Ama-piquant overtones, inkulumo ethi "umndeni waseSweden" yagcwaliswa eminyakeni eyishumi nje kuphela. Ngomshado wabantu abathathu, intsha eqhubekayo yaseSweden yama-60s yekhulu elidlule yanquma ukubonisa ngokungahloniphi umhlaba ukuthi ubudlelwane bendabuko, njengabo bonke abahloniphekile, baphelelwe yisikhathi.
I-Fashion for the "triangles yothando" yahlala iminyaka eyishumi nje kuphela, umndeni wanamuhla waseSweden ubheka umkhuba wendabuko, futhi awufuni neze ukugcina isithombe, wangena ngendlela ye-hippy. Umshado waseSweden osemthethweni ungaqhayisa ngaphandle kwalabo abasanda kushada bobulili obufanayo.
Umlando omncane
Phakathi naleso sikhathi, umphakathi wokuqala "Cupid de Trois" wawubengekho eSweden, kodwa eSpain, lapho iNkosi uCarl, iNdlovukazi uMaria-Louise kanye noNdunankulu wakhe othandekayo uDon Manuel bebenokuthula iminyaka eminingi ngaphansi kophahla lwesigodlo esisodwa. Umzingeli othakazelisayo uKarl wavala amehlo akhe entshisekelo yesikhathi eside yendlovukazi, futhi indlovukazi eya ezinkingeni eziningi zomthandi.
Kwakukhona "umndeni waseSweden" owaziwayo futhi eRussia - inkulumo mayelana nomshado uBrok noMayakovsky yavuselela yonke iMoscow ngesikhathi sayo. Mhlawumbe, lokhu kuyilona kuphela icala lokuqashelwa komphakathi ngobuhlobo obuvamile ezweni lakithi, ezimweni eziningi imindeni yaseSweden ayifuni ukumemezela isimo sayo. Futhi nakuba zikhona ngempela, bambalwa kakhulu abaziwayo ngabo.
Kuyini umndeni waseSweden?
Umqondo womndeni waseSweden, empeleni, ungumndeni wabantu abathathu. Ngokuvamile kaningi - kuyinxantathu yothando, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kunezinye izibalo ze-geometric, futhi esinye sezibonelo ezidume kakhulu - futhi saseSweden, lapho iqembu elithandwayo le-ABBA lalingaziwa kuphela ngobuhlobo balo obuqinile, kodwa futhi nokushintshwa kobambisene nabo.
Akunandaba ukuthi ubani ophindiwe: indoda noma umfazi. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi umndeni onamalungu amathathu awulona nje umndeni ojwayelekile onobhentshi, wonke amalungu omndeni waseSwidi anamalungelo afanayo.
Imindeni yaseSweden kanjani?
Yiqiniso, umndeni waseSweden eRussia awuyena umndeni osemthethweni. Ngokuvamile kuqala ngamathathu, okugcina ekugcineni abe ngumndeni owodwa. Abangani noma abangane bomndeni osungulwe, beqala ngokuthi "beza ezocansi", shiya efulethini ibhuloho lamazinyo, ipasipoti kanye nabo. Kodwa ubulili besithathu buyingxenye yokuzikhethela yomndeni waseSweden.
Ngezinye izikhathi umndeni wabantu abathathu uhlanganiswa ngenxa yokuthi "udaba lwezindlu". Isibonelo, uma insizwa ihola owesifazane wenhliziyo endlini ukuthi, ukuze asindise, athatha izithombe nomngane, khona-ke amathuba okuba umakhelwane azoshiya noma ajoyine umndeni aphezulu kakhulu.
Umndeni waseSwidi: ukuphikiswa nokuphikisana
Umndeni waseSweden uphazamisa abaningi - ungaphila kanjani ndawonye, ​​uhlanganyele uthando lomuntu oyedwa kwababili, ngaphandle kwesihawu? Yiqiniso, uma lo mbhangqwana uphumelele ukuqeda umqondo wobunikazi, umndeni waseSwidi unenzuzo yawo:
- Abafazi ababili, isibonelo, bazobhekana nokuphathwa komnotho, ngokuthe xaxa, "ngeke baphikisane nendlu." Yebo, futhi ikhanda lamabili ngesikhathi esisodwa lingazilimazi;
- Amadoda amabili endlini angenani okungenani kabili njengesikebhe esisebenzayo, isikhali sezinyosi kanye nomsebenzi womshado ogcwalisiwe;
- kunezinye izikhathi ezintathu, okuhle ngezinye izikhathi ezenzeka emindenini yaseSweden - ngakho lokhu, okungenani, ukukhululwa kwabalingani. Ngakho - ulwazi oluhle lomzimba wakhe. Umhawu okhanyayo lapha, endleleni, awulimazi: isigamu sesithathu sizozama ukuba phezulu.
Izinkinga zemikhaya yaseSweden nazo ziyabonakala:
- ukungaqondi futhi ukungavumi emphakathini;
- isimo esingavumelekile okungenani omunye wabalingani;
- imindeni engavamile yaseSweden iphila kuze kube yimikhosi ephawulekayo. Futhi yibo kuphela abantwana abangase baziqhayise ngaphandle kokuthi uMaria-Louise ofanayo. Uma ingane yothando oluthathu iba ingane, izinkinga ngencazelo yobunikazi (ukuhlaziywa kwe-DNA kuyodingeka), kanye nokuvikelwa komphakathi kwe-fetus yalolu thando.