Uma eminyakeni eminingana edlule isihloko sobudlelwane bobulili bobulili obufanayo besivinjelwe, ezweni lanamuhla, ngenxa yesigwebo sezocansi, isimo sashintsha. Abantu abaningi, ngaphandle kokwesaba ukulahla umphakathi, bamemezela ukuma kwabo. Ngokuqondene namazwe e-CIS le ndaba ihlala ifihliwe, amagama amaningi ahlale engaziwa.
Kusho ukuthini ukuphuma?
Leligama livela emvelaphi yesiNgisi futhi ekuhumusheni kwangempela kusho ukudalulwa. Ekumemezeni, umuntu uyaqaphela ngokucophelela ukuthi uyabesilisa ocansini noma ukuthi umzimba wakhe awuhambisani nokuqonda. Ukuze siqonde ukuthi "ukuphuma" kusho ukuthini, siyaqaphela ukuthi abashadile, abesilisa abashadile, abesilisa nabesifazane kanye nabantu abathintekayo (LGBT) basebenzisa le ncazelo.
Igama elithi "kamba out", okushiwo yathola isisekelo esithile sesayensi, lafundiswa kahle yi-psychologist waseMelika u-E. Hooker. Lo wesifazane ufunde kahle lesi sihloko eminyakeni engama-50. Kukhona elinye igama elifanayo - i-outreach, esetshenziswe lapho abantu bedalula iqiniso lomuntu ongowesilisa omncane ngokocansi ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe.
Izidumi ezenza ikamu
Nakuba umphakathi wanamuhla ukhululiwe, akubona bonke abakulungele ukudalula izimfihlo zabo, ikakhulukazi ngoba kunabantu abaneleyo abalahla ubungqingili. Izibalo eziningi zomphakathi zinquma ukumemezela ukuma kwazo emhlabeni. Ukuphuma kwamatende okudumile kunomsindo njalo futhi kudonsela ukunakekelwa kwezindaba kanye nomphakathi. Abanye abantu basebenzisa lesi sikhalazo ku-PR.
Ukukhwehlela okukhulu kakhulu
Abalobi bezindaba nababukeli abajwayelekile bayaqiniseka ukuthi abantu abaningi bomphakathi bangongqingili, akubona bonke abakulungele ukukhuluma ngokucacile ngalesi sihloko. Lokhu kubangelwa ingozi enkulu yokulahlekelwa ngabalandeli nemali. Kunoma yikuphi ukubusa kukhona okungafani, futhi ezinye izinkanyezi zisaphila emphakathini. Phakathi kwakho konke ukuvuma, kunezindaba ezashusisa umphakathi:
- Phakamisa uRondodo . Omunye wezindaba wamemezela nge-Internet, njengoba kwabikwa ukuthi u-Ronaldo uvume ukujwayela kwakhe okungavumelani. Kwenzeka ngesikhathi umdlalo we "Real" u-Atletico Madrid, lapho umdlali weqembu eliphikisanayo ebiza uCayano Ronaldo ongqingili , lapho ephendula ngokuvuma, wanezela ukuthi ucebile. Okwamanje kwakungekho ukuqinisekiswa okusemthethweni.
- Phakamisa uJodie Foster . I-actress eyaziwayo yathola ama-Oscars amabili ne-Golden Globes, ngokudlala indima enkulu. Ngenkathi esenqume ukushiya ekuphumuleni okufanelekile, ushilo, ukuthi ukhangwa ngabesifazane. Unyaka ngemva kokuqashelwa komphakathi, uJody washada nomthwebuli wezithombe u-A. Hedison.
- Daniel Craig . Mayelana nomdlali owaziwa ngendima kaJames Bond ngezikhathi ezithile kwakukhona amahemuhemu mayelana nokuma kwakhe okungokwemveli. Amafutha athululelwe emlilweni uDaniel ngokwakhe, owavela nabangani bakhe eqenjini le-gay. Abafakazi bokuzibonela bathi baphinde babona inkanyezi ye-movie ibanga indoda. Okwamanje, uDaniel Craig akazange aphume ngokusemthethweni.
- Jake Gyllenhaal . Amahemuhemu mayelana nokuma kwe-actor avele ngemuva kokuthi adlale gay. Abangqingili bangempela bathi omunye wabo kuphela owayengadlala ngokucophelela. Okwamanje, uJake Gyllenhaal akenzanga ukuphuma.
- URobert Pattinson . Umdlali we-actor, enikeza i-interview ye-portal yaseNdiya, uthe amantombazane amaningi ayamdonseli, futhi uzizwa ezwa ngale ndoda. Kuze kube manje, izigidi zabalandeli zizama ukuqonda ukuthi uRobert Pattinson wenza ikamu noma cha, ngoba le portal ngokuvamile iveza "amadada".
- Angelina Jolie . U-actress wezethameli owawuthola kaningi isihloko esithi "owesifazane omuhle kunabo bonke", u-Angelina Jolie, owakhululwa ngenye yezingxoxo, ungowesilisa ocansini.
- Ukuqeda u-Ellen Page kwenzeka emhlanganweni we-LGBT, Isikhathi Sokuthuthuka, lapho umdlali wesifazane ethi ukhathele ukufihla ukuthi ngubani owaziyo nokuhlupheka kwakhe ngenxa yokuzizwa komphakathi.
- Kristen Sewart . Omunye wabomagazini abathandwa yi-actress amaningi "Twilight Saga" ukhulume ngokucacile ngobungqingili bakhe, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo Ukukhishwa kukaChristie Stewart akuhlosi ukwenza, ngoba akabheki njengento enkulu.
- U-Ricky Martin , owathi ukuphuma kwakhe kuye kwashaqeka abaningi, wavuma izono zakhe kwiwebhusayithi yakhe. Namuhla ukhulisa amadodana amabili nezinhlelo zokuqala umndeni nesoka lakhe.
Ukuphuma emakhosini aseRashiya
Ezingxenyeni zobulili zaseRussia zinonya, ngakho-ke izitatimende ezivulekile ziyize. Abantu ababesenqume ukuthatha isinyathelo esinjalo, babhekene nokungaqondani nokulahlwa okuningi. Abanye abantu abasesidlangalaleni abanezinkambo ezingezona zendabuko bayabhekwa njengento ephosa.
- I-Panin out of the discussion exhausted out, ngubani owahlanganyela kulo mdlalo "Umtshina Amanga", lapho waphendula imibuzo ezithintekayo, kuhlanganise orientation yakhe. U-Alexei uthe uyabesilisa nabesifazane.
- Phakathi kwalabahlabeleli, umuntu odumile kakhulu wesilisa nomlingani u-Eva Polna, ikamu elingakamangazi abalandeli abaningi. Umculi uthe ubuhlobo obuseduze nomqondisi wakhe we-PR u-Alexandra.
- Indodakazi kaMikhail Efremov yenza ukuphuma ngokubhala enkundleni yakhe yokuxhumana nabantu isikhundla esikhulu. Enye intombazane yavuma ukuthi ibhekene nobuntu obuhlukanisayo.
- Umdlali wezinyunyana uNikita Dzhigurda oxoxwa nabo wathi ngokushesha kufanele alindele ukuzwa okuvela kuye. Ngemva kokuhlukanisa kwakhe, wonke umuntu waqala ukukhuluma ngokuma kwakhe. U-Dzhigurda wamisa ekamelweni, kodwa wayekhathazeka ngezinkinga zakhe ezingokwengqondo, hhayi ukuthambekela kocansi.
Imibuzo ephathelene nesihloko - lisho ukuthini igama elithi "cumming out", akufanele liphakame ngemuva kwezincazelo ezitholiwe. Wonke umuntu kufanele aphile ngaphandle kokulinganiselwa kanye nemingcele, ebonisa ukuthi uyangempela, engesabi ukukhandwa ngamatshe. Abantu banemibono ehlukene mayelana nobungqingili, kepha ukuphika ukuthi kukhona khona kuyinto okungavamile.