Uma uhamba ngekhefu lokubeletha?

Ukukhulelwa kanye nomama kuyinjabulo nomthwalo omkhulu. Ngomzimba wesifazane, ukukhulelwa kungukucindezeleka kwangempela okuhambisana nokulungiswa kwayo yonke imisebenzi yakhe, ukuguqula isimo sengqondo nokuhlola kabusha izindinganiso. Emndenini nasemsebenzini, futhi ngokujwayelekile ngendlela ejwayelekile yokuphila, ukugwema ushintsho ngeke kuphumelele. Futhi nansi, umbuzo osalinde isikhathi eside okhathazayo abaningi - uma uhamba ngekhefu lokubeletha, futhi uma ubeka.

Eqinisweni, ikhefu lokubeletha linamaholidi amabili:

Lapho ikhefu lokubeletha liqala kulezi zimo, kuzodingeka siziqaphele.

Phumla ... kusuka emsebenzini

Ikhefu lokubeletha liyihlobo lokuphumula. Ukuphumula emsebenzini, kodwa hhayi ekukhathazeni ekhaya. Ukulungiselela umntwana ngumsebenzi omkhulu kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukulungisa indlela yokuphila ngokufanele, ukuthola zonke izinto ezidingekayo, ukudala zonke izimo ingane ukuba ikhule futhi ithuthukise. Ngakho ikhefu lokubeletha lingabizwa ngokuthi ushintsho lomsebenzi.

Manje ake sithole ukuthi sihamba nini ngekhefu lokubeletha lapho sikhulelwe. Uma ukukhulelwa kuphelile, ungakhathazeki futhi usebenze akuyona umthwalo kuwe, ngakho-ke njengoba kulindelwe, uzoya esitatimendeni kusukela ngesonto lama-30 lokukhulelwa. Lapho beya emthethweni, ikhefu lokubeletha likhishwa. Ekubonisaneni, lapho ukhona khona irekhodi, kufanele ukhiphe ishidi lokukhubazeka, okubonisa ubude bokukhulelwa kanye nosuku olulindelekile lokudiliva. Kufanele unikezwe endaweni yomsebenzi. Ungakhohlwa ukunamathisela isitifikedi sokuthi ubhalisiwe ngaphambi kweviki le-12 lokukhulelwa, kanye nesitifiketi esijwayelekile. Uzodinga futhi ukugcwalisa izinhlelo ezimbalwa, kodwa lezi ziyinkimbinkimbi ... Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuvula i-akhawunti bese uthola ikhadi lomphakathi, okuzobekwa ngalo ukuthi unenzuzo yezingane.

Uma kwenzeka umsebenzi unikezwa ubunzima, ngeviki lama-25 lokukhulelwa, ungathatha ikhefu lonyaka lomsebenzi emsebenzini. Futhi emva kokuphela kwalesi siholide, isikhathi sizofika lapho kuzokwazi khona ukuya emthethweni. Gxila empilweni yakho, kuzokutshela uma kungcono ukushiya isimemezelo. Cabanga ngempilo yakho kanye nempilo yengane yakho, lokhu manje kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu.

Ubude bekhefu lokubeletha lithathwa yizici zokuzalwa. Uma ukuzalwa kudlulile ngaphandle kokucindezeleka (ukubeletha okuvamile), emva kwazo kubalulekile ukuba uthole ukuphumula emsebenzini wezinsuku ezingu-70 zekhalenda. Endabeni yokubambisana nezinkinga, ikhefu lokuhamba ngemuva lihlala izinsuku eziyi-86. Hlola ukuthi ikhefu lokubeletha liphela kanjani kanje: engeza izinsuku ezingu-70 ngosuku lokuzalwa kwengane nezinsuku ezingasetshenziswanga ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Kutholakale amasonto angu-20 wekhefu lokubeletha.

Ngemuva kwekhefu lokubeletha lokubeletha lokubeletha, kufika ikhefu lokunakekelwa kwengane, elihlelwe ngokomzimba libe yizikhathi ezimbili:

Uma ingane ifinyelela eminyakeni yobudala, kufanele uhambe uye emsebenzini. Futhi unelungelo lokubuyela emsebenzini lapho ingane iphenduka iminyaka engu-18 ubudala. Izingane zokubeletha, izinanini, ugogo nomkhulu-lokhu, akuyona into embi, kodwa khumbula ukuthi ingane idinga nje uthando lomama nokukhathalela.

Ilinde isimangaliso ...

Noma ngabe yini ongayisho, isimiso yisikhathi segolide. Ukulinda ingane ngeke kube nesithukuthezi. Phuma emsebenzini, ujabulele ukuthula nokuthula, ukungabikho kwezintando ezingenasici nokuhleba. Okokugcina, umphathi wakho akakwazi ukufinyelela futhi angeke "akulayishe" ngemibono elandelayo "ehlakaniphile".

Ukuhlala wedwa, khumbula ukuthi usuvele ubili. Funda izincwadi ezithakazelisayo, ulalele umculo, ubone amafilimu anomusa, aphefumulayo. Hamba okuningi futhi ungakhathazeki kancane.

Isimiso akusona isizathu sokukhohlwa ngawe nangomuntu wakho othandekayo. Akulungile ukucabanga ukuthi ngesikhathi ukhulelwe ungakwazi ukuvumela ukuba ngizikhukhume, ngibe yisiwula futhi ngingenzi lutho. Hlala ujabulise futhi ukhangele, hlala uhle.

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