Ubulili buyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwethu, ikakhulukazi indima ebalulekile ebuhlotsheni, uyadlala owesilisa. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane kufanele banakekele ngokukhethekile lokhu futhi baqonde ukuthi ukushayela kanjani umuntu okhulelwe embhedeni.
Le ndoda ayizange izame ukubheka izinzwa ezintsha ohlangothini kanti abanye abameleli bobulili obuhlukile abazange bavusa isithakazelo sakhe, intombazane kufanele inakekele umlingani wayo ngaso sonke isikhathi anelisekile, futhi impilo ebuseduze ayizange ibe yinduna futhi ingabi nandaba.
Indlela yokunciphisa ingqondo yomuntu - izimfihlo ze geisha
Njengoba wazi, ngobuciko nothando nokukhohlisa okuyinkimbinkimbi kunazo zonke kubhekwa njengamaJapane aseJapane. Esikhathini esidlule, laba besifazane bahlonishwa phakathi kobulili obunamandla. Ukufunda kwengqondo yendoda, bayakwazi ukumshayela ngobugebengu hhayi kuphela kwezocansi, kodwa futhi ukujabulisa umphefumulo, ukuthakazelisa nokulula ukuxhumana.
I-geisha yaseJapan inekhwalithi enhle kakhulu futhi engavamile - ikhono lokulalela ngaphandle kokuphazamisa nokubamba isimo somuntu. Ukuvakashela okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe nokwenza kucace ukuthi zonke izinkinga zixazululwa, lo muntu uzozizwa ekhululekile futhi enokuthula, futhi ubulili naye buzoba mnandi nje.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda adonsela kubesifazane abazethembayo, okuvela kubo kanye nokukwazi ukujabulela ukuphila kutholakala. Ngakho-ke, zama ukubonisa ukucasula kwakho nemizwelo emibi. Ukumomotheka kancane nokugcoba emehlweni ngenkathi kukhulumisana kuyokwenza umuntu ahlanye.
Okubaluleke kakhulu ukubonakala. Geisha yaseJapane inikeza isikhathi esiningi emizimbeni yabo. Ukugxila ikakhulu kubhalwa isikhumba somzimba. Emva kokuthatha ibhuku lokushisa, udinga ukusikhipha isikhumba sakho usebenzisa amafutha omnqumo. Ngeke nje kuphuculwe kuphela futhi kwenze kube silky, kodwa futhi kuyokwenza ngcono umzimba. Okunye okudingekayo ubukeka, izinwele nokunakekelwa kwe-nail.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, udinga ukukhumbula mayelana nokudla okunempilo nokukhishwa kwemikhuba emibi, eyithinta kakhulu ukubukeka. Kufanelekile ukuphawula ukuthi isisekelo sokudla kwaseJapane yizilwane zasolwandle, okusiza ekunciphiseni ukuguga nokuvimbela ukuthunyelwa kwamafutha.
Qaphela ukuthunyelwa kwakho, indlela kanye nendlela yokunyakaza. Ngendlela evamile, lokhu kudlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu.
Geisha yaseJapane yazi kahle ukuthi yiliphi ubulili obuzoshayela indoda. Ngaphandle kokucindezela, imfihlo eyenza ukuba i-mistress engalibaleki iwukuba ukuqhuba umzimba njalo ngezidumbu zesisu. Ukwenza lokhu phakathi nosuku abadinga ukuluhlula imizuzu eminingana. Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi lokhu akunakwenziwa ngesikhumba esiphelele. Imisipha eqeqeshwe ngomzimba izonikezela injabulo enkulu hhayi kumuntu kuphela, kodwa nakulo wesifazane. Ukuze ujabulise umlingani wakho ngezinzwa ezintsha, ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi, uhlwitha imisipha yomzimba wesisu kanye namathanga.
Ungamshayela kanjani umuntu embhedeni nge-weasel?
Okokuqala kudingeka uzame ukulungisa lo muntu ngendlela efanele. Lungisa isidlo sakusihlwa, kufaka phakathi isidlo somlingani ozithandayo, amakhandlela akhanyayo ukuze enze umkhathi othandekayo. Gqoka
Zama njenge-foreplay ngendlela yokuzilibazisa ukwenza umuntu abe nokuphumula okuphumuzayo okwenyukayo usebenzisa ioli elimnandi. Ukwenza kube yimpumelelo, isici esibalulekile ukubonakaliswa kothando, isisa nokuhlonishwa komzimba wesondo oqinile. Ngesikhathi sokubutha, qaphela zonke izingxenye zomzimba womuntu wakho, ikakhulukazi ngemuva, esifubeni, entanyeni futhi, ngempela, isithunzi esiyinhloko esesilisa. Futhi ungakhohlwa ngokumanga kwamagama namazwi amnandi ekheli lekhethiwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukumjabulisa nge-caresses yomlomo, ngoba amadoda lokhu kungenye yezinjabulo eziphakeme kakhulu.