Ubudlova obungokomzwelo buyinkimbinkimbi yezenzo ezinomthelela omubi engqondweni yomunye umuntu. Lokhu kungaba ukuvezwa ngamazwi, ukuhlambalaza nokukhala, ezinye izinhlobo zengcindezi engokomzwelo, ezonakele.
Izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo
Izimpawu ezilandelayo zibonisa ngokucacile ukuthi umuntu uhlangabezana nobudlova obungokomzwelo:
- ukucindezeleka okungazelelwe ngaphandle kwesizathu esicacile;
- isifiso sokuvikelwa ezweni lonke;
- ukuzethemba okuphansi ;
- ukukhathazeka okuqhubekayo, ubumnyama, ukwesaba, ukwesaba;
- ukubonakala kokuzibulala, ukuthanda ngokweqile utshwala.
Izinhlobo zokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo
Izinhlobo ezilandelayo zobudlova ngokomzwelo zihlukaniswa:
- ukungazinaki - kumuntu uphathwa ngokunganaki okugcizelelayo;
- ukuzihlukanisa - umuntu uvunyelwe ukwenza noma yiziphi izenzo;
- ukuxolisa - umuntu uxhaswa ngamagama noma izenzo;
- ukuhlazeka - phezu kwendoda ehlekwa ngendlela ehlambalaza, ehlambalaza njalo;
- ukuziphatha okungalindelekile - umuntu ngokoqobo akwazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela "kumbulali" wakhe wesibili esilandelayo.
Ungamelana kanjani nodlame lomzwelo emndenini?
Ngokuvamile, abantu bangaphansi kwengcindezi yengqondo emsebenzini noma emndenini, futhi uma okokuqala ungakwazi nje ukuyeka, khona-ke okwesibini awukwazi ukuxazulula inkinga ngokuthi "ubalekele". Kodwa, kunoma yikuphi, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo phezu komuntu siqu akubekezeli. Kubalulekile ukuyeka ukuzwa sengathi uyisisulu: qaphela, ekugcineni, ukuthi awubi kakhulu kunabanye, awukho iphutha. Ukuthuka nokuhlazisa wena akekho onelungelo. Bheka umonile ngqo ebusweni futhi uyimemezele ngesibindi. Ngokuqinisekile umnyatheli wezindlu uzoba namahloni futhi akushiye wedwa, ngoba akajwayele ukukuphikisa. Uma ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo emndenini kuvezwa yintsana, intombazane, khona-ke ingakwazi ukucela usizo kumuntu wezokwelapha esikoleni noma ukubiza ucingo olukhethekile losizo.