Ngokwezibalo, amantombazane amaningi aqala ukulala ngo-17-19. Njengoba besho, konke kwenzeka okokuqala. Kodwa ubulili bobulili bokuqala besifazane buhlale buyingqayizivele futhi bungalokothi bulibaleke, kakade esimweni esihle noma esibi - kuxhomeke enhlanhleni nasekulungiseleleni ngamunye. Sizocabangela into ebaluleke kunazo zonke - izimo zobungqingili bokuqala. Phela, ukuma okulungile kunganciphisa kokubili ukungaqondakali kwengqondo, ukwesaba , nokubuhlungu ngokomzimba lapho uphula i-hymen.
Awekho ama-acrobatics!
Wena, ngokuqinisekile, isikhathi eside ulinde, futhi manje, "ngokuphukile", ufuna ukuthola konke futhi ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kuyoba iphutha elikhulu ukulungiselela ukwenza ngesikhathi sokuqala isenzo se-acrobatic isenzo esiyinkimbinkimbi yezocansi, ngisho noma ungumqeqeshi wezemidlalo noma udansa. Isikhathi sokuqala, kunoma yikuphi, ukucindezeleka nokwesaba, ngakho-ke ukuhleleka komuntu wokuqala ngokobulili kungukuthi kuningi kakhulu, isithunywa sevangeli.
Iyakuthandwa imibhangqwana eminingi emhlabeni jikelele, hhayi nje kuphela, izikhathi. Ngaphezu kwalesi simo ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho ninokuxhumana kwamehlo - lokho kutholisa.
Futhi okudabukisayo ukuthi amanye amantombazane asaba kakhulu lapho umuntu onelungu elikhulu, elijabule elihlezi phezu kwabo, ongaqondi ukuthi (ukubukela izithombe ezingcolile akukwenzanga kanjani ukungazi kwakho lula) kuzofanelana nesiswini. Ezimweni ezinjalo, udinga ukuthola isibindi futhi uthathe umgibeli womgibeli.
Lesi sikhundla sokulala ngokokuqala ngqa, ngoba amantombazane ajwayele ukucindezeleka, ngaphansi komuntu. Kodwa uma ukwesaba kusuka ngezansi, isikhundla somgibeli sizokunika umqondo wokuzethemba, ngoba uzokwazi - "uma kukhona okungahambi kahle, ngingakwazi ukuma njalo."
Isimo esikahle kunazo zonke sobulili bokuqala kubonakala kumantombazane ngaphambi kokuba ukulala ngokocansi kuqala kakade ukushaya indlwabu . Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukunciphisa ubuhlungu bonke abesabayo, kodwa okungekho okubalulekile futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, ezingabonakali, yiba "isitayela se-doggy" (knee-elbow)
bese ufaka "isipuni" - uma umngane wakho ecindezela kuwe ngemuva.
