Ezikhathini zasendulo, ukubekezela kwakubhekwa njengento enhle. Manje ukubekezela kuchazwa njengendawo eveza ukuvuthwa okungokomoya komuntu, ikhono lakhe lokuhlala lizolile esimweni esingathandeki kuye, elinde imiphumela yemisebenzi eye yenziwa ngokuphindaphindiwe.
Inkezo yokubekezela yimizwi engokomfanekiso, ekhomba umkhawulo othile noma umngcele wokubekezelelana kwabantu. Uma igcwalisa umuntu uba nomzwelo kakhulu futhi unengqondo futhi ngokuvamile evuthayo wenza izenzo ozozisola ngazo isikhathi eside. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuthinta ubudlelwane bomuntu siqu, ngakho uthando nokubekezela akuxhunyaniswe kahle.
Umkhawulo wokubekezela, njengoba uqonda, uhlukile kuwo wonke umuntu. Abantu abaningi bangathanda ukuthuthukisa lo mkhuba wezinhlamvu zabo futhi babe nesiguli esikhulu, banethuba lokuhlola isimo ngokuhlakanipha, futhi bangathonywa ukucasuka ngokomzwelo. Uma ungowalolu hlobo lwemibuthano, cishe uzobe nesithakazelo ekufundeni izindlela eziningana zokuzibekezela.
Indlela yokuhlakulela ukubekezela?
Ukubekezela, njengezinye izici zomlingiswa, kungathuthukiswa ngokuqeqeshwa okuvamile. Okulandelayo, ukunakwa kwakho kuhlinzekwa ngezindlela eziningana ezisiza ukuthuthukisa isineke.
- Yithwala njengomuntu oyisisulu, into encane, ingaba ipeni noma ikhiphedi. Lokhu kuyadingeka ukuze ngesikhathi lapho kubonakala kuwe ukuthi inkomishi yokubekezela isanda ukuchichima, ungathinta lokhu "i-amulet yokubekezelelana" futhi yancipha ngesikhathi.
- Ukuzibonela ngokweqile noma ukubuka okwenzekayo ngaphandle, kusiza ukuzigcina uphendule bese uhlola isimo ngokucophelela.
- Isibonakaliso esivame kakhulu sokungabekezelelani kuyinto intukuthelo, ngakho-ke ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka okukhulu ngokomzwelo uzibala kancane ukuya ku-5 futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuzithiba nokubekezela kwakho kuthuthuke.