Ukuphila kowesifazane oneminyaka eyishumi kuya phezulu, kodwa ukuzola kwangaphakathi nokulinganisela kuhlale kubaluleke kakhulu. Imikhuba yokuzindla izosiza ukubuyela kwimithombo yomphefumulo wakho. Abesifazane abaningi namuhla bathanda ukuthuthukiswa ngokomoya, kodwa bavame ukukhetha ukwenza imikhuba evumelana namadoda. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, emhlabeni kukhona ukuzindla okukhethekile okwenzelwe abesifazane ngokukhethekile. Zitholele ngokwakho, shintsha isimo sengqondo sakho sokuphila, thola ukuthula futhi uthole umthombo wamandla wesifazane - konke lokho kungaphansi kwamandla okuzindla kwabesifazane. Sizokukhuluma ngabo namhlanje.
Ukuzindla "Zithethelele" Kubesifazane
Sithandwa kakhulu ukwamukela umthwalo wakho konke okwenzekayo. Ukuzibambisana kungenye yemisebenzi ethandekayo yowesifazane, okwamanje, ovimbela amandla abesifazane. Ngempela, enye yezindawo zethu eziyinhloko uthando, okuyinto yokuqala kokuqala, kumele iqale ngothando ngokwakho. Ake sizame ukuzindla okuphumelelayo "Ukuthethelela ngokwakho":
- hlala endaweni ekhululekile futhi uphumule yonke imisipha yomzimba wakho;
- ukuphindaphinda umqondo: "Ngothando oluqotho nokubonga okungapheli, ngiyithethelela futhi ngamukele lokho uNkulunkulu angikwenzile. Ngithethelela ngokwengqondo yami, imizwa nezenzo zami. Ngiyakuthanda mina. "
Ungazama ukwenza lokhu kucabangisisa, uhlezi phambi kwesibuko uphendukela ekuzindleni kwakho. Zama ukuba nokuthembeka okukhulu emazwini akho ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukuzindla "amandla wesifazane"
Bambalwa abantu abazi ukuthi singazindla ngokukhulisa amandla abesifazane ngokuhlanganyela emsebenzini wesifazane wansuku zonke. Kuncike ekutheni kusilethela injabulo futhi sigcwalise ukuthula. Kodwa namhlanje sikunikeza ukuzama ukuzindla, okuhloswe ukukhulisa amandla wesifazane avela esibelethweni sethu:
- vala amehlo akho futhi ugxilise konke ukunaka kwakho esibelethweni;
- Ukuxhuma, ukuhlukumeza imisipha yangaphakathi;
- ekuphefumuleni ucabange ukuthi isisu sakho sanda kanjani, futhi sigcwele amandla;
- phinda izikhathi ezingu-15 kuze kube yilapho inzwa ye-pulsation yangaphakathi;
- manje ekuphumeni kwamanzi ukucabanga ukuthi ngezinyawo zakho amandla eMhlaba adlula, ekhuphukela esibelethweni futhi egcwalisa;
- cabanga ukuthi ngezikhathi zonke isisu nesandla sanda. Igcwalisa igumbi, khona-ke idolobha, bese likhula kuze kube ngubukhulu bomhlaba, bese ligcwalisa indawo yonke;
- ucabange ukuthi usondela ezintanjeni zomhlaba wonke, okuholela ekungeneni kwamanye amazwe nasemisha. Wena uyingxenye yale mandla amakhulu;
- emva kokuqala ukucindezela isikhala. Okokuqala kuya ngobukhulu bomhlaba, ke-izwe, ngemuva - idolobha, njalonjalo uze ubuyele emingceleni yesibeletho sakho;
- siyabonga lesi sikhala futhi uvule amehlo akho.
Ukuzindla "indoda yangaphakathi nowesifazane wangaphakathi"
Owesifazane ngamunye uqobo lwakhe uqobo akazithathi owesifazane kuphela, kodwa namandla omuntu. Umgomo wesifazane uyingcweti, kuthatha amandla ezulu, kuyilapho owesilisa, ngezenzo, ehlanganisa leli gesi. Uma sicindezela (noma ungasebenzisi) noma yikuphi amandla, lokhu kuholela ekuphukeni kokuvumelana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuvula indoda nomfazi wangaphakathi, ungakha ubuhlobo obuhambelanayo nomlingani wakho wangempela. Kusukela zonke iziphutha ezikukhathaza ngokukhethekile kumlingani wakho - azikho nje ukuzibonakalisa kwakho.
Vala amehlo akho bese uzama ukubona izithombe zamandla akho wesilisa nabesifazane ngendlela yabantu ababili. Cabanga ukuthi babheka omunye nomunye. Ngabe ngamunye wabo uzizwa kanjani okwamanje?
Zama ukulanda futhi ulalele ukuzindla kwabesifazane "indoda yangaphakathi nomama wangaphakathi." Zisebenzise kuze kube yilapho ubuhlobo phakathi kwabalingani bakho bangaphakathi buvumelana kakhulu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungazindla, uziphindiselele iziqinisekiso ezikhethekile. Kuningi lokuqinisekiswa okufanelekayo kwabesifazane abahlelelwe impumelelo, futhi lezizindla zisiza ekubhekaneni nesimo sokudala emsebenzini, amahloni ngokweqile noma ukungakholelwa emandleni abo. Umphumela wezimo zengqondo ezinhle ngeke uthathe isikhathi eside!