Isintu sihlukaniswe saba abalandeli bezocansi , "lapho" konke kufanele kwenzeke ngesikhathi esifanele, futhi kulabo abalala embhedeni baqala ukufuna izinto ezintsha, ezingenasici futhi ezingaphephile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Zombili zilapha lapha, ngoba ubulili kufanele bulethe injabulo, futhi indlela yokufeza ngayo indaba yendaba yomuntu ngamunye.
Sizokukhuluma ngalokho okufana namantombazane, ukugxila ezibalweni futhi kungabandakanyi ukuthi ezinye zezinkinga azikwazi ukukuvumelanisa futhi ungathandi.
Inkinobho
Ngokwezibalo, iningi labesifazane bathanda ukwenza uthando kancane, isikhathi eside futhi ngokungena okujulile. Lokhu kuhlangana kuhlangabezana nazo zonke izindlela ezintathu.
Owesifazane ulele emhlane wakhe wamphonsa ngisho nemilenze phezu kwamahlombe akhe. Uyangena kuwo, eguqa, egxila izandla zakhe embhede.
Uma owesifazane ezwela kakhulu i-microflora ne-lubricant engavamile ngokwemvelo, sincoma ukusebenzisa kule ndawo amakhemikhali atholakele emanzini.
I-sliding
Omunye walabo abangela ukuthi amantombazane abathanda kakhulu. Le ndoda ilele emhlane. Umlingani naye ulele emhlane wakhe (noma, njengokukhetha, uncike ezandleni zakhe eziqondisiwe) emilenzeni yakhe, ugoba imilenze yakhe emathangeni akhe. Ngakho ukujula kulawulwa umlingani, futhi le ndoda inethuba lokumkhathaza ngezandla zamahhala.
I-Loop
Futhi ekugcineni kwezimo ezidumile ezithandweni zobulili, amantombazane abathanda. Le ndoda ilele emhlane, futhi owesifazane uthatha isikhundla sokuguqa ngamadolo, njengokuthi "isitayela se-doggy".
Uhamba ngalesi sikhundla somlingani, olawula futhi ijubane nokujula, futhi lo muntu unethuba lokuthola injabulo eyengeziwe nokuthokoza ngokucabanga ngezicansi zomlingani ngesikhathi socansi.
