Ngamunye wethu unemisebenzi ethile yemisebenzi yasendlini okufanele yenziwe nsuku zonke. Yenza imenyu yamasonto onke, ulungise ukudla, uhlanzeke, ugeze, njll. Ngesinye isikhathi bathatha isikhathi, ongasilahla ngokuhlukile. Ekupheleni kwesonto isikhathi eside ungabheki nodoti olusha endlini, udinga ukwenza uhlelo lwemisebenzi yasendlini bese ulwenza nsuku zonke ngezigaba ezincane. Lokhu kuzokhipha ngempelasonto ngemisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu.
Umuntu unezikhathi lapho esebenza kakhulu futhi ecindezelwe amandla. Izinga lokugqugquzela lingashintsha nsuku zonke. Ngakho-ke, wonke umuntu, azi yena ngokwakhe, angakhetha isikhathi esikahle lapho enza imisebenzi yasendlini.
Imisebenzi yasekhaya yowesilisa nowesifazane
Njalo kwakukhona umbuzo owubuciko - ngubani nokuthi yini okufanele ayenze eduze kwendlu. Akekho owayengachaza ukuthi isiphi isabelo sokusabalalisa esenzelwe imisebenzi yasendlini nabesilisa. Esikhathini esidlule, kwakuwumsebenzi wesimame ukukhulisa izingane nokugcina umyalelo endlini, kodwa namuhla abesifazane baqala ukusebenza futhi banomthelela kwisabelomali somndeni. Izikhathi zishintsha, ngakho abesifazane bazama ukwenza konke ngokubili, ukukhulisa izingane, ukuhlanza, ukupheka, sicela umyeni, futhi ngisho nokuthi umsebenzi awubi nakakhulu kunalokho. Ngeshwa, namuhla kunemindeni embalwa lapho umyeni angakwazi ukukuhlinzeka ngokugcwele umndeni, futhi owesifazane naye kufanele afune indlela yokuthola imali. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka okuningi kunomyeni wakhe, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo yonke imisebenzi yendlu ihlale ihlala kuye kuphela.
Ngakho-ke kuthiwani uma oshade naye esevele ekwazi ukubhala phansi konke okusemandleni alolu hlu lwezindaba zasekhaya zabesifazane? Okokuqala, cela umyeni wakho ukuba asize endlini, ngoba amadoda amaningi angakwazi lokhu, akafuni nje ukuthatha isinyathelo. Ngokuvamile uxhumane naye ukuze uthole usizo futhi kancane kancane ezinye zezinto zizoba imisebenzi yomndeni yasendlini. Ungafaki amagama okudumisa, vusa umfowenu nesifiso sabantwana ukukusiza. Awukwazi ukwenza uhlu lwemisebenzi yasendlini yamadoda, ngoba yena ngokwakhe uyazi ukuthi, isibonelo, ukulungisa umpompi kuwumsebenzi wakhe.
Uma owesifazane ebusa endlini futhi yonke imisebenzi yenziwa, uzizwa eqiniseka futhi ekhululekile. Noma kunjalo, kaningi kungenye indlela. Kodwa izenzo ezingaguquki futhi ezicacile ngeke zikusize nje ukuphatha konke, kodwa futhi ukujabulela umsebenzi owenziwe.
Indlela yokuhlela imisebenzi yasekhaya?
- Hlela konke kusihlwa. Yenza ngaphambi kokuhlelwa isikhathi sokulala kwemisebenzi yasendlini ngakusasa, ukuqonda ukuthi uzoqala kuphi ekuseni. Cabanga nje ukuthi unesikhathi esingakanani samahhala, ngakho akudingeki ukhathazeke nganoma yini kamuva.
- Yenza konke njengoba kudingekile. Uma okuthile kungadingi ukuqaliswa okuphuthumayo, hlela futhi uqhubekele ezindabeni eziphuthumayo.
- Ngokuvamile, abesifazane bakhupha konke, bekhohlwa ukuthi kunezingane kanye nendoda. Hlanganisa imisebenzi nabo. Yiqiniso, ingane ngeke ikwazi ukupheka ukudla komndeni, kodwa ingageza izitsha ngemuva kokudla.
- Ungazami ukwenza konke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Yiqiniso, kunezimo ezingahlanganiswa, kodwa gxila ekusetshenzisweni kwazo, ukuze kamuva ungachithi isikhathi esiningi sinikezwe ngenxa yokungalindeleki kwakho.
- Yenza ngokujulile imisebenzi yasekhaya eyisisekelo futhi ungafuni ukuthi kwenzeke. Noma yimuphi umnikazi wendawo ohlala naye unezinto izandla ezingayitholi ngaso sonke isikhathi.
- Yiba nokuphumula. Ukuphumula okufushane kuzosiza ukubuyisela amandla, ngakho-ke uphuze itiye, khona-ke ungenza okuningi.
Ukuzibophezela kubusa lapho izindaba zomndeni zingahlukaniswa ngokuthi "zakho" nokuthi "zami", kodwa zithandana. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi emndenini konke ukuhlukaniswa okuvamile nokuhlala njalo ezindabeni zasekhaya zamakhosikazi kanye namadoda, kungaholela ekuhlaselweni nasekuxabaneni. Khumbula, konke okwenzayo kungomuntu othandekayo. Ukusekela, basizana ngamandla ematheni. Phela, ukuqonda kuyisihluthulelo senjabulo nempumelelo empilweni yomndeni!