Ngokuvamile ungazwa ukuthi abameleli bobulili obuqinile nabalungile bahluke ngokuphelele, ngokoqobo bevela amaplanethi ahlukene. Mayelana nokuhlukana kocansi konke kucacile, kodwa ngokuhlukana kobulili phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane, akuyona yonke into ecacile. Okuyinkimbinkimbi nakakhulu ukungaqondi igama elithi "ubulili", elingavumelani nobulili bezinto eziphilayo futhi alinalo ubudlelwane obuqondile ne-hetero- noma ubungqingili bomuntu. Lo mqondo ukhululekile, osetshenziselwa ukukhombisa ukuziphatha kobulili emphakathini, futhi ubulili abuhambisani nendima umuntu ayenzayo.
Ukwahlukana ngokobulili phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane: iqiniso kanye nezinganekwane
- Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi izindima zobulili zinikezwe ngokwemvelo, akunakwenzeka ukulwa nalo, ngakho-ke azikho ngaphansi kokushintsha. Eqinisweni, izici eziningi zitholakala ngesikhathi sokuphila, lokhu kuhlanganisa ukukhuliswa, izidingo ezahlukene, imisebenzi ezinikezelwa ngesikhathi. Okusho ukuthi, ngaphansi kwezimo ezifanele, indoda nowesifazane bangashintsha izindawo.
- Izinganekwane ezilandelayo ziphazamisa ukungezwani komzwelo, kukholelwa ukuthi kule nkhomba, amadoda aphansi kakhulu kunabesifazane. Kodwa imiphumela yocwaningo ayiqinisekisi lokhu, ubulili obuhle bungase buqhayise kuphela ikhono elihle lokuveza imizwelo , akumangalisi, lunikezwe amasiko endala yokukhulisa abafana, ebeka kubo ukucindezeleka okukhulu kakhulu. Kodwa ikhono lokuzwelana nokukhomba imizwelo yabanye abantu emadodeni nakwabesifazane cishe alingana.
- Umndeni uyadingeka kwabesifazane, ngoba ubulili obuqinile akuyona into engaphezu komthwalo. Lo mbono uyathandwa phakathi kwamadoda abasha abaqinisekisile, futhi amantombazane afundiswa ngale ndlela, izinhlelo zokuthatha umthwalo wempilo yomndeni emahlombe abo. Eqinisweni, ngemuva kokuthola ukuthembeka kwangemuva, amadoda amaningi athola ukukhuthazwa okudingekayo ekuthuthukiseni phambili, omunye usizwa ukuthula mayelana nezinkinga zansuku zonke, umuntu obona emndenini okusho ukuphumelela okuqhubekayo. Kwabesifazane, akuzona zonke izinto ezijabulisayo, ezimweni eziningi, injabulo yomndeni inciphisa amathuba okukhula komsebenzi , isizathu nokubandlulula emphakathini, nokuhlanganiswa kokuvinjelwa kwemisebenzi yasendlini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokusho kwemiphumela yocwaningo, abantu abashadile baphila isikhathi eside kunabachelors. Kodwa isigamu esihle sabantu sinciphisa ukuphila kwabo ngokuthola umndeni.
- Umehluko lwengqondo phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane ezimweni eziningi nazo zenziwa, noma ngabe kunjalo, noma imiphumela yokuhlolwa noma ubuchopho bokuthi ubuchopho abuqinisekisile. Ikhono lokuphatha izimali, futhi, alixhomeki ocansini, kuwo wonke abesifazane cishe amathuba okutshalwa imali ngaphezulu futhi azama ukuthatha izingozi ezincane. Kodwa izizathu zokutshala izimali ezincane kumaphrojekthi anengozi enkulu
ehambisana nenani elincane lemali yamahhala evela kwabesifazane. - Kunombono oqinisekisiwe mayelana nokufana kwezici zengqondo ngaphakathi kweqembu ngalinye lobulili. Kodwa empeleni lokhu akunjalo, abesifazane nabesilisa abahlala emasikweni afanayo kanye nezimo zomphakathi ezifanayo kubonisa umehluko ekuziphatheni kumacala angu-10%. Kodwa ngaphakathi kwamaqembu obulili obuhlukile kunezinto eziningi. Ngakho azikho izici zesilisa nabesilisa bonke.
Kubonakala sengathi emibhalweni emisiwe mayelana nokuhlukana kobulili phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane, kunezinkolelo eziningi ezingenalutho neze.