Zingaki izikhathi ongazange uzibheke esiqandisini nanoma yini osuke uvele kuyo, ngeke ukwazi ukuxazulula inkinga yakho ngale ndlela. Iqiniso liwukuthi ngokuvamile ukutholakala kwenkinga kusenza sigxile ekudleni. Sizama "ukubamba" usizi lwethu, sigcwalise ukungabi nalutho emphefumulweni, ukunqoba ukukhathazeka. Le ndlela kuphela engasebenzi, "ukwaneliseka ngokuphila" kufushane kakhulu, futhi umphumela ukhulu kakhulu. Ukuthembela kwengqondo ekudleni akukona umusho, ungakwazi ukuqeda lobu buthakathaka, into esemqoka ukwazi ukuthi kanjani.
Siphatha imbangela, hhayi isifo
Ukuthembela ekudleni, njengoba sesichazile kakade, kungokwemvelo. Uma umphefumulo ungakhathazeki, sesaba okuthile, asikwazi ukuxazulula noma iyiphi inkinga, asinayo injabulo eyanele, bese sifika esiqandisini, ngethemba lokuthi kuzoba ngcono kithi. Mhlawumbe, ukudliwa nge-ayisikhilimu kuzosinika injabulo, kusize ukukhohlwa inkinga okwesikhashana, kodwa injabulo ngeke ihlale isikhathi eside. Impilo yengqondo nempilo yengqondo imiqondo ehluke ngokuphelele. Yiqiniso, omunye kuncike komunye, kukhona ubuhlobo obuseduze phakathi kwabo. Noma kunjalo, impilo yengqondo inegalelo elikhulu empilweni yangokwenyama. Ngamanye amazwi, yiziphi imicabango esizivakashelayo-okungahambi kahle noma okungahambisani nokunganakwa-umzimba wethu usezingeni elifanayo. Maye, kodwa isisu esiphelele ngeke sisenze sibe nethemba, lokhu kuphela okwanele.
Indlela yokuwina, isazi sezengqondo esikwaziyo sinokwazi ukunqoba ukuncika kwakhe ekudleni. Ochwepheshe bale phrofayili bafunde izimbangela zokuzamazama ngokomzwelo. Ukwelashwa akusekelwe emithini, kodwa ngamazwi, ekuhlaziyweni kwengqondo komuntu. Ukuthola imbangela yalokhu "ukugula", ukukunikeza ukuhlolwa okuhloswe (ukubuka kwangaphandle), ukunikeza ezinye izixazululo zenkinga - leyo yindlela efanele yokuqeda ukuxhomeka okulimazayo. Uma nje uqonda inkinga yakho, bheka "isitha ebusweni", qhubeka nesisombululo sakho, khona-ke izenzakalo zakho ekhishini zizoyeka. Noma yikuphi, ukuthembela ekudleni kudinga ukwelashwa. Uma ufuna ukubhekana nesimo sakho siqu, khona-ke ungazama okulandelayo:
- Thokozisa impilo yakho. Bheka wena ngaphandle bese uhlaziye impilo yakho. Uyajabula kangakanani wena, umsebenzi wakho, impilo yakho.
Konke lokhu kungcono ukubhala ephepheni. - Bhala into ongathanda ukuyishintsha empilweni yakho, ukwengeza, ukhohlwa. Bhala imigomo yakho, izifiso zakho.
- Phakamisa izinketho zokuxazulula izinkinga zakho, ukuqaphela imigomo nezifiso, ukubhala imisebenzi.
- Beka uhlaka lwesikhathi somsebenzi ngamunye bese uqala ukulandela uhlelo lwakho.
Akukaze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu ukushintsha okuthile empilweni yakho. Ngenkathi kukhona amandla nesifiso, kuyilapho imivimbo ibetha igazi, umuntu kumele aphile. Shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo empilweni, ujabulele lokho onakho futhi uzame ukuba ngcono.