Umshado kanye nobuhlobo bomndeni - lokhu kuyisakhiwo esiyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu emphakathini wanamuhla. Ngokwezibalo ezisemthethweni, ngaphezu kwengxenye yemishado ebhalisiwe ihlukana. Kunzima ukubiza izinkinga ezithile zomndeni-ubuhlobo bomshado, emva kwakho konke, njengoba wazi, wonke umuntu unesizathu sakhe sokungaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Izinhlobo zomshado-ubudlelwane bomndeni
Kuye ngokuthi hlobo luni lomndeni-ubudlelwane bomshado obusungulwa phakathi kwalabo abasanda kushada, umuntu angase ahlulele nokuthi ukuthuthukiswa komndeni kuzoba yini, abantu bazohlala isikhathi eside kangakanani ndawonye. Namuhla, igama elithi "isehlukaniso" alisabesabisa, njengangaphambili, futhi inani labantu abangena emishadweni yomshado landa ngokwengeziwe.
Ngakho-ke, ake sibheke izinhlobo zobudlelwano emndenini:
Inkonzo yomndeni:
- abasanda kushada - abantu abashadile ngemuva kokushada futhi bengakholelwa ukuthi bangabhekana nezinkinga;
- umndeni osemusha - abantu abaye baqaphela ukuthi lolu thando alwanele, sidinga ukunakekelwa okungaphezulu, ukuqonda nokuthembela ;
- umndeni ekulindeni ingane - ushintsho olunzulu ebuhlotsheni, ukuthuthukiswa kwendlela entsha yokuphila;
- umndeni ophakathi kweminyaka eyishumi (iminyaka eyishumi ndawonye) - ukuvela kwesimiso, ukungqubuzana, kubalulekile ukuvuselela indlela yokuphila bese wengeza izithakazelo ezintsha kulo;
- umndeni wonyaka owedlule oshadile - izithakazelo ezivamile, ikhono lokuxoxisana liza phambili;
- umndeni wabantu abadala asebekhulile (ngokubonakala kwabazukulu) - umoya wokuphefumula, inzalo kubazukulu.
2. Ngenani lezingane:
- engenabantwana (imindeni engu-16%);
- imindeni engabodwa (imindeni engu-50%);
- izingane ezinezingane ezimbalwa (izingane ezingu-1-2);
- Ukuba nezingane eziningi (izingane ezingu-3 noma ngaphezulu, ukuhlukanisa cishe kukhishwe).
3. Ngekhwalithi yobuhlobo emndenini:
- esimeme;
- ukuchuma;
- ukuxabana;
- inkinga;
- umphakathi awuphumelelanga.
Eqinisweni, imindeni ingahlukaniswa ngenani elingenamkhawulo lezimpawu. Ngempela, ngaphandle kwemindeni lapho izingane zikhuliswe khona ngumama nobaba, kukhona nemindeni engaphelele, lapho omunye wabazali engekho. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kobudlelwane bomndeni-bomshado kuwumthwalo womshado wombili.
Izinto ezonakalisa ubuhlobo bomshado nomndeni
Njengomthetho, inkinga yomndeni-ubudlelwane bomshado kwenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile: unyaka owodwa, iminyaka emithathu, iminyaka emihlanu, iminyaka engu-7, iminyaka engu-10, iminyaka engu-20 nokuqhubeka njalo eminyakeni eyishumi. Kuze kube manje, izici ezandisa kakhulu amathuba okuhlukanisa , ziyizi:
- ukuhlukanisa noma ukuxabana phakathi kwabazali bomunye womshado (noma kokubili);
- ukuhlanganyela ngokuhlanganyela endaweni ephilayo yabazali abanabo;
- Ukuphazamiseka kwabazali ebuhlotsheni bomshado;
- sebenzisa abashade noma omunye wabo utshwala nezidakamizwa;
- ukwehlukaniswa emshadweni, ukungabi nethemba;
- noma yiziphi izidakamizwa ezimbi zomuntu oyedwa noma bobabili bomshado (ukugembula, injabulo, njll);
- ukuhlukaniswa ngokuphoqeleka kwabashade (ukuhamba kwebhizinisi, indlela yokusebenza emsebenzini, njll);
- umsebenzi ophezulu wabasebenzi besifazane (lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "umndeni wokuqhafaza");
- ukudala noma ukuphuza kakhulu ukushada;
- ukukhulelwa ngaphambi kokushada (lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "imishado evuselelwe");
- ukuzalwa kwengane eminyakeni yokuqala 1-2 yomshado;
- ukuxabana okukhulu phakathi kokubili kokushada;
- ukungabi nalutho, ukuhluleka ukuba nezingane zabanye bomshado;
- ukulayisha ngokweqile noma ukukhathala ngokomzimba ngemuva komsebenzi noma isifundo;
- ubugovu bomuntu oyedwa noma bobabili;
- ukulindela okungenangqondo.
Ukuze silondoloze ubudlelwane, kufanelekile ukuxoxa nabo: ukusabalalisa imisebenzi, ukusungula "kungenzeka" futhi "hhayi", futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ukungabandakanyi abanye abantu kubo. Kukholelwa ukuthi ngokushesha nje lapho izinkinga emndenini ziba esidlangalaleni, umndeni uqala ukwehlukana ngesivinini esheshayo.