Umbhangqwana ngamunye ngokuzayo noma kamuva, kodwa amaphupho okuthola i-orgasm ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kwabanye, lesi sifiso siphenduke, cishe emgomweni oyinhloko wokuphila kwabo ngokobulili. Abaningi bacabanga ukuthi i-orgasm yesikhathi esifanayo iyinto evamile ebuhlotsheni babo bobulili. Kunezinkolelo eziningi mayelana nalokhu.
Ake sicabangele okunye okufana nenye i-orgasm yesikhathi esisodwa yendoda nowesifazane nokuthi ingafinyelelwa kanjani.
Lapho umphakathi uqaphela ukuthi abesifazane kanye nabesilisa banelungelo lokubona ukuphakama kwenjabulo ngesikhathi se-coitus, inganekwane yabonakala ukuthi i-orgasm ngesikhathi esisodwa iyisikhombisa esibalulekile sokuhambisana kocansi kwabalingani.
Abacansi be-sexologists bathi ukuphela kwesigceme ngokobulili ngesikhathi esisodwa kuletha injabulo enkulu nokwaneliseka kubo bobabili abalingani, kodwa akufanele kube yinto ephoqelekile ekuphileni kocansi. Ukufeza lokhu, eqinisweni, kunzima kakhulu.
Uma umuntu ecatshangelwe imicabango yokufinyelela i-orgasm ngesikhathi esifanayo, abesifazane abaningi bayobhala-kodwa, kodwa balingise i-orgasm, bavumelane nomlingani. Futhi lokhu kungabangela ukunakwa okungadingekile ekwenzeni uthando, okuyinto engokomqondo ivimbela owesifazane, ngaphandle kokumnika ithuba lokujabulela ngokugcwele izinzwa ezitholiwe.
Inkinga ebaluleke ngokulinganayo yesifiso, eqondiswa indlela yokwenza okufanayo noma i-orgasm, iwukuziphatha okungaphezu kokuzidela, okubhubhisa ubuhlobo. Omunye wabalingani uhlonipha ubuhlobo, nakuba kufanele bahlangane nabo, bajabulele. Iyakwazi ukubangela ukuhlukunyezwa okwehlukile kobulili ngokweqile ukukhathazeka ngenhlalakahle yomunye embhedeni.
Ngingawuthola kanjani i-orgasm ngesikhathi esifanayo?
Ukuze ngesikhathi esifanayo uthole i-orgasm, ungaqhubeki ku-prelude. Phakathi naso, hlala isikhashana. Ungagxila kuphela ezintweni ezilodwa phakathi kobudlelwano bocansi. Uma umuntu ezwa indlela yokusebenzisa i-orgasm, udinga ukwehlisa isikhunta. Khetha i-pose ye-orgasm. Gxila ezingxenyeni ezahlukene zomzimba. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kule ndawo ukusebenzisa i-clitoris nendoda
Uma kwenzeka umlingani ezwa ukuthi umlingani usekulungele i-orgasm, angakwazi ukuqinisa ukushaqeka, ukulungiswa kowesifazane.
Owesifazane uzokwazi ukulawula i-orgasm yakhe uma ephazamisa izindawo zakhe ezihlukumezayo. Umlingani kufanele alalele izifiso zakho.
Ngakho, umbhangqwana ngamunye ungathola i-orgasm ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ngenxa yalokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi wazi kangcono ubudlelwano bobulili, ukulalela izifiso zomunye nomunye.