Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi abesifazane abafanelekayo, begqoke kahle futhi behlotshiswe kahle, bahlala e-cafe eceleni futhi baphuphe kuphela ukumazi umuntu, futhi amagundane grey angenakwenzeka azungezwe isixuku sabathandekayo. Kusukela kuncike nokuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani amadoda kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo - kulesi sihloko.
Ungaqala kanjani ukuthanda amadoda?
- Ukubukeka. . Kufanelekile ukusho amagama amabili mayelana nokubukeka: owesifazane kufanele abuke kahle futhi ehlanzekile. Makungabi yengubo ebiza kakhulu, kodwa ukubukeka kufanele kube nokuxhumana , futhi ukungcola kukhishwe ngokuphelele.
- Ukuthembeka nokuzinza . Njengoba sekuyaziwa, amadoda ngokwemvelo ngabaholi, abahlukumezi nabazingeli, okusho ukuthi umuntu kufanele aziphathe ngendlela efanele - ukubonakala ebuthakathaka, engenakuzivikela futhi enesibindi. Amadoda athweswa abesifazane "ama-mangy", anebukeka obuhle obuvela ngaphansi kwe-eyelashes, izenzo ezithambile, izwi elizolile, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ukumamatheka okumnandi. Lokho okufuna ukujabulisa abantu, kufanelekile ukuyivuselela phambi kwesibuko. Ngemuva kokubheka ukuxhumana kwamehlo, kubalulekile ukumisa nokuxhumana ngokuqotho, futhi lokhu akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokukhathazeka kwangempela kumuntu, kulokho akushoyo.
- Ukungabi nabugovu. Ukunganaki, umhawu nokuziqhenya kubangela abameleli bobulili obunamandla, kodwa ukufudumala emehlweni nesifiso sokulalela njalo ngentengo. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi angeke anikezwe ukuze aqonde ukuthi ukunakwa okunjalo akuyona yini ubugovu. Kungakanani umuntu ongenayo imali, kufanele aqiniseke ukuthi uyathanda lo wesifazane wedwa, hhayi njengesixhumo kubo.
- Hlonipha . Abesifazane abanamandla nabanelisekile bakhangwa abesifazane, abazethembayo, abangabambeki ezindongeni zabo futhi bangaboni wonke umuntu ekhoneni njengelungelo lokushada . Ukuzihlonipha kuzohlonipha nalabo abaseduze, futhi lokhu kungenye isizathu sokuba eduze komlingani onjalo.
Labo abanesithakazelo sendlela yokuthola ukuthi owesifazane uyathanda indoda kufanelekile ukubuka ukuthi uyibheka kanjani, uyayiphatha, iziphatha. Uyakhathalela umuntu onentshisekelo kuwo, uthi ukuncoma futhi uzama ukuwusizo.