Izakhamuzi eziningi zamagagasi ziyesaba ukuthinta. Futhi lokhu kubangelwa hhayi uhlobo oluthile lokuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo yengane, kodwa ngesifiso sokunciphisa ukuxhumana nomzimba nabantu abangajabuli noma abangazijwayele.
Ukwesaba ukuthinta, kuvame ukuvela kusukela ebuntwaneni, ukuthi empilweni yakudala kuthiwa "phobia" kuphela . Kuye ngokuthi ingane ikhulisa kanjani ubudlelwane nabazali bayo, kanjani lapho esekhulile eseyobhekana nesandla esivamile noma ukubanga esihlathini.
I-Haptophobia
Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi ukwesaba ukuthinta abanye abantu kubizwa ngokuthi i-haptophobia, i-thixophobia, i-aphephobia, i-hypnophobia, njll. Le-phobia ivela ngokuphazamiseka okukhulu-okucindezelayo. Ithola ukubonakaliswa kwayo ngendlela yokwesaba, okuyinto ehamba ngokwayo ukungcola, okuphethe ukuthinta.
Ngokuvamile, umuntu ohlukunyezwa kanjalo, ngale ndlela, ufuna ukuzivikela, avikele isikhala sakhe siqu. Ngokuyinhloko, kunqunyelwe ukwesaba ukuthinta umuntu wobulili obuhlukile. Phakathi kwabesifazane lokhu kubangelwa ukwesaba ukuhlaselwa ngokocansi.
Kukhona ingozi enkulu yokuthuthukisa le phobia kubafana abadlwengula besencane. Lokhu kuchazwa ukuthi umuntu wenqaba ukwethemba abanye. Uyesaba ukulimala futhi.
Ngakho-ke, ozwa i-haptophobia uma omunye umuntu emthinta, uhlangabezana nemizwa evezwe yi-malaise evamile, nokuhlaselwa okwesabisa, ukuphazamiseka.
Ngeke kube okungaqapheli ukuphawula ukuthi ngemuva kokwesaba kokuthinta kungahle kube yi-phobia ehluke ngokuphelele. Kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kungaba: ukwesaba ukutheleleka (lowo muntu othintana nabanye ubona okungaphansi kwesibhakabhaka), ama-phobia abantu abanobulili obuhlukile noma labo abanesibonakaliso esifanayo (isibonelo, ukwesaba abantu abakhuluphele), ukwesaba ukwedlulele ukusabela komuntu, ukwesaba abantu abangabazi, abantu abangabazi, njll.
Kubuye kwenzeke nokuthi umuntu ozwa i-haptophobia, ehlobene kabi nomoya noma amanzi.
I-Haptophobia iyaphilika, futhi isazi esifanele kufanele sinikeze ukwelashwa okufanele. Ukuze uthole usizo, udinga uxhumane nodokotela osebenza ngokukhethekile ekuphatheni i-phobia efanelekile. Ekuqaleni uzozama ukuhlaziya izimbangela zalokhu kwesaba.
Futhi, izazi ze-psychotherapists zincoma ngokuqinile ukuthi zizokhipha lesi sibibe ngokuba isixuku. Ngakho, wonke umuntu wesaba into ethile ngezinga elithile. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kwesaba kuvamile, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuyadingeka ukufuna ukwelashwa kusuka e-phobia futhi ujabulele ngokugcwele ukuphila.