Ukudala umndeni kungenye yezikhathi ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni komuntu. Wonke umuntu ufuna ukudala iseli eliphilile futhi elinamandla lomphakathi. Njengomthetho, amadoda nabesifazane bakhetha ukushada nomuntu ovela ezweni lakubo, ubuzwe kanye nenkolo eyodwa. Ukujwayelekile kwesiko, ulimi, amasiko kanye nezihlobo eziseduze zezihlobo zenza inqubo yokuqonda ngokuvumelana. Kodwa-ke, ezweni lanamuhla elingenamingcele, imishado yenzalo iyaqhubeka iba njalo.
Izimbangela zemishado ye-interethnic
Abaningi banabangane bevela kwamanye amazwe, iwebhu yonkana emhlabeni wonke ususe yonke imingcele ekhona. Futhi uthando luyinto enjalo, okungekho muntu ogwemekile kuwo. Namuhla ungamazi nomfokazi noma umfokazi ngaphandle kokushiya ekhaya. Ufuna:
- idivayisi enikezwe kwinethiwekhi;
- i-akhawunti kwisayithi lokuthandana, enkundleni yokuxhumana;
- isifiso.
Ngaphandle kwezizathu "zenyama" zokuvela emshadweni we-interethnic, kukhona:
- Economic . Ngenxa yenkambiso yokubambisana komhlaba wonke, inani labahambi liyakhula, futhi kanye nalo iphesenti lemishado engezansi. Ngokwezibalo ze-UN, cishe isigamu (49.6%) sabangu-200 million abafudukayo emhlabeni wonke ngo-2005 kwakungabesifazane. Umshado wamazwe omhlaba uyithuba lokuphila okuphephile kubo.
- Psychological . Ochwepheshe bathi kukhona imishado engezansi, izimbangela zazo ezihlobene kuqala ebuhlotsheni emndenini. Izingane ziphikisana nabazali bazo. Isibonelo ukuthi ubaba ulokhu ephindaphinda "oh la amerikos, bonke abasibo abantu" nokunye okunjalo. Kule ntombazane ezingeni elingenasici, kuvela indlela yokuphikisa. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzokhula futhi ashade nomMelika ukubonisa uyise ukuthi ulungile.
- Social . Indoda evela ezweni elingathuthuki ngokwezomnotho, kodwa efinyelele esimweni esiphezulu sezenhlalakahle, ushada owesifazane ovela ezweni elithuthukile, kodwa akakutholanga isimo esiphakeme. Noma ngokuphambene nalokho. Ngakho bafanisa izikhundla zabo.
- Ezombusazwe . Imishado eqinile yamakhosi, izinhloko zombuso.
Imishado engenandaba - ingqondo
Izici zengqondo zemishado yezinkondlo zihlukile kulabo abahlala emindenini yezwe. Izici eziningana zithinta isimo sezulu sengqondo emndenini onjalo:
- amasiko;
- umqondo;
- inkolo;
- ulimi;
- ukude nezihlobo.
Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi emshadweni we-interethnic kubalulekile ukunquma ukuthi umlingani ngamunye uzimisele kangakanani ukujoyina isiko elisha. Bahlukanisa izinhlobo ezine zokuhlanganiswa, okwesibili nokwesithathu ziphumelela kakhulu ekuphileni komndeni okuvumelanayo:
- ukutshala isiko lakho futhi uzinaki ngokuphelele amasiko omlingani wakho;
- ukushiya isiko labo, ukuhlanganiswa okugcwele kube entsha;
- ukuhlanganiswa okuyingxenye, ukutholwa kwezici ezithile zomasiko;
- ukwenqaba kokubili komuntu siqu nakumasiko womlingani wakhe.
Imishado yobuhlanga - izakhi zofuzo
Izingane ezivela emishadweni yezinhlanga zingaphansi kwezifo zofuzo . Isibonelo, isakhi esithinta isifo esiyingxenye yesifo "i-sickle cell anemia" yisakhi sofuzo (ngokucindezelwa kakhulu) kubantu base-Afrika. Uma owesifazane wase-Afrika ebeletha i-European, khona-ke ingane yabo ngeke ibe nalesi sifo. Okufanayo kusebenza nakwezinye iziphambeko ezifa. Izifo ezivela emshadweni wezizwe "ziyafa". Ososayensi bakholelwa ukuthi imishado eqinile yentsandabuko yobuhlanga iyindlela enhle.
Enye into ukubonakala. Akuyona njalo ukuxuba kwezinhlanga kuholela emphumela omuhle kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, abanye abantu abahle kunazo zonke bavela emishadweni exubekile. Inzalo ehlonishwayo yemishado ehlukene yilezi zibonelo:
- Umculi waseCanada uShania Twain uzalwa emnyangweni weCanada kanye namaBhabhiya aseNdiya.
- U-Beyonce, ubaba wesizwe sase-Afrika, unina wamaCreole (emndenini wakhe kwakunguFrance, amaNdiya kanye nabase-Afrika baseMelika).
- UMariah Carey, unina ungo-Irish, ubaba wakhe uvela e-Afroenese.
Imishado engezansi - Orthodoxy
ISonto Lama-Orthodox linesimo sengqondo esingalungile ngokuqondene nemishado yangaphakathi. Zisongela ukholo lobu-Orthodox. Ngokuvamile imishado yomsindo iyinishado engokwenkolo. Ekhulwini le-7, eMkhandlwini olandelayo eConstantinople, isimo sengqondo seSonto Lobu-Orthodox kulokhu kukhishwa. Imishado yangaphakathi-yenkolo yayivunyelwe. Abefundisi banamuhla abazange bashintshe leli phuzu. Ngokombono wabo, ukushada ngokwemvelo kubhidliza i-Orthodoxy. Owesifazane oshade nendoda ehlukile, kunzima ukufaka izingane ukholo lobu-Orthodox.
Imishado engenasisindo - izinzuzo nezindleko
Imishado engenasisindo emphakathini wanamuhla - into ejwayelekile. Emshadweni ohlangene kukhona ama-pluses namaminithi. Ukushada komuntu ovela kwelinye izwe kunezinzuzo ezimbalwa:
- ukucwiliswa kwamanye amasiko, ukwandiswa kwemingcele yamasiko;
- ukubhujiswa kobuhlanga nobuhlanga;
- ikhono lokufunda olunye ulimi endaweni engokwemvelo;
- Imishado enjalo ifundisa ukubekezelelana nokuqonda, okubenza bahlale behlala njalo;
- Kubonakala ukuthi izingane ezizalwe ngabameleli bezizwe ezahlukene (izinhlanga, izizwe) ziphilile futhi zinamakhono.
Ngokuhambisana nalezi zinzuzo kunezinkinga zemishado yenzalo:
- ushintsho "emqondweni" nasesikhala somthetho;
- ukuhlukaniswa nezihlobo;
- Ngokuvamile abazali nomyeni nomfazi bayaphikisana nemishado enjalo ngenxa yokubukwa okunamandla;
- ukulahlekelwa amasiko ezweni labo kanye nesibopho sokulandela amasiko amasha;
- ubunzima bokuxhumana;
- Izingxabano eziphathelene nokukhuliswa kwezingane;
- Ukungakwazi ukukhipha ingane ngaphandle kwezwe uma kwenzeka isehlukaniso.
Amabhayisikobho mayelana nemishado yangasese
Isihloko esithi "abangakahleleki" ubudlelwane befilimu bathanda. Ifilimu mayelana nomshado wezinhlanga iyidrama, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ihlaya. Izithombe ezikhanyayo ezibonisa ukushada komzimba:
- "Laving" umqondisi waseMelika uJeff Nichols. Inhlekelele ebuhlungu kaRichard noMildred Laving, bagwetshwe ejele ngenxa yomshado wezinhlanga.
- "I-Sayonara" yi-American melodrama nguJoshua Logan, eyanyatheliswa ngo-1957. Ibutho lempi laseMelika, elilahla imibhangqwana yombandlululo, lithandana nomdansa waseJapane.
- "Umshado wamaDad" - umculi weFrance oqhakazile ovela kuFilipi de Chevron mayelana nezici zokuxhumana phakathi kwezizwe nobuhlanga emndenini.
Umshado Wezinhlanga Zomphakathi
Izidalwa nazo ziyizizwe, futhi zithonywa nezinqubo zokubambisana kwezwe. Futhi uthando. Imishado evelele kakhulu ye-interethnic yilezi:
- UNicolas Cage no-Alice Kim.
- UDavid Bowie no-Iman.
- UJohn Lennon no-Yoko Ono.
- URobert de Niro noGrace Hightower.
- UBruce Lee noLinda Cadwell.