Lapha kufika umzuzu lapho indoda enamazwi: "Nginomunye owesifazane" ngishaya umnyango. Kulokhu, abesifazane abaningi banombuzo: "Yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo?". Ngokuyinhloko, uhlelo lokusebenza lwekusasa lungathuthuka ngokuvumelana nezimo ezimbili: ukuqala impilo entsha ozimele noma ukubuyisela oshade naye emndenini.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma umyeni wami eshiya inkosikazi encane?
Uma ungafuni ukumisa futhi ube namandla okuthethelela oshade naye, kuzomele udlulisele esenzweni esisebenzayo bese ubuyela emndenini . Kunezeluleko eziningana eziphumelelayo ezizosiza ukulungisa isimo:
- Into yokuqala okudingeka uyenze ihamba esibukweni bese ubheka ukubukeka kwakho. Inselele ukuba ngumncintiswano ongcono. Mhlawumbe udinga ukubhalisa ku-gym, ushintshe izinwele zakho uphinde ubuyekeze ikhabethe lakho.
- Uma umyeni uye waya enkosikazi yakhe futhi engabuyi, kufanelekile ukufakazela ukuthi ngaphandle kwakhe impilo ibe ngcono kakhulu. Sekuyisikhathi sokuqaphela amaphupho nokwenza izinto ngaphambili ezazingenayo isikhathi esanele.
- Emihlanganweni nomyeni noma nabangane jikelele kubalulekile ukuziphatha ngendlela engokwemvelo kanye nokuxhumana ngamanothi anomusa. Akufanele acabange ukuthi bayamzonda futhi bafuna ukumbulala.
- Zama ukuba umngane wakhe. Nikeza iseluleko, ulalele izinkinga futhi usize ezimweni ezinzima. Ekugcineni, uyaqaphela ukuthi wenza iphutha elikhulu futhi ufuna ukubuyela.
Kukholelwa ukuthi inkosikazi encane - kungumsebenzi wokuzilibazisa wesikhashana, futhi ngokushesha umyeni ngokwakhe ufuna ukubuyela endlini ehlelekile nomndeni onothando.
Ungaphila kanjani uma indoda ishiya enye?
Izazi zengqondo zithi ukuthi ukuze zibone isimo futhi zibuyele esimweni esivamile somqondo wengqondo, kuthatha cishe izinsuku eziyisishiyagalombili. Amathiphu wokuthi ungakhohlwa kanjani umyeni wakho owaya kwenye:
- Okokuqala, kufanele ususe konke okungenani ngandlela-thile okukukhumbuza ngomfazi wakho wangaphambili.
- Ungakhulumi ngakudala nabanye abantu futhi, ngisho nangaphezulu, umhlambalaze, futhi ngandlela-thile uyimsola. Isixazululo esingcono kakhulu ukumfisa injabulo nokuzihoxisa ngokuphelele.
- Kubalulekile ukulahla yonke imizwa: insimbi, shaya izitsha, ngokujwayelekile, yenza noma yini oyifunayo. Emva kwalokho, ukuphela kwezehlakalo kuhlala emphefumulweni, futhi lesi yisizathu esihle sokwakha impilo entsha.