Ubuqili buyakwazi ngokushesha ukubhubhisa lelo zwe lomndeni, elakhiwe isikhathi eside. Kanye nokuhlukunyezwa, ubuhlungu nokudumazeka kuza emndenini. Ngemuva kokufunda ngezenzo zangaphandle zomngane womshado, umfazi angase aqale ukufuna iseluleko kumuntu wezengqondo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthethelela ukukhishwa komyeni wakhe. Kodwa-ke, ngeke akwazi ukuthola impendulo eqondile, ngoba ochwepheshe banganikela kuphela izixazululo zenkinga. Isinqumo sokugcina kufanele senziwe ngumfazi ngokwawo, ngokusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho komndeni kanye nemizwa yakhe .
Iseluleko sengqondo, ngingayithethelela ukukhishwa komyeni wami?
Impendulo yesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo embuzweni ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthethelela ukukhashelwa komyeni okungenangqondo: kungenzeka. Noma kunjalo, inkinga yukuthi akuwona wonke owesifazane ongathola amandla kulokhu. Ake sinikeze ubufakazi bokuthi kubalulekile ukuthethelela ukungathembeki komlingani:
- Ubuqili bathi umndeni unenkinga yobuhlobo. Okungukuthi ukukhaphela kungumphumela wezinkinga emndenini. Futhi ezinkingeni zomndeni, bobabili abashadile banecala.
- Ngesinye isimo akudingekile ukwahlulela impilo yonke yomndeni. Lokhu kungenye yezikhathi eziningi, nakuba kungathandeki kakhulu futhi kubuhlungu.
- Ngenxa yemvelo yabo, amadoda awela kalula izilingo zobulili.
- Bonke abantu abaphelele, futhi wonke umuntu uyakwazi ukwenza amaphutha. Ikhono lokuthethelela kumele libe khona empilweni yomndeni ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Umbono wesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyadingeka yini ukuthethelela ukukhwabanisa komyeni?
Ekuphileni komndeni, kunezimo lapho ukukhishwa komyeni akufanele kuxolelwe. Sikhuluma ngezimo ezinjalo:
- Oshade naye akazibheki njengecala, kodwa uyamangalela umkakhe konke. Lesi sikhundla sikhombisa ukuthi ukungathembeki kungaziphindaphinda kaningi.
- Uma indoda ishintsha ngendlela ehlelekile. Kulolukhuni kunzima ukukhuluma ngomndeni wangempela, futhi ukuphela kobudlelwane obuqhubekayo emndenini kuyothembela kuphela ekubekezeleni komlingani nesifiso sakhe sokuphila noma ukuhlala nomyeni ongathembeki.
- Abanye besifazane abakwazi ukuthethelela umyeni oguqukile. Ngisho noma ngamazwi omlingani onjalo athethelela umyeni wakhe, angasola impilo yakhe ngenxa yalokho okwenzekile, angcolisa lokhu ngokuphila okuhlangene.