Abesifazane bayazi amaqhinga amaningi namasu angahle athokoze umfana hhayi kuphela oxhumana naye, kodwa futhi nakude. Ngenxa yobuchwepheshe besimanje: i-intanethi kanye nokuxhumana kweselula, kulula ukubona. Amalungu amaningi ebulili obuhle anesithakazelo sendlela yokuthakazelisa umfana nge-SMS ukuze angathanda ukubuyela masinyane futhi enze zonke izingxoxo zingokoqobo.
Izinyathelo ezinjalo zizosiza uma othandekayo engekho, isibonelo, wahamba nohambo lwebhizinisi noma ebhizinisini, ngokujwayelekile, uma kukhona ibanga elikhulu phakathi kozakwethu. Imilayezo izosiza uma udinga ukubopha umuntu, ubonise ubuntu babo nokudlala. Imilayezo esondelene nayo izosiza ukuletha ubudlelwane kolunye uhlangothi emcimbini wokuthi lo musha unececisive. Futhi ekugcineni, imilayezo yemvelo ebuseduze ingaba ukuzijabulisa nje.
Indlela yokujabulisa umfana ku-SMS?
Ukufunda ukuthandana nemilayezo kunzima, kodwa konke kungafundiswa, bekuyoba nesifiso. Uma inkhulumomphendvulwano ikhona nomfana onobuhlobo obusanda kuqalwa nje, kubalulekile ukuqonda umkhawulo wokungcola, ukuze umuntu angabesabi. Ukuxhumana nomuntu othandekayo kungenziwa ngaphandle kwemingcele kanye nokucabanga .
Ungamjabulisa kanjani umfana:
- Uma insizwa enokuxhumana nayo, kwakukhona ubulili, bese kukhulumisana ungakhumbula lo oxhumana naye. Mtshele ngemizwa nemizwelo yakho. Lo mfana wengqondo udluliselwe esikhathini esedlule futhi kufanele ajabule. Emva kwalokho, usuvele ucansi ngocingo.
- Abesifazane abaningi banesithakazelo esihlokweni, yiliphi amagama ongamjabulisa umfana ukuba atshise isifiso. Ochwepheshe batusa ukusebenzisa amagama ngama-overtones amabili. Lokhu kuqinisekisiwe ukuthi kufaka isithakazelo kumuntu, kumenze abe nesithakazelo sangempela.
- Ungasebenzisa amacebo angacacile okuzogqugquzela umfana ukuba athathe isinyathelo esinqumayo. Isibonelo, ungakhuluma ngephupho eliyingozi noma mayelana nemicabango yakho. Ngokuqinisekile kuyojabulisa umfana, futhi uzofuna ukuqaphela konke lokhu kuqala ngocingo, bese kuthi, empilweni yangempela.
- Enye indlela ephumelelayo yokuthakazelisa umfana nge-SMS ukubhala indaba emfushane lapho kuphela ukuqala komusho kuvela emgqeni ngamunye, futhi ukuphela kufanele kucatshangwe ngumlingani ngokwakhe usebenzisa ingqondo yakhe.
- Ngomphumela owodwa we-100% unikeza imiyalezo engalindelekile yemvelo ebuseduze. Cabanga nje ukuthi uma ubathumela, isibonelo, lapho emhlanganweni obalulekile noma ekhuluma nabazali bakhe, ngeke kuthokozise, kodwa kuyomcasula.
- Ukuze ujabulele othandekayo, kungase kuhloswe. Isibonelo, ekuqaleni kosuku lokusebenza ungabhalela ukuthi kusihlwa kuyoshisa futhi ulale ngokuthula, akakwazi. Emva kwalokho, ukuphendula izingcingo noma ama-sms, akudingekile. Imicabango njalo namaphupho
cishe kusihlwa, kuzoshisa kuphela isithakazelo futhi kubangele injabulo.
Uma ungenayo imibono eyanele nemicabango mayelana nokuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umfana onemiyalezo, khona-ke kufanelekile ukubhala imilayezo yendalo , hhayi ukusungula noma yini, kodwa ukukhumbula izikhathi eziqhakazile eziye zahlangana ndawonye. Ukuze uthuthukise umphumela, ungathumela umlayezo wezwi noma wenze isithombe esithandekayo. Namuhla, amafoni amaningi akuvumela ukuba uthumele nemiyalezo yevidiyo, ngokuqinisekile ivuselele isithakazelo somlingani.
Kungashiwo ngokuvunywa ukuthi kulula ukujabulisa umfana, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungabi namahloni futhi ubhale konke kusuka enhliziyweni. Ngokwezifundo ezenziwe, inqwaba yamadoda ijabulela lapho intombazane ichaza ngokucacile izigcawu zocansi futhi igcina ukuxhumana okungathí sina.