enempilo kunempawu ezingu-7, lokhu kungukuthi:
- ukubukeka okuhle nokukhazimulayo, isikhumba esihlotshiwe kahle futhi esihlanzekile, njengoba kunesifiso sokubukeka sikhangele;
- ukungabi nesifiso sokuphuza njalo nokubhema;
- owesifazane ophilile ngokwengqondo, uzizwa eqiniseka ekukhulumeni nobulili obuhlukile futhi uphendula ngendlela efanele ngokuncoma kuye;
- isifiso sokuzithuthukisa, umsebenzi webhizinisi ozithandayo, okuletha injabulo;
- inkulumo efanele, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ulimi olubi;
- ukuhleka okunempilo, ikhono lokuqonda amahlaya;
- owesifazane ophilile ngokwengqondo, ngokuvamile engafuni ukudla amaswidi, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi amangqamuzana egeyimu athola ukudla okwanele, okuholela ekucaseni, futhi noma yikuphi ukuphikisana okuxazululwa ngokuthula.
Uma isithombe sonke sihluke kakhulu, kulokhu, owesifazane cishe udinga impilo yengqondo. Ngenxa yalokhu, ochwepheshe batusa ukuvakashela isazi sengqondo, ukuphazamisa emsebenzini ovamile, ukuphumula okuhle, ukuqala ukudlala ezemidlalo nokuhola indlela yokuphila enempilo.