Uyabona izinto ezingavamile, isibonelo, isifiso esingenakuphikiswa sokubeka esikhwameni isikhumba noma izinongo ezivela endaweni yokudlela? Mhlawumbe, ebuya ezihambelwaneni, ingabe uthatha ngokuzithandela nawe ezinye izinto? Ukuba khona kwesimo esinjengokuntuleka kokulawula nokungazi kwezenzo zakho kubonisa ukuba khona kwesifo esinjalo njengekleptomania. Mayelana nalokhu futhi ukhulume namhlanje. Mayelana nezimbangela nezimpawu ze-Kleptomania yisifiso esingenakuphikiswa sokuba izinto umuntu akudingi. Lokhu, njengomthetho, ezinye izinto ezincane: izinkinobho zokukhiya nezinhlobonhlobo ezihlukahlukene ezigciniwe zokukhangisa, amasokisi, amabharrette kanye nezinye izinto ezimakethe nasezimakethe.
I-Kleptomania ingukugula kwengqondo okudinga ukwelashwa. Ngaphandle kwalokho, lesi sifo singalimaza kakhulu umuntu. Izimbangela ze-kleptomania okuqukethwe okungokwengqondo kuphela. Ake sicabangele izimo eziyisisekelo zokutholakala kwalesi sifo:
- ebuntwaneni, umuntu wayenqatshelwe abaningi, futhi ngenxa yalokho, lapho ekhula, angase abe nokuntuleka okunamandla kuzo zonke izinto ezibonakalayo;
- ukukhathazeka kwangaphakathi, ukwesaba, izimo ezicindezelayo kungabangela ukuhlaselwa kwe-kleptomania, lapho umuntu ezama ukukhokhela "ukulahlekelwa";
- izinkinga ekuphileni kwakhe. Izinto ezingabalulekile ezingabalulekile abantu "bagcwalisa" ukungabi nalutho emphefumulweni. Kodwa-ke, akukho izinto ezibuyisela umuzwa wothando nobungane;
- ukuhlukunyezwa kwekhanda;
- ukuzalwa.
Iziguli ezine-kleptomania zenza ukweba ngoba lesi sifiso sinamandla kangangokuthi akunakwenzeka ukumelana nayo. Lesi simo sihambisana nokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka. Ukweba into kusho ukuqeda le mizwa engathandeki. Phakathi nokweba, i-kleptomaniac ikhululiwe.
Izimpawu ze-kleptomania
Namuhla, ukunquma ukuthi umuntu unalesi sifo kungaba semibandela eminingi:
- ukuzithiba okungavinjelwe ukweba into engekho isidingo;
- ukungezwani okubonakalayo, okuholele ekutheni;
- umqondo wenjabulo nokwaneliseka kulolu hlelo;
- inhlanhla ngemuva kokuba le nto ibwebiwe.
Kudingeka isenzo
Uma umuntu engakwazi ukunqoba ngokuzimela nokuqeda le mania, kubalulekile ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe. Isazi sengqondo sizobeka ukwelashwa okuzothatha i-kleptomania ngaphansi kokulawula. Indlela yokwelapha lesi sifo abathola izifo zengqondo bazi. Okokuqala, uzobuzwa imibuzo eminingi ezoqondisa udokotela mayelana nokuthi isifo sithinta kanjani. Unganikezwa izidakamizwa ezisetshenziselwa ukuphatha ukuxhomeka kotshwala. Imithi efanelekile isusa ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka, usizo lokuphumula. Imoya yakho iyoba ngcono ngokuphawulekayo, futhi umuzwa omuhle wokwenza ukweba uzokushiya kuze kube phakade.