Kuze kube manje, ukuhlolwa kukaRyakhovsky kuwukuhlola okulula kwezinga lokuzijabulisa lapho noma yimuphi umuntu angathola ngokuzihlola ngokuzimela kombhalo wemibuzo. Ngenxa yalokho, izinga lakho lokuzijabulisa kanye nekhono lokuxhumana nabanye abantu lizonqunywa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhlolwa kukuvumela ukuba ubone ubuthakathaka bomlingiswa wakho futhi ukhombise ukuthi yini okufanele usebenze.
Ukuhlolwa kwe-V.F. Ryakhovsky
Indlela kaRyakhovsky iyinto elula: esinye sezimpendulo ezintathu kungenzeka ukuthi kufanele siphendulwe kule mibuzo elandelayo: "yebo", "cha" noma "ngezinye izikhathi". Kubalulekile ukuphendula ngokushesha, ukucabanga kancane. Imibuzo ilula futhi ayidingi ukucabanga - kuphela ukuthembeka kuyadingeka.
Ukuhlolwa kukaRyakhovsky - isihluthulelo
Inqubo eyenziwe nguRakakhovsky, njengezinye izivivinyo eziningi, idinga ukuqhathanisa imiphumela. Impendulo ngayinye ethi "yebo" zibeke 2 amaphuzu, "ngezinye izikhathi" - iphuzu eli-1, "cha" - amaphuzu angu-0. Engeza zonke izinombolo futhi uthole umphumela wakho kusigaba esingezansi.
- Amaphuzu angu-30-31. Awunakuxoxwa kakhulu, futhi lokhu kungaletha izinkinga eziningi kuwe nomndeni wakho. Kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde ukuzithiba, ngoba kwezinye izimo ikhono lokuxhumana libaluleke kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili.
- Amaphuzu angu-25-29. Awunqikazi ukubizwa ngokuthi umuntu ovaliwe, mhlawumbe unabangane abambalwa kakhulu, futhi, ngokujwayelekile, umjikelezo omncane wabathintana nabo. Noma yikuphi ukuxhumana okusha okwesikhathi eside kukukhipha ibhalansi, futhi ukulinda umhlangano nomuntu ongaziwa kukubeka enhlekeleleni. Cishe awujabuli ngalesi simo somlingiswa wakho. Ngentshiseko eqinile, ukhuluma kakhulu, futhi kuwe kukhona izindlela ezilula zokuxazulula le nkinga.
- 19-24 amaphuzu. Uhlala ujabule, futhi ngisho nasendaweni entsha uzozizwa ukhululekile kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ezinkingeni ezihlukahlukene awusasheshi. Ezingqinisweni zakho, zivame ukungaqondakali kakhulu nokuqhaqhazela, kodwa ungakwazi ukulungisa kalula lesi siphutha.
- Amaphuzu angu-14-18. Ukuzibandakanya kwakho kungokwemvelo. Unomqondo olinganiselayo, uyazi ukulalela, ungavikela iphuzu lakho lokubuka, ungafaki futhi. Ukuhlangana nabantu abasha akukucindezeli, kodwa izinkampani ezinomsindo ozithwala ngenjabulo. Njengomthetho, ucasulwa yi-antics enomdlandla kanye nabantu abazama ukuheha.
- Amaphuzu angu-9-13. Uyathandana kakhulu, ukhuluma futhi uthanda. Uyakuthanda kakhulu ukuveza umbono wakho ezindabeni ezihlukahlukene, okuyinto ngezinye izikhathi ezixosha abantu abangasodwa abasuka kuwe. Ukwazi futhi ukhulume kalula, ungathandi ukulahla izicelo. I-Flashy, kodwa ishesha-witted. Njengomthetho, awunayo ukukhuthazela okwanele ukuxazulula izinkinga, kodwa lokhu kulungiswa kalula.
- Amaphuzu angu-4-8. Mayelana nokuthi uthini "i-shirt-guy." Unomphakathi ogcwele futhi njalo usesikhathini. Naphezu kokuthandana kwengxoxo, awufuni ukuxoxa nganoma yiziphi izihloko ezingathí sina. Ulungele ukukhuluma ngisho nangalokho ozwayo
okokuqala empilweni yami. Naphezu kokuthi yonke indawo uzizwa ukhululekile, abantu abakuzungezile bakuphatha ngokucophelela, ngoba awuyena umuntu othembekile kakhulu. Ukwethembela ngemfihlo noma ukukuqinisekisa ukuba wenze lokho okuye kwaqala ukuphela ngezinye izikhathi akunakwenzeka. Kufanele uhlakulele ukubekezela futhi uthathe ulwazi ngokujulile. - Amaphoyinti angu-3 noma ngaphansi. Ukhuluma ngokubuhlungu. Uvame ukuphazamisa ezindabeni zabanye abantu, ukwahlulela ngalokho ongamazi, kuyashesha futhi kukhubeke kalula. Umsebenzi obalulekile akucaci kuwe - ngokuvamile ukhululekile kakhulu. Njengomthetho, umuntu ovamile kunzima nawe. Kufanele usebenze kumlingiswa wakho, ufunde ukuthi ube umuntu ogciniwe futhi obekezelayo. Mhlawumbe kufanele ukhulume nomuntu wezokwelapha ngale ndaba, ngoba ngenxa yale ndlela yokuphila kungenzeka ube nezinkinga emsebenzini nasembusweni wakho.