I-voyeurism - konke okudingayo ukwazi ngesifo

Ukubheka, ukulinganisa - lawa magama aseRussia anemibala engafanele. Lezi zenzo azitholi esigabeni sokugwetshwa kwezigebengu, uma kungahambisani nezinsongo ngokubhekene nokubhekwa. Kodwa-ke, akekho othanda ukuba yinto yokuqapha ngasese, ikakhulukazi uma impilo ebuseduze.

Iyini iVoyeurism?

Ukuphazamiseka, kodwa ukuziphatha okungaqondakali kunalo igama elibi kakhulu, livela olimini lwesiFulentshi - i-voyeurism (buka - bona). Igama lesiNgisi salesi simo yi-vizionism. Ukuphambana ngokocansi okuvela kumkhuba kuhlotshaniswa nokuthola injabulo nokwaneliseka ngokuhlola abantu abathatha imvula, ukwenza ucansi, ukuhlala endlini yangasese, njll.

Ukufihla ukubuka imizimba engcolile kuyabantwana. Kuze kube yiminyaka engu-11 kubhekwa njengelukuluku lemvelo futhi kwenza imisebenzi yokutadisha izwe elizungezile nolwazi lolwazi. Uma, eminyakeni edlule, ucwaningo olungenangqondo luphenduka injabulo ngokubheka izenzo zangaphakathi zabantu, yingumbuzo wokugula kwengqondo. Ukubonakaliswa okwedlulele kunazo zonke kwalesi sifo ukufaka ngokugcwele umsebenzi womuntu siqu ngokocansi ngokuhlola impilo yomunye umuntu.

I-Voyeurism - izimbangela zesifo

Ukuhlola i-voyeurism iphenduke ibe yinto ephoqelekile. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, izimbangela eziningi ezibangela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo zisezinkathini zobuntwana bokuphila komuntu. I-Voyeurism ayikho into ehlukile. Imithombo yayo yilezi:

• ukuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo okwamukelwa yingane ebuhlotsheni obuphukile obuphukile nomama eminyakeni emibili yokuqala yokuphila;
• ukucindezeleka okuvela engozini yabantu abadala noma imidlalo yezocansi nokulala ngokocansi;
• Ukugcizelela ekunakekeleni kwengane ekubonweni okubonwayo kanye nomthelela walokho akubona ekuqaleni noma ukuqhubeka kwezinye izinqubo;
• Ukungabikho kwemfundo yezocansi, kuboniswe ngokweqile - ukuvinjelwa ngokuphelele kanye nokuqokwa okuphelele.

I-Voyeurism yamaSifazane

Abanye abacwaningi emkhakheni wezifo zengqondo kanye ne-psychotherapy banquma ukuthambekela kokubuka amafilimu e-pornography, imibukiso yemidwebo, "omagazini abadala", njenge-voyeurism efihlekile. Kodwa-ke, ipharamitha enkulu yalesi sifo iqhubeka, i-voyeurism ihilela ukuthokozisa ngokuqapha okuyimfihlo kwezinqubo eziseduze. Phakathi kwabesifazane, ama-voyeurs ajwayelekile kakhulu.

1. Kubesifazane, izinqubo zokucabangela zenzeka ku-lobes yangaphambili yobuchopho, ezingabhekene nelogiki, kodwa ngenxa yemizwelo, ngakho-ke abangeke bathambekele ekusunguleni ubudlelwane obangela imbangela "Ngibonile - ngiyithokozile."
2. Abesifazane banezibalo ezihlakulele kakhulu zokuhlaziya kunezibukeli, bavame "bathande ngezindlebe zabo, hhayi ngamehlo abo."
3. Ngesikhathi sokwamukela injabulo, ukuqonda nokucabanga okunengqondo kwabesifazane kuphazamiseka, futhi uma i-orgasm ivaliwe ngokuphelele.

Male Voyeurism

Ochwepheshe baye babonisa ukuthi iningi lalabayeli abameleli bobulili obunamandla, lapho ukulingana nabesifazane nokujabulela ukubuka imizimba yabo engcolile kuyimvelo. Amadoda "athande amehlo" futhi uma ekhetha aqondiswa yilokho abakubonayo. Zizohlelwa izakhi zofuzo ezenzelwe izenzo (isikhathi esiphakathi kwesigaba sokuqala nesesibili singaphansi):

1. Ngabona owesifazane onqunu.
2. Kwakukhona ukuvusa ngocansi.
3. Ngangikujabulela.

Ukulwa ne-Voyeurism

Ekuboneni kuqala, i-voyeurism isenzo esingenacala, esithandwa ngabathandi. Kusukela ekubukeni komthetho, "idonsela" isiphetho esiphezulu kwecala lokuphatha. Ngokungafani nendawo yokuziphatha: okubonile kuyasetshenziswa njengento yezocansi, futhi ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe. Ngamanye amazwi, "isisulu" asisoli ukuthi izenzo zakhe zibhekwa.

Ngomlindi, lesi sifo sisongela ngezinkinga ezinkulu:

• ukungakwazi ukuhola impilo evamile ngokobulili;
• imizwa egcwele yecala nokwesaba kokutholakala;
• isidingo esincane sokudla okubonakalayo nezithombe ezintsha;
• isimo se-psychosis.

Kunezindlela zokwelapha voyeurism:

1. Ukuqaphela kokungazi yi-psychoanalysis.
2. I-Psychotherapy, ihlanganiswe ezimweni ezinzima ngemithi.
3. Ukwelashwa kokuziphatha - ukulungiswa kokuziphatha nokucabanga.

Amabhayisikobho mayelana ne-Voyeurism

I-Cinema yinto yobuciko ebonisa iqiniso. Umkhuba we-voyeurism uvame ukuvela kubaphenyi, lapho kuvezwa khona ubugebengu, ngenxa yombukeli-voyeur onama-binoculars noma isibonakude esivela endlini ehlukile. Ama-movie ngama-voyeurists, noma afaka izindaba ze-voyeuristic, ngokuvamile zifakwe kuhlu lwe-drama noma i-thriller.

1. "Ukuzama" Ukulalela " (idrama, 2012, eqondiswa nguCraig Zobel). I-protagonist, ebeka njengephoyisa, ilinda ukucinga izakhamuzi.
2. "Ifilimu emfushane ngothando" (drama, 1988, eqondiswa nguKrzysztof Kieslowski). Insizwa, ukuhlola owesifazane nabathandekayo bakhe, ithandana futhi ekugcineni ivula imithanjeni yakhe.