Yini eyenza abafana bathande okunye futhi okufanayo ukuthi amantombazane akhetha? Imibuzo enjalo ayithakazelisi hhayi "kuphela abantu", kodwa nakososayensi abangapheleli ekucabangeni okuvuthiwe ngale nkinga, kodwa benza ucwaningo olunzulu. Imiphumela yemiphumela yezenhlalakahle iyathakazelisa kakhulu, kuvela ukuthi izikhundla ezizithandayo zabafana ocansini ngokuvamile zihambisana nalabo abenza ukuthi amantombazane abathanda. Ngakho-ke, nansi izimo ezintathu ezidume kakhulu, okufanele zibizwa ngokuthi ama-favorite and girls kanye namantombazane: "umfana osuka ngemuva", "umfana ovela phezulu", "intombazane evela phezulu". Yiziphi ezinye izimo abafana abazenzayo? Ezindaweni ezingu-4 no-5 yizinto ezithi "zilele" futhi "zihlezi". Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi labesifazane bayavumelana nezindawo ezintathu zokuqala zabafana abathandekayo babafana, kodwa ezindaweni ezingu-4 no-5 iziphakamiso "69" futhi "uhlezi, futhi ummeli omiyo" abekwa. Kungani izimpendulo ezibekwa ezindaweni ezine no-5 zihlukile kwabesilisa nabesifazane, ososayensi abazange bakuthole, kodwa bavuma ngokuzithandela ukuthambekela kwezimo ezisezindaweni eziphezulu ezintathu ohlwini.
Izintandokazi zabafana
- Pose "umfana ngemuva", naye uyisitayela sezinja. Eqinisweni, lokhu akusona isikhundla esisodwa, kodwa ingxenye yonke yezinkinga, ezithandwa kakhulu kubafana. Isimo sezingalo nemilenze yabalingani singashintsha kuye ngokuthi kulula kokubili. Ungakholelwa lokho kusuka esikhundleni esinjalo, ungabhekana nezinkinga eziningana? Xhuma i-fantasy noma uthathe kamasutra, futhi qinisekisa ukuthi lesi simemezelo sinembile. Kungani amadoda afana nalawa abangela? Abazali be-sexologists bayakusho ukuthi lesi sikhundla sikulungele abalingani, ngakho-ke sinabalandeli abaningi kangaka. Izazi zengqondo zithi lesi sikhundla simnandi kubafana kuqala kokuthi bayilawula ngokuphelele owesifazane, okusho ukuthi izinga eliphezulu lokuzethemba lomlingani. Kodwa kukhona elinye ikamu, abalandeli balo abalitshela lokho, uma umfana osuka ngemuva ehlonishwa ngamadoda anezici zakudala ezithuthukile, futhi ubiza ucansi olunjalo "ubulili ngaphandle kwemizwa."
- Pose "umfana ovela phezulu," uyisithunywa sevangeli. Naphezu kokuhlukana okuhlukahlukene kwezocansi, isikhundla sezithunywa zevangeli sisathathwa futhi sithandwa imibhangqwana eminingi. Kungani amadoda afana naye? Izwi labaqondisi bezokwelapha. Lezi zici zezimfihlakalo zomqondo womuntu zivame ukukholelwa ukuthi amadoda, ekhetha le nkinga, afuna ukugcizelela imizwa yabo ngomlingani. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma ulala ocansini kule ndawo, ungakwazi ukumanga. Noma kunjalo, ngokwama-psychologists, amadoda anjalo awafuni ukulala ocansini kuphela ngenxa yalokhu, kodwa ngokwemvelo banomusa futhi banamandla. Okusebenza kakhudlwana ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi okunamathiselwe kule nkinga ngenxa yesimo esivelele salowo muntu. Kodwa ungacabangi ukuthi isikhundla sezithunywa zevangeli, kuphela kulabo abashadile abanenkinga yokucabanga noma imibhangqwana "yokufutheka komdala." Shintsha lokhu okuvelayo ngokufaka izintambo ezimbalwa ngaphansi kwamathanga womlingani. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, ushintsho oluncane olunjalo luyokhulisa ukujula kokungena, futhi kuzovumela i-orgasm ukuthi ifinyelele bobabili abalingani ngesikhathi esisodwa.
- Hlala "intombazane phezulu" noma umgibeli. Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi lesi sikhundla sikhethwe amadoda avilaphayo. Futhi ngempela, ngizikhululekile - futhi ngiyajabula, umlingani uzokwenza konke yena ngokwakhe. Ngempela, umbono onjalo ulungile, amadoda amaningi achaza lokhu ngothando lwabo ngesimo esinjalo. Kodwa hhayi njalo okuthandwa yi-pose enjalo, enye ingenxa yobuvila. Amadoda abakhetha lokhu, ama-aesthetes, aphuthelwa ithuba lokubheka ubuhle besidumbu sowesifazane. Imvelo yalezi zici zobumnandi ihlukile ngokuzethemba, kepha ikhono lokunciphisa likhona. Kodwa nokho izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi abantu abakhonta lokhu pose banqatshelwe ubandlululo, futhi nabo kanye nemizwelo.