Umqondo wokubekezela uvela ekubekezeleni kwezwi. Ukubekezela ukuphatha ngokuhlonipha imibono yabantu, izitatimende nokubukwa, ukuthatha izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zokuziveza kanye nokubonakaliswa komuntu siqu. Lolu hlobo lokubekezelelana akuyona nje umsebenzi wokuziphatha wonke umuntu okhululekile, kodwa futhi nesidingo esingokomthetho. Izimo zengqondo ezibekezelayo ziwubufakazi bokuthi kukhona khona imigomo yentando yeningi emphakathini.
Izibonelo zokubekezela zingatholakala eBhayibhelini, ngoba ukubekezela ebuKristwini kubhekwa njengenye yezimfanelo ezinhle. Ukubekezela abantu abahlelekile kakhulu futhi abakhulekeleyo, ikakhulukazi abaculi nabaculi, izibalo zomphakathi. Izinga eliphakeme lokubekezelelana lingabonakaliswa yizitatimende ezinjengokuthi "kumnandi ukuxhumana nalo muntu", "abamele lesi sizwe bavame ukuba abantu abalungile". Izitatimende ezinjengokuthi "Ngiyamzonda lo muntu", "Ngicasuliwe ngokuba khona kwakhe", "Angikuhlala egumbini elifanayo njengomJuda", njll, angakufakazela ukungabi nokubekezelelana.
Inkinga yokubekezelelana ukuthi abantu abangafundile bajwayele ukukucabangela ukuzenzisa, ukuvuma noma ukuzithokozisa, ukwamukelwa kokholo lwezinkolelo zabanye. Empeleni, lo mbono awunasisekelo, ngoba ukubekezelelana ngokuyinhloko umbono wezwe ngamehlo omuntu okhululekile.
Ukwakhiwa kokubekezelelana
Kubalulekile ukubeka imigomo eyisisekelo yomqondo wokubekezela emhlabeni kusukela ebuntwaneni, ngakho indlela ephumelela kakhulu yokuthuthukisa le mfanelo ikhuliswa. Inqubo enjalo yemfundo kumele iqale ngokuchazwa kwenkululeko evamile kanye namalungelo. Ukwenza lokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi inqubomgomo yemfundo yomphakathi inikeze ekuthuthukiseni ukuqonda okufanayo nokubekezelelana kwezici zenhlalo, amasiko nezenkolo, njengoba inqubo yokufundisa ubuntu obunokubekezela ihlanganiswa nokuthuthukiswa kokubekezelelana esifundazweni.
Imfundo ngesimo sengqondo sokubekezela kumele yenze intsha amakhono amakhono okucabangela kanye nemigomo yokwenza izinqumo ezisekelwe ezindinganisweni zokuziphatha zomhlaba wonke. Ubuntu obubekezelayo abubekezeli ukuphulwa kwemigomo eyisisekelo yesintu kanye namalungelo ayisisekelo angabonakali abantu. Imfundo iyinhloko enkulu yethonya ekungabekezelelani emphakathini.
Izinto Zokubekezela
Izinto zokuziphatha komuntu obekezelayo:
- ukuhlonipha umbono womunye umuntu;
- Ukubekezela kubantu abaneminye imibono empilweni;
- isimo sengqondo esingalungile ngokubhekisela ekugqibeleni.
Ukuhlukumeza ukubekezelelana kungalandelwa ngokungayigcini imithetho yayo, njengokubekezela nokuhlonipha.
Amazinga okubekezela
- Ukubekezelelana kokuxhumana okuhambisana nendawo. Kuboniswe ebuhlotsheni bomuntu kubantu abakuzungezile - abahlali, izihlobo, abashade naye.
- Ukubekezelelana ngokwemvelo kokukhuluma. Kubonakala ngokuqondene nomuntu ezinhlobonhlobo zobuntu - iqembu elithile labantu
yena, i-social stratum, ubuzwe. - Ukubekezela okukhulumisana kahle. Kubonakala ngokuphathelene nomuntu kumakhasimende noma abasebenzi, abameleli bomsebenzi wabo.
Ukubaluleka kokubekezelelana akukwazi ukuphikisana, ngoba kungenxa yokuthi singaphatha ngokuhlonipha nokuqonda izici zamasiko ezinye izizwe. Ukubekezela okusivumela ukuba siphathe ngokulinganayo futhi samukele abantu abalingana nabangenayo, hhayi kuphela ukuba nombono wethu ngento ethile, kodwa futhi ukuvumela amanye amalungu omphakathi ukuba abe nemibono yawo.