Kusukela eminyakeni lapho bonke abashadile bezohlala khona bonke abafana banjengoba "fu", basalokhu bephupha imishado, izingubo ezinhle kakhulu, zezithombe zeholide, ohambo lomshado. Futhi abafana banjalo, iphutha ekugubheni.
Ngakho-ke, uma usuvele ucabanga ngakho konke kusukela ekuqaleni kuya ekupheleni. Futhi manje sinikeza futhi futhi (esivele siphumelele kakhulu), ukuhamba sizungeze isihloko, lapho singabamba khona umshado, mhlawumbe, singabheki isabelomali esikhulu kakhulu.
Kuphi ukuchitha umshado ngokungabi nakakhulu?
Ake siqale ngohlu lwezinketho zokonga. Ngakho, kuphi ukuchitha umshado ngokungabizi, kodwa ngobuqotho:
- Ukubuthana ndawonye yiyona ndlela yokuthanda kakhulu, okuzohambisana nabantu abazitholela kuphela. Vumelanisa, awudingi ukuchitha imali edilini lezihambi, umthwebuli wezithombe, ngentando, ungamema kuphela ehhovisi lokubhalisa, futhi esikhundleni sezingoma zomculo nodlame, isidlo sezintandokazi ezimbili.
- Ukhetho lwesibili, lapho indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqhuba umshado wezomnotho ngenani elithile lezivakashi yindlu noma indlu (eyakho, noma othandekayo). Yiqiniso, lena inguqulo engaphelile, wonke umuntu osekhohliwe kakade. Kodwa kusayithi oyilondolozayo, futhi yonke imithwalo yemfanelo yenhlangano isatshalaliswa phakathi kwe-ct yakho kanye nezihlobo zakho - akekho oyokwenqaba ukukusiza ngaleso sikhathi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuqinisekisiwe - lo mshado uzovela ngobuqotho futhi ubumbene.
- Okukhethwa kukho, lapho ungabamba khona umshado, uma ungabantu abashaqisayo, nabangani bakho, njengowe ngeke ushiye ithuba lokuhamba ekamu. Hamba nabangani bakho abafana nabantu abanomqondo ehhovisi lokubhalisa nge-jeans namasinki, bese-ke bonke ndawonye ebhasini elivamile lomuzi, hamba epikinikini - umphathi wezinsizakalo uzoba ngumuntu ovela kumlingani wakho womphefumulo, umthwebuli wezithombe kunoma iyiphi inkampani, futhi. Ngenxa yalokho, uzoqhuba umshado wangempela futhi oshibhile ngempela.
- Futhi enye indlela, lapho ungabamba khona umshado omncane, ohlanganisa abantu ababili kuphela - umakoti nomkhwenyana. Lena inketho yokuhamba emshadweni ngomqondo owedlula kakhulu wegama. Kukhona uhlu olubanzi lwamazwe lapho ungabhalisa khona umshado wakho, futhi umshado eziqhingini ezikude kuzokukusindisa ekubeni uchaze ukuthi kungani ungamemeli izivakashi. Phela, uma uchitha imali eholidini, kungcono kuwe, kangangokuthi izinkumbulo zazihlukile kakhulu.
- Ukukhetha okulula kakhulu umshado esikhathini esishisayo. Kunezinketho eziningi lapho ungabamba khona umshado ehlobo
futhi bonke, ngendlela eyodwa noma enye, babhekisela ekunqobeni kwemvelo. Ungalawula umshado onjalo kusuka ejensi, noma ungahlela konke ngokwakho. Kodwa udinga ukucabangela ezinye ze-nuances. Ungalayela umphathi we-toastmaster, kodwa ungakwazi futhi ukuxoxisana nabangani. Ungalawula imishini yomculo nge "umsindo", okungukuthi, uhlobo lwe-DJ, futhi ungakwenza ngokucula izinyoni. Kungaba umshado oyingqayizivele ngokuhamba, amahhashi nama-lackeys, noma mhlawumbe i-pikiniki yomshado, lapho ngisho nezingubo zakho eziqongile zizophela. Kodwa, khumbulani: insimu kufanele ibe ngandlela-thile igandwe futhi ivikeleke ekungeneni ngabasemzini.