Abanye besifazane emva kwehlukaniso abafuni ukulala naye nomyeni wangaphambili. Isimiso sisekhona noma siseseyinkinga enkulu, ake sizame ukuyihlola.
Izizathu zokuxhumana okunjalo "okungavamile"
- Ukuhlukaniswa kwakuyiphutha, futhi usayithanda umyeni wakho wangaphambili. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo, ungakwazi ukunqoba ukunxanela kwakhe, ikakhulukazi uma enezela umlilo futhi ethi uyakuthanda, uyaphutheka futhi ufuna ukubuyisela konke emuva. Mhlawumbe ekuseni kakhulu emva kobusuku obuvunguvungu, bobabili niyozisola ngokuthi niyenzile. Kungcono esimweni esinjalo ukukhipha ngokuphelele noma yikuphi ukuxhumana nomyeni wangaphambili bese ummosha empilweni yakhe.
- Ngezindleko zobulili nomuntu wangaphambili ofuna ukuzifakazela. Ngemuva kwesahlukaniso, uzizwa ucindezelekile futhi akekho odinga, futhi ubulili bungenza okungafani. Kulokhu, ukulala nomyeni wangaphambili akusizi, kungcono ukuthola umlingani omusha ozohlangabezana nezidingo zakho.
- Ubulili buhle empilweni. Awunalo ubuhlobo obuseduze ngemuva kwesahlukaniso. Futhi ukuyeka ukuhlala isikhathi eside, njengoba wazi, kungaba kubi empilweni. Kule ndaba, ubulili nomuntu wangaphambili buyindlela eyamukelekayo, ngoba ngaphandle kokwaneliseka okuvamile kwezidingo zakho, awunasithakazelo kunoma yini. Lapho umuntu omusha ebonakala khona, kufanele ubeke ukuxhumana nobulili nomunye.
- Indoda yangaphambili yayingcono kakhulu uma iqhathaniswa nabanye. Ngemuva kokuthi "ukuqeqeshwa" kwansuku zonke uyazi wonke amaphuzu akho futhi ngomzuzwana angakhipha i-orgasm engalindeleki, engasebenzi kubalingani abasha. Lapha kufanele uqonde ukuthi indoda ayizange ifunde lokhu ngokushesha, ngakho ukubekezela okuncane kanye nendoda entsha uzothola injabulo efanayo, futhi mhlawumbe ngaphezulu.
Izinzuzo zobuhlobo obunjalo
Kusukela kulezi zizathu ezibalwe ngenhla, kunezinhlangothi ezimbalwa ezinhle:
- uyazi ukuthi awuthandi omunye;
- akudingeki ubheke noma ubani ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho;
- manje unebudlelwane obuvulekile nomyeni wakho wangaphambili futhi unelungelo lokwenza noma yini oyifunayo;
- Ngale ndlela ungamfakazela ukuthi walahlekelwa;
- kukhona ithuba elikhulu lokuthi uzophuma futhi nomyeni wakho.
I-minuses yobuhlobo obunjalo
Ubulili nomyeni wangaphambili ngokuqinisekile buzolimaza ubuhlobo bakho obusha. Ukuze ube nelungelo lokwakha ubuhlobo obusha futhi uphinde ushade, udinga ukuqeda ngokuphelele konke okukubophe. Uma umyeni omusha unomfazi omusha, uzoshiywa lutho, bese uhlupheka nakakhulu. Ukukhumbula kungakhathaza umphefumulo, uzozizwa ucindezelekile futhi unyathelwe phansi, futhi uzoba nomuzwa ongajabulisayo owawusetshenzisiwe.
Zihlole wena
Ukuze ukwazi ukuzihlola futhi uqonde ukuthi kusho ukuthini, ngokuba ubulili nomyeni wangaphambili, phendula imibuzo elandelayo:
- Ingabe unesifiso sokubuyisela umyeni wakho wangaphambili?
- Uma unemizwa engafanele kumuntu wangaphambili?
- Ingabe usamthanda?
- Uma ulala naye, kuzothinta impilo yakho?
- Ingabe lokhu kuyisithiyo sokuqala impilo entsha?
Uma yonke imibuzo oyinikeze impendulo engalungile, bese ucansi nomyeni wangaphambili kuwe akusho lutho, uvele ukwanelise izidingo zakho. Futhi uma okungenani umbuzo owodwa ubangele ukungabaza kuwe, kungcono ukulahla uxhumano olunjalo.
Isiphetho
Qonda ukuthi ubulili obunjalo bungaba "i-rake", ohlale uhlasela. Ubuhlobo obunjalo buzoqala engqondweni yakho zonke izinkumbulo, phakathi kwazo okunye okungalungile, njengoba usuhlukanisile. Ngokuvamile, zenzele ukuthi yini oyifunayo bese wenza lokho okukukhethayo.