Uma umuntu efuna impendulo yombuzo wukuthi uhlobo luni lwabesifazane abathandana nabo ngokobulili, alukhombisi lutho lwangenalwazi noma ukungabi nalutho. Kungenzeka ukuthi ungumlingani oqaphele futhi ufuna ukuletha owesifazane wakhe injabulo enkulu.
Abesifazane bathanda uhlobo luni lobulili: sprint noma marathon?
Amadoda amaningi akholelwa ukuthi abesifazane abesilisa ocansini bangabalandeli bemarathon ende. Kodwa-ke, lokhu akulona iqiniso - ubulili obude nabangenasisindo buyathandwa ngabesifazane besimo sengqondo, futhi kaningi bayathanda ukushicilela okwesikhashana, kodwa baphinda izikhathi eziningana. Futhi noma ngabe le nkosikazi ifuna ukucindezeleka isikhathi eside, indoda akufanele iluleke ekungenasiphelo - injabulo yomlingani izolahleka, futhi ngokuvamile ufuna ukuqhubeka.
Ngabe abesifazane bafuna uhlobo luni lobulili?
Ngokuvamile futhi ehambisana nobungozi bokubanjwa abantu abangabazi ngesondo, kuvela, bathande amadoda kuphela, kodwa futhi ubulili obuhle. Izimo ezihambisana nokushaywa kwe-adrenaline, ukuthatha izinyathelo ezithandweni zabesifazane zijabulisa futhi zifaka isandla ekuthuthukiseni injabulo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iningi labesifazane bathanda ubulili nezidakamizwa, kodwa-ke, kuphela nomlingani obangela ukuzethemba okukhulu. Esikhathini sengqondo sabesifazane, indima yendoda ihlelwe njengenhloko, ngakho-ke bonke abesifazane (okuvunywa, abanye ngasese) baphupha ukulalela umlingani oqinile.
Ngabe abesifazane baphupha uhlobo luni lobulili?
Ukuze uqonde ukuthi yiliphi igciwane elinjengowesifazane othile, indoda kufanele iqaphe ngokucophelela ukusabela kwayo ezinhlobonhlobo ze-caresses, ukuthi ukukhathazeka kukhula kanjani futhi kuwele. Umthetho wesibili ukulandela isilinganiso kukho konke. Futhi isimo esibaluleke kunazo zonke sokuthola injabulo yowesifazane yikukhona komzwelo nokukhulumisana komunye nomunye. Ubulili ngaphandle kothando kuyindlela nje yokuzivocavoca.