Ukuziphatha ngokocansi kunciphisa ngobudala. Lokhu kwenzeka ngezizathu eziningi, zombili ezihlose futhi ezizimele. Kungani ungafuni ucansi njengendoda enempilo: indoda noma owesifazane?
- Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi owesifazane akafuni ukuya ocansini. Kungani? Uthanda umyeni wakhe. Isibonelo, uyamthukuthelela. Intukuthelo ixosha yonke imizwa evela enhliziyweni, intukuthelo yenza kube nzima ukuxhumana. Kulesi simo, kufanele senze. Chaza isimo sakho. Akayena umfokazi, uzoqonda!
- Kubonakala kowesifazane ukuthi ubheka okubi. Akaqapheli ukuveza imizwa aze enze i-hairstyle entsha futhi engenzi isisindo ngamakhilogremu amabili. Kunento eyodwa kuphela okufanele uyenze: ukuphonsa okungenalutho ngaphandle kwekhanda lakho. Uyakuthanda futhi ufuna ukuthi ungubani. Futhi ukumgqugquzela ngemicabango yamakhilogremu amabili engeziwe futhi neze.
- I-cholesterol eyengeziwe egazini ingabangela ukwehla kwe-libido, lokhu kuboniswa ngokungenakuphilwa yizifundo zamuva. Maye, ukuhlehlisa, izidakamizwa kanye nezinja ezishisayo, kuzodingeka ukuguqulwe okuthandayo kokudla futhi okungenani ulahle ama-sausages, amasoseji kanye nebhethoni. Ingxenye yokudla kwesilwane esikhundleni sitshalo.
- Izinkinga zokuvimbela ukunciphisa i-libido, lokhu sekuye kwafakazelwa. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Shintsha isidakamizwa, emva kokubonisana nodokotela.
- Isizathu esivamile sokuthi owesifazane akafuni ukulala ocansini kungukungasebenzi kahle kwegciwane le-thyroid. Kunesizathu sokuhlola ukuthi konke kuhle yini kuye.
- Impendulo yombuzo othi angifuni ukulala nomyeni wami, mhlawumbe ukuhoxiswa empilweni yabo yokwabelana okungokomoya, kwakukhona "ukucabangela" kwemizwa: ubulili kuphela. Umuntu akayena isilwane, angeke aphile njengalokhu isikhathi eside. Kubalulekile ukubuyisa ubudlelwane obungokomzwelo: ukukhuluma ngenhliziyo ngenhliziyo, ukuhamba ndawonye e-cafe, kumabhayisikobho, kumidlalo yaseshashalazini. Yini ehlanganiswe nayo ngaphambili? Lokhu kumele kuvuselelwe.
Kungani ungafuni ucansi emva kokubeletha?
Kuyinto enjengokuthanda, kucacile. Umzimba uhluphekile - manje. Udinga isikhathi sokubuyiselwa. Yonke isidingo sothando, uthando, uthinta ukudonsa ingane. Manje uyisidalwa esiyinhloko endaweni yonke. Futhi umyeni kaningi akahlanganyeli nalo mzwelo, uyathukuthela, futhi, eba ngumcasuli kumfazi. Kubili. Okwesithathu, ukubeletha kuvamise ukukhathazeka, okubangela ubuhlungu obungokomzimba ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi noma nje ukwesaba ukuthi kungenzeka ubuhlungu, futhi abukhuthazi ukukhangwa ngokocansi. Okwesine, emzimbeni wesifazane kukhona ukuvuselelwa kwe-hormonal. Okwesishiyagalolunye, umama ngisho nezingane ezinokuthula ukhathele kakhulu, ngingathini, uma umntwana engumemeza!
Yini ongayenza lapha? Indoda nomkayo banquma ngokuhlanganyela ukubeletha umntwana. Owesifazane kwakudingeka ahlupheke kakhulu ngenxa yalokhu: ukuthwala amakhilogremu ambalwa, aphethwe yi-toxicosis futhi ephazamisa ukwesaba "okukhulelwe," abelethe ebuhlungu. Ngisho noma ukubeletha kusetshenziselwa ukuxilongwa, kusekhona, ikakhulukazi okokuqala, okwethusa kakhulu. Manje sekuyisikhathi sokuba ubaba alinde kancane. Kubalulekile ukuqonda umfazi, hhayi ukumenza izimangalo ezingapheli ezingeni le-enkulisa: uyamthanda ngaphezu kwami! Uma owesifazane ebona ukuthi umyeni wakhe uzwelana naye, uzama ukusiza, uzomfinyelela kuye futhi akhumbule ukuthi bathanda ukujabulisa kanjani. Futhi ukunqotshwa kwe-hysterical komnikazi kukwazi ukulimaza kuphela.
Kuphinde kwenzeke ukuthi ummeleli wesigamu esiphezulu sabantu ubhekene nokungabikho kwe-libido.
Kungani indoda engafuni ukulala naye?
Ezinye zezizathu ezingenhla nazo zisebenza lapha, isibonelo, i-cholesterol nemithi. Yiqiniso, indoda ayithathi imithi yokuvimbela imithi, kodwa amaphilisi omphimbo angaba yisinqumo esibi kakhulu. Udinga ukubonana nodokotela.
Empeleni, esimweni
Kufanele sifunde ukushiya okungenani ingxenye yezinkinga ngemuva kombuthano wehhovisi. Khona-ke, uyabona, naye uzodonseka kumkakhe, futhi ukuphila ngeke kubonakale kubi kakhulu.