Kubonakala sengathi ayiyona intombazane, kodwa ingakabi nkosikazi kaBalzac - owesifazane, kodwa ingahluka. Omunye uguqula izingubo ezincane zezingubo zezingubo zezingubo zezintambo ezenziwe ngendlela ehlelekile, okhokhela isikhathi futhi abuke esikhathini esizayo ngethemba, kanti omunye uguqula ezithombeni, ubeka into engenasimo futhi ekhononda, ekhononda, ekhononda ... Lesi simo sibizwa ngokuthi "u-anti's syndrome" , uma ungalindeli lutho oluhle empilweni, awuboni isizathu sokuzibuka futhi ushiye ngokuphelele impilo nokunakekela izingane.
Imiyalo engu-8 noma indlela yokukhipha isifo sika-anti wakho
- Okokuqala, udinga ukubuyisa lona wesifazane. Yiqiniso, ukuhamba nengane kuhamba kahle izicathulo noma izicathulo ze-ballet, kodwa izicathulo ezibhekene ne-hairpin kufanele zibekwe ekhabethe lakwabo bonke abesifazane, njengezigqoko ezimbili endleleni yokuphuma. Ngaphansi komsila ongenamanzi ekhanda lakho: yisikhathi sokushintsha isithombe, ukwenza ukubheja ekukhanyeni nobuntu. Kudingekile ukuba ufunde ukuzethemba ukuthi usese-go-go! Futhi ubudala akusona isithiyo.
- Yenza konke ngokunethezeka nangothando. Ukuze uzizwe ukhululekile futhi ujabulele njalo umzuzu owenziwe nezingane nomyeni, kubalulekile ukushiya indima yehhashi eliqhutshwayo. Isikhathi esanele sokuhlanza? Kubalulekile ukuheha indodana yakhe noma indodakazi yakhe, futhi ungakwazi ukuya ezitolo kanye nomndeni wonke ngempelasonto.
- Kubonakala kuhle ngisho nasekhaya, lapho kungekho muntu ngaphandle komndeni ebona. I-bathrobe endala eyintandokazi ishintshwe ngekithi elula, futhi ayikho izinwele ezingcolile nezipikili ezihlosiwe kahle.
- Ungakhathazeki ngemibono yabanye abantu. Kuyinto "omama" kuphela abathandekayo, "ukuthi abantu bayothini." Owesifazane othembekile uhamba ngokuphila ekhanda lakhe eliphethwe phezulu futhi enza kuphela lokho akufunayo, ngaphandle kokubuka umbono womunye umuntu.
- Lahla isifo sika-anti wakho, ukhumbule ukuthi akekho okhokhelwa lutho kunoma ubani. Umama nomama akudingeki bahlale amahora esitofu, balungiselele i-raznosoly njalo nsuku zonke endlini. Ekugcineni, uma iphansi ligeza kuphela kanye ngesonto, akekho ozofa ngalo, futhi esikhundleni sesidlo sezinsuku ezingu-5 unganikela ekhaya okuthile kusuka kwimikhiqizo eqedile .
- Umshado ohlanganisiwe, indoda ngokuyinhloko ifuna ukubona eduze komuntu wesifazane - umngane, umthandi nomuzi,
kodwa hhayi umpheki nomhlanzi. Ungabuza noma yiluphi ilunga lezocansi ezinamandla ukuthi angathanda ukuthini: indlu ehlanzekile ne-borsch, kodwa umfazi othukuthele noma oxabanayo noma amaqanda othosiwe kanye nocansi olungavunyelwe, kodwa ehambisana nenhle, ekhohlisa, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke owesifazane onomusa, kukho konke futhi njalo usekela umyeni wakhe? Impendulo ayinangqondo. - U-Aunt's syndrome uzohamba uma uzijabulisa wena, abanye, usuku olusha, umoya oshisayo kanye nazo zonke izinto ezincane ezenza impilo.
- Njalo futhi yonke indawo ulungele ucansi. Ungesabi ukuhlolwa futhi ujabulele umlingani wakho.