Wonke umuntu uphupha ukuthuthukisa intando yakhe, ngoba abantu bayaqonda ukuthi kunquma impilo ezayo ngezindlela eziningi: ubudlelwane nezihlobo, impumelelo emikhakheni yobuchwepheshe, inhlalakahle yezezimali kanye nempilo. Kunezindlela eziningi ezizosiza labo abafuna ukwazi ukuthuthukisa nokuqinisa amandla abo.
Kungani umuntu adinga amandla?
Ukuzikhandla kungahunyushwa ngokuthi yikhono lokuqondisa imizamo yomuntu ekufezeni imiphumela edingekayo ephikisana nezifiso zomuntu siqu. Umuntu onamandla onamandla onamandla amakhulu akathonywa ngaphandle. Uvinjelwa yizimbi ezinjengokudakwa ngokweqile, ukubhema ugwayi, ukulutha izidakamizwa nokuthembela emidlalweni yekhompyutha. Kukhona umbono ozokwenza amandla - lokhu kungokwemvelo, futhi umlingiswa kumele uhlenge. Ukuze ube yisibonelo, ukuze uthole inhlonipho nokuqashelwa, futhi ukuze uphumelele empilweni, ngokuvamile kufanele "uhambise umphimbo wakho engoma yakho siqu."
Ukuziphendulela kuyindlela umuntu asabela ngayo ekuxabaneni kwangaphakathi nokuthi uyasabela kanjani ekufuseni noma ngesifiso ngokuzumayo futhi kuyoxhomeka ezingeni lokuzithiba. Ucwaningo lwamanje emkhakheni womsebenzi wobuchopho luye lwabonisa ukuthi indaba ebomvu iyakwazi ukuphendula kunoma yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho okuzuziwe futhi, kuye ngokuthi, ingashintshwa, ingashiwo ngokuthi "ihluthe". Okungukuthi, lapho umuntu efunda khona, uyakwazi ukuyifundeka futhi uma uqhubeka ugijima, ungathuthukisa kangcono ukuhambisana nokuhamba . Ukuzithiba akuyona into ehlukile emithethweni futhi uqala ukuziqeqesha, ungafinyelela eziphakeme kakhulu kule ndaba.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa nokuqinisa amandla engqondo?
- Funda ubuthakathaka bakho . Unganikeza isibonelo somuntu ophuza utshwala ongaqondi ukuthi uyagula. Nakuba engaqapheli ukuthi unokwethenjelwa, ngeke akwazi ukukuqeda. Ukuqaphela ukuthi yini eyenza umuntu azinikezele, ukhonza njengesekelo futhi usiza ukuvimbela "izicupho" lapho amandla azokwenza khona.
- Yenza okufunayo okungenani . Ubuvila kuphela nobuthakathaka bomzimba buvimbela abantu ukuthi bangabhekana nemisebenzi ethile. Kudingekile ukunikeza ukulwa, ukucindezela ngokubekezela. Akunqatshelwe ukuzithuthukisa, isibonelo, ukufuna ukunciphisa isisindo, kepha ungafuni ukungena emidlalweni, ungazikhohlisa, ushukumise ngendlela ukuthi isithombe esihle sihlale kanjani, njll njll.
- Ukuvumelana nokuthembeka . Ukuzikhandla okuhle kungathuthukiswa kuphela uma le nqubo izoqhubeka futhi ihlala njalo. Kungaba ubuwula ukuhlela ukuqeqeshwa kwesikhathi esisodwa futhi kulindeleke ukuthi ulahlekelwe isisindo ngosuku olulodwa. Kodwa akudingeki ukuba uzikhuthaze kuphela, kodwa futhi udumise ngokubekezela, futhi ukujabulisa nokuzijabulisa kulokho okuletha injabulo. Ukuzithiba kubaluleke kakhulu ekuqeqesheni amandla.
- Ukuzivocavoca . Akuyona into engafanele ukufunda indlela yokuphefumula okufanele, ukuqala ukuzindla noma ukufunda ukuqinisekiswa . Esikhathini esilandelayo, kufanele uthi okuthile okufana nalokhu: "Ngikhetha indlela entsha yokuzicabangela yona. Ngiyakwazi, ngizophumelela, ngoba ngifanele ukuba ngunhle, ngempumelelo, ngicebile, "njll.
- Isifiso esinamandla sokuba ngcono . Umuntu udala imikhuba yakhe nezinkinga zakhe, anelise izidingo zakhe siqu. Kodwa uma ethola indlela enhle futhi ehambisana nayo yokuhlangabezana nalezi zidingo, khona-ke inkinga ixazululwa.
- Ungathathi izinyathelo eziphuthumayo . Ungazinika ithuba lokucabanga, udwebe iziphetho. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nokucindezeleka ukuphazanyiswa, futhi ngokukhulisa amandla akho, ungenza okufanayo, ngaphandle kwalokho kungaphelelwa amandla.
Yilokho ongakwenza ube namandla, ophakeme, onesibindi kakhulu, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungagcini futhi ungalindeli ukuthi akunakwenzeka, ngoba wonke umuntu unelungelo lobuthakathaka obuthakathaka.