Umshado esontweni: imithetho

Namuhla, imibhangqwana embalwa inquma ukushada. Kunezizathu eziningi zalokhu, kanti enye yezinto eziyinhloko iyathuthumela ngaphambi kwesakramente, ngoba umshado usho ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukubaluleka okungokomoya. Kodwa ngoba inqubo yomshado ayinjalo njalo, akuwona wonke umuntu owaziyo ukuthi yimiphi imithetho yokuziphatha kwayo esontweni, ukuthi yini edingekayo emshadweni nokuthi iyahamba kanjani. Amaphutha kolwazi adinga ukugcwaliswa, ngakho-ke sibhekana nemithetho eyisisekelo yomshado esontweni ndawonye.

Umshado ungenakwenzeka nini?

Kukhona imithetho, uma ingagcwaliseki, umshado esontweni ngeke kwenzeke:

1. Akuvunyelwe ukushada izikhathi ezingaphezu kwezingu-3.
2. Abantu abasondelene (kuze kube yizinyathelo ezingu-4) abakwazi ukushada. Ngokuthandana okungokomoya - kum nam godfather, godparent kanye godson, lomshado nawo awuvunyelwe.
3. Umshado awunakwenzeka uma umakoti noma umkhwenyana ememezela ukuthi bangakholelwa kuNkulunkulu futhi bazoshada ngezizathu ezingezansi.
4. Ngeke bashade nomunye umbhangqwana uma omunye wabo engabhapathiziwe futhi engafuni ukubhapathizwa ngaphambi komshado noma athi enye ikholo.
5. Uma omunye oshade naye oshadile eshadile (uhulumeni noma i-ecclesiastical). Izakhamuzi zidinga ukuqedwa, futhi emshadweni wesonto, kubalulekile ukufuna imvume kumbhishobhi ukuchitha nokuphetha okusha.
6. Umshado wenziwa ngemuva kokubhaliswa kombuso womshado.

Yini oyidingayo emshadweni esontweni?

Ngesikhathi sokulungiselela umshado akudingeki ukhohlwe ngezinto ezilandelayo:

1. Ingubo yomshado kufanele ibe nesizotha - ngaphandle kokugxila okujulile nokusika, izingalo nemilenze kuvaliwe. Futhi, ngokwesiko, ingubo yomshado kufanele ibe nesitimela, kucatshangwa, isikhathi eside sesitimela, ukuphila okushadile kuyoba mnandi. Futhi-ke, izingubo zomakoti kufanele zenziwe ngeveli.
2. Izindandatho zomshado, okumelwe zinikezwe kusengaphambili ukuba zihlukanise umpristi. Ngaphambili, izindandatho zomshado zazihlukile - igolide (ilanga) lomyeni nesiliva (inyanga) yomfazi. Manje lesi siko asihambisani.
3. Ngoba labo abasanda kushada kudingeka badlule iziphambano.
4. Kuzothatha ithawula noma ucezu lwelineni elimhlophe lapho abashadayo bezohlala khona.
5. Njengoba umcimbi womshado uthatha isikhathi eside, kufanelekile ukunakekelwa izicathulo ezikhululekile.
6. Ngesikhathi somshado, umakoti nomkhwenyana banamaconsi, kumele bahlelwe ngaphambili.

Yini okufanele ngiyenze ngaphambi komshado?

Ngokuqinisekile, abaningi bakhathazeke ngombuzo wokuthi ungalungiselela kanjani umshado, ngoba akuyona nje ukuhlanzeka kwengubo ebalulekile. Namuhla, ukuhlanzeka komqhele akusekho isidingo, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba isakramente yezinto ezithile kufanele ibaleke. Ngakho ngosuku lomshado, kusukela phakathi kwamabili, kufanele ugweme ukulala ngokobulili, ukudla, utshwala nokubhema. Ebandleni intsha ivuma futhi ithole inhlanganyelo, emva kwalokho ishintshe ibe izingubo zomshado.

Umkhosi womshado kanjani?

Yiqiniso, akunakwenzeka ukuchaza ngokugcwele umkhosi womshado, futhi akudingekile - konke ubuhle nokungcwele kwalo mkhosi kungacaciswa ngemuva kokudlula lesi sakramente. Kodwa amanye amaphuzu asadingeka avunyelwane. Isibonelo, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi umshado uthatha isikhathi esingakanani. Isikhathi somkhosi asikho ngaphansi kwemizuzu engama-40. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kokubili ukuhlukumezeka nomshado manje sekubanjwe ndawonye, ​​kanti ekuqaleni lezi zifundo zaziqhutshwa ngezikhathi ezahlukene. Ngakho-ke, akudingeki ucabange nje ngezicathulo ezikhululekile, kodwa futhi ngamadoda afanele kakhulu futhi aphakeme kakhulu - kufanele agcine imiqhele phezu kwamakhanda omshado.

Owokuqala umkhosi wokuqothula, ekuqaleni umpristi unikeza amakhandlela abasha, ngakho-ke umakoti uzodinga ukuthi angayithathi isonto lakhe noma alinike omunye umuntu isikhashana. Ngemuva kokuhlukumezeka, abashade besikhathi esizayo baya emkhatsini wethempelini, lapho isakramente yomshado senziwa khona. Bese kulandela ukuphindaphinda kwemithandazo, ukubeka izinsika emakhanda ezincane. Isitsha sewayini silethwa ehholo, okufanekisela zonke izifo nezinjabulo zokuphila komndeni, futhi iwayini likhishwe kathathu ngama-sips amancane. Umkhosi womshado uphela ngokuhamba kwalabo abashadile abakuzungezile umfanekiso wokufunda nokufundwa kompristi kokwakhiwa.