Indlela yokwenza umyeni wangaphambili?

Ukwenza isakramente yomshado, lo mbhangqwana ushade ezulwini. Kodwa impilo kaningi iveza izimanga ezingalindelekile futhi ziphenduka, abantu ababonakala beyizihlobo zabo zonke izimpilo zabo baba abangabazi. Kulula kakhulu ukwenza isahlukaniso somphakathi kunokuqeda ubuhlobo, uphawu uphawu lwesonto. Kodwa-ke, kukhona umkhuba ohlukile wokuxhuma izinhloso - debunking .

Uma ufunda ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba udibanise esontweni lapho wenza khona inyunyana, uzothola impendulo yokuthi yonke imikhosi ehle kakhulu ingenziwa ngaphandle kwemvume yeDeoccese. Umkhandlu wabapristi abangu-10 noma ngaphezulu kuphela ozokhipha isinqumo kwisicelo sakho. Ngenxa yalokho, kuvela ukuthi ukushada kulula futhi ngokushesha kunokwesekwa. ISonto liyaqonda ukuthi abantu bavame ukufuna ukulimaza futhi benze izinqumo eziphuthumayo, ngakho-ke inqubo ye-debunking ayikhethiwe kubo bonke hhayi ngokushesha.

Ungamqeda kanjani umyeni wakho?

Uma uzohlukaniswa nomlingani wakho wangaphambili, ngakho-ke udinga izizathu ezinhle - ukuhlubuka, ukukhipha isisu ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni wakhe. Awukwazi ukwenza umkhuba wokubuyela emuva emshadweni ngenxa yokuthi "akazange avumelane nomlingiswa" noma "ushintshe ngaphandle, futhi angithandi", njll. Futhi, ukuchithwa komshado, okudalwe ezulwini, kunqatshelwe ngenxa yobunzima bezimali bomndeni.

Ukuphendula umbuzo, lapho izimo zingasuswa ngenxa yokugula, isonto liyaphendula ukuthi lokhu kufanele kube ukugula okungokwemvelo kwengqondo noma isimo se-neurogenic. Ezifo zesimo somuntu, isonto liyabona njengesisusa esihle izifo ezithathelwanayo - ukoma, i-AIDS, njll.

Yini okudingeka uyenze?

Ngenhloso eqinile yokudonswa, izinhlangothi zombili zihambisa izicelo zeDeoccese kule nqubo. Esitatimendeni esibhaliwe sabombili amaqembu isitifiketi somshado , amakhophi wepaspoti kanye nesitifiketi sokuhlukanisa sisetshenziswa. Ngakho-ke, njalo kungenzeka ukukhishwa ngemuva kokuhlukanisa umphakathi kanye nemvume yomshado wombili.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungakapheli izinsuku eziyi-10 isicelo sakho sithathwa futhi umhlangano ukhethwa, kuphi Ngaphezu kwabapristi abangu-10 bezinga elihlukile, kumele ube khona ngesigamu sakho sesibili.

Yini enye edingekayo ukuze udideke, ucela ... Kubalulekile ukufakazela kulo mhlangano ukuthi izizathu zakho zisebenza futhi zilungile. Uma kuphazamiseka ukuhlukumezeka, khona-ke amaqiniso adingekayo afakazela lokhu noma ukuqashelwa komlingani wesibili.

Uma kuhlaselwa isisu, umndeni ngamunye wangaphambili uyothola isibusiso ngomshado wesibili, noma kunjalo, esimweni sokuphinga, kuphela umuntu olimale uthola isibusiso.