Inkosi yaseBrithani eneminyaka engu-32 ubudala, uNkosana uHarry, yanikeza inkhulumomphendvulwano lapho ekhuluma ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi uhlangane kanjani nokufa kukaMama. Naphezu kokuthi uPrincess Diana wafa cishe eminyakeni engaba ngu-20 edlule, uHarry manje manje wayengakwazi ukukhuluma ngokuthula ngokulahlekelwa kwakhe ne-The Telegraph.
Isikhulu saqala "ukufihla ikhanda esihlabathini"
Ngesikhathi lapho kwenzeka khona ingozi yemoto eParis, uHarry wayeneminyaka engu-12 kuphela. Konke lokhu umcibisholo wabhala ngokuphindaphindiwe ngeqiniso lokuthi isikhulu sibhekene nokucindezeleka okukhulu ekulahlekelweni kukaMama futhi sahlubuka kuye, engathandi ukuvumela abantu abangabazi emphefumulweni wakhe. Enkulumweni yocwaningo leThe Telegraph, inkosi yazimisela ukutshela ukuthi wayebhekana kanjani nosizi:
"Lapho ngithola ukuthi umama ushonile, angizange ngikuqonde ngokushesha lokho okwakushiwo kimi nokuthi kwenzekani. Lapho ulwazi lubuyela emuva evamile emva kwezindaba ezimbi, ngahlala njengephupho. Angikhumbuli ngempela umngcwabo, noma izinsuku ezazisemva kwazo. Ngangifuna ukufihla kuwo wonke umuntu futhi ngibhekane nosizi ngalutho. Ngikhumbula abanye abantu abazama ukungikhuluma nami, kodwa yiziphi izingxoxo, angizisho manje. Ngesinye isikhathi, ngabona ukuthi uma ngingasula izinkumbulo zikamama, kungaba lula kimi. Kusukela ngesikhatsi ngiqala "ukufihla ikhanda esihlabathini" lapho kufika ku-Diana. "
Ngemva kwalokho, uHarry wakhumbula iminyaka yakhe yobusha:
"Abaningi bangitshele ukuthi ubuhlungu bokufa komama buyodlula futhi isikhathi siyaphulukisa, kodwa akuzange kwenzeke kimi. Lapho ngiqala ukucabanga ngoDiana, ngangizizwa kabi kangangokuthi ngangifuna ukushaya okuthile noma othile. Lesi simo sengqondo esithonya ukukhetha umsebenzi wami. Ngaya ukuyokhonza futhi ngiba yisosha. Ngemva kokuba ngisemkhatsini wezempi, kwaba lula kimi. Ngokuyinhloko ngisizwa ukunqoba izindaba ezibuhlungu zakwa-veterans empini mayelana nokulahlekelwa abangane babo ngesikhathi sokusebenza kwamasosha emazweni ahlukene. Yiqiniso, ngangisakwazi ukuphulukisa isilonda. "
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UHarry wasiza uWilliam William
Eminyakeni eminingana edlule, iNkosana uHarry yanquma ukuthatha umhlalaphansi empini futhi yenze imisebenzi yakhe ngokuqondile njengekosi. Waqala ukuhlanganyela ngokweqile imicimbi yomphakathi njengomunye wamalungu omndeni wasebukhosini futhi ahlanganyele ekusizeni. Enkulumweni yakhe, isikhulu sichaza ukuthi ubani owamsiza ukunqoba ukucindezeleka ngemva kokufa kuka-Diana:
"Ngesikhathi ngineminyaka engu-28, nginomngane ongalindelekile noWilliam. Wayekwazi ukuthola amagama engangiqala ukumlalela. UWilliam wangikhuthaza ukuba ngibonane nengcweti yengqondo engangisiza ngiphinde ngisindise ekufeni komama. Ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile, ukuya kudokotela kwakuyisinyathelo esinzima kimi, kodwa ngisenqume ukuvakashela. Manje angikusho ukuthi ukwelashwa kwaqhubeka isikhathi esingakanani, kodwa kwakungekho umhlangano owodwa nodokotela, kodwa okuningi. "
Ekuphethweni kwengxoxo yakhe, uHarry wathi la mazwi:
"Manje ngikwazi ukukhuluma ngokufa kuka-Diana ngokuthula. Kusobala ukuthi enhliziyweni yami konke kucindezelekile, kodwa alukho ubuhlungu obunjalo engangibuzwa eminyakeni emihlanu edlule. Manje sengilungele ukukhulula umama futhi ngikulungele ukuqala isigaba esisha empilweni yami. Ngifuna ngempela ukuba nomndeni nabantwana bami. "