Ukungqubuzana okungahambi kahle nezindlela zokuxazulula

Uma umuntu ephila ngokuvumelana naye kanye nezwe elizungezile, angabizwa ngokuthi umuntu ojabulayo. Kodwa-ke, uma ukungabaza kwangaphakathi kunganiki ukuphumula futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuhlushwa umphefumulo, sekuvele umbuzo wezingxabano ezingathandabuzeki. Siphakamisa ukuthi siqonde ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lokungqubuzana okungahambi kahle.

Iyiphi ingxabano engaphakathi komuntu?

Ochwepheshe besifo sengqondo bathi ukuphikisana kwempi kubangelwa ukungqubuzana phakathi kwezwe lomqondo womuntu, okuyinto ukushayisana kwezinhloso zayo eziqondiswe ngokuphikisana. Phakathi kwezizathu ezinjalo kunezidingo ezahlukene, izithakazelo, izindinganiso, imigomo kanye nemigomo. E-psychoanalysis, indawo eyinhloko inikezwa ukungqubuzana phakathi kwezidingo nezisekelo zomphakathi, kanye phakathi kwezidingo zomuntu uqobo.

Izimbangela Zokungqubuzana Nezingxabano

Kuyinto yesiko ukuhlukanisa izinhlobo ezintathu eziyinhloko zezizathu ezihlobene:

1. Ukungaphakathi - kuboniswe ngokuphikisana phakathi kwezinhloso ezihlukahlukene zomuntu ngokungabikho kwesivumelwano phakathi kwezingxenye zesakhiwo sangaphakathi.
2. Ngaphandle - kufakwe isimo somuntu eqenjini. Lapha, ukungqubuzana okungahambisani nomuntu kubangelwa ukungenzeki kokwanelisa izidingo zomuntu.
3. Ngaphandle, kufakwe isimo somuntu emphakathini, kuhlotshaniswa nomqondo onjengokungqubuzana okuphazamisayo okuvela ezingeni le-microsystem futhi kuvela esimweni sesimiso sezenhlalakahle kanye nokuphila komnotho.

Imisebenzi yezingxabano zangaphakathi

Izindlela ezilandelayo zokuzibandakanya komzimba zokuzivikela kwengqondo zibizwa ngokuthi imisebenzi eyakhayo neyingozi. Ochwepheshe bokuqala emkhakheni wezifo zengqondo bahlanganisa:

1. Ukuxhumana (ulwazi, noma ukuxhumanisa) - abantu baqala ukubonana, ukuqonda nokuhlangana kancane kancane.
2. Umsebenzi we-stimulant kanye namandla angaphatha izinguquko zomphakathi.
3. Umsebenzi ukugqugquzela ukwakhiwa kwebhalansi edingekayo emphakathini.
4. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi ngokudalula izithakazelo ezihlukahlukene.
5. Usizo ekuhloliseni imigomo namagugu endala.

Imisebenzi yesibili ivame uku:

1. Ukunganeliseki, ukulahlekelwa komkhiqizo, isimo sengqondo esimpofu sengqondo .
2. Ukuphulwa kwezinhlelo zokuxhumana.
3. Ukuzinikela eqenjini lakho kanye nokuntuleka komncintiswano nabanye.
4. Umcabango womunye njengesitha.
5. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukunqoba le mpikiswano kunokuxazulula inkinga.
6. izimpawu zokungqubuzana kwangaphakathi

Umqondo onjengokungqubuzana okungahambisani nomuntu unezici ezilandelayo:

1. Hlanganisa zonke izakhi ze-worldview yangaphakathi yomuntu ngamunye.
2. Kunokuphikisana phakathi kwezintshisekelo, imigomo, imizwelo nezifiso.
3. Ukubukeka kokungalungi.

Izinhlobo zokungqubuzana okungahambi kahle

Izazi zengqondo zibiza izinhlobo ezinjalo zokungqubuzana komuntu:

1. Ukugqugquzela - kungavumelani phakathi kwezifiso zokuba nokuphepha.
2. Ukuziphatha - akukho ukulandelana kwezindlela zokuziphatha zomuntu siqu nezokuziphatha.
3. Ukuguquguquka - ukuyinkimbinkimbi kokujwayela emkhakheni wezemfundo nomphakathi.
4. Ukuzithemba okunganele kungavumelani phakathi kokuhlolwa kwamakhono akho kanye nezimangalo zomuntu.
5. Indima ephakathi - ukungakwazi ukwenza izindima ezimbalwa ngesikhathi esisodwa.
6. Indima yomuntu- ukungqubuzana kwemisebenzi yakhe ngenxa yekhono, noma ukutholakala kwesifiso.
7. Ukungqubuzana kwezidingo - phakathi kwezimiso zomphakathi nezidingo.

Izindlela zokuxazulula izingxabano zangaphandle

Ochwepheshe bakhuluma mayelana nendlela yokuxazulula ukungqubuzana komuntu. Phakathi kwezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu:

1. Ukuncintisana kubaluleke kakhulu ngesikhathi sokubona nokuxazulula izinkinga ezingenakubalwa.
2. Ukunakekelwa - ngezinye izikhathi udinga "ukuyeka" isimo futhi ungazami ukuyixazulula.
3. Ukubuyiselwa kabusha ukushintsha isimo sengqondo somuntu ngesento.
4. Ukunciphisa amandla ukudluliselwa kwamandla kwisiteshi esivela emphakathini.
5. Ukuhlelwa kwemicabango kuyinkumbulo , amaphupho, ukuhlukana nokuyiqiniso.
6. Ukucindezeleka kuyithonya lemicabango, izifiso nezinhloso zomuntu siqu zokunciphisa kwabo.
7. Ukulungiswa - isimo sengqondo esifanele wena nomhlaba wakho wangaphakathi.

Imiphumela yezingxabano zangaphakathi

Ekhuluma ngento enjengokungqubuzana kwangaphakathi, kubalulekile ukusho ngemiphumela yayo. Babiza imiphumela emihle futhi emibi. Phakathi kokubi:

• ukubambezeleka ekuthuthukiseni komuntu siqu;
• ukungahlehlisi;
• ukusola ngokweqile, ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka;
• ukungakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yomphakathi nemuntu siqu;
• ukuhlukunyezwa noma ukuhambisa;
• ukungaqiniseki ngamakhono abo;
• ukungabonakali kwencazelo yokuphila;
• ukuhlukunyezwa nokulahlwa noma yikuphi ukugxekwa ekhelini labo;
• icala labanye ngokuhluleka kwabo;
• ngezinye izikhathi kukhona ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi kanye neurosis.

Phakathi kwemiphumela emihle:

• ukuphoqa intando nobuntu bomuntu ;
• ukuzithuthukisa nokuzithuthukisa;
• ukugqugquzela izinsiza zomuntu siqu;
• ukuzinza kwe-psyche.