Ukuthuthumela okuncane emzimbeni wonke, ukuphazamiseka okuvamile nokuqina kohambo. Ingabe uhlale ubhekene nalezi zinkinga ezingathandeki uma uphakathi kwabantu? Ngakho unenkinga. Ukunganaki akuthinti nje kuphela inhlalakahle yakho, kepha kungaphazamisa impilo yakho. Cabanga nje ukuthi yikuphi okuhle okuzinqabelayo ngenxa yokungavikeleki ezenzweni zakho nokungaqiniseki ezenzweni zakho! Ubudlelwane, umsebenzi, ukukhulumisana nabantu - zonke lezi zinzuzo ezibalulekile azifinyeleleki futhi zingaholela ekucindezelekeni kwangempela. Yini okufanele uyenze nokuthi ungayilahla kanjani amahloni? Sizoxoxa ngalolu daba olubalulekile.
Izimbangela zenhloni
Kuyini umuzwa wokunganaki nokuhlazeka? Ukwesaba kwangaphakathi kokuziveza ngokwakho ezweni elizungezile. Njengoba kuyaziwa, ngohlobo lwabantu abalingiswa lihlukaniswe libe yi-extroverts (evulekile futhi ephumayo) kanye nezethulo (kuvaliwe futhi kuhlanganiswa). Ubuntu obungenakulinganiswa buhlobo lwesibili. Isizathu esiyinhloko sokuvimbela ukuzithiba. Kubantu ababhekene nezinkinga eziningi, kubonakala sengathi abantu abakuzungezile nabo babona zonke lezi ziphutha kuzo. Kodwa ingabe zikhona ngempela? Ezimweni eziningi, izinkimbinkimbi zomuntu ziningi futhi azikho isisekelo sangempela. Ukuvela kwabo, njengombuso, kugqugquzelwa ukugxeka ezihlotsheni, abangaqapheli njalo ukuthi benza iphutha elibi. Isibonelo, umama onothando uhlale egxeka intombazane encane ngenxa yokungaziphathi kahle okuncane: "Uyi-slob," "Indlela yendalakazi ngeke iphume kuwe", "Kodwa ngubani ozokushada nawe njengale?" Ngokuqinisekile abantu abaningi baye bazwa imishwana enjalo. Bese baba uhlelo olubekwe ekhanda lami futhi angivumeli ukuba ngijabulele ukuphila. Singafunda kanjani manje ukuthi singabi namahloni, sibe ngowesifazane othembekile futhi ophumelelayo? Kuzothatha umsebenzi omncane, kodwa kholwa kimi, kuwufanele.
Indlela yokunqoba amahloni?
Ukunqoba amahloni kuyinkqubo okumele iqale ngomsebenzi wangaphakathi kuwe, kancane kancane uphenduke ezenzweni ezisebenzayo. Iseluleko sethu sizokusiza kulokhu, ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nohlazo:
- Thola ukuthi yiziphi izimo ozizwa unamahloni. Kungaba izinkampani ezinkulu, abajwayele abasha, ukubukeka komphakathi noma ubuhlobo obuseduze nomfana. Yenza uhlu lwezikhathi ezinjalo. Ngokushesha uzoqala ukusebenza nabo ngokusebenza.
- Funda ukuphumula. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba ugcine ukuzithiba ezimweni eziningi futhi ubaphathe ngokuthula. Zikhethe ukuzivocavoca, uhlanganyele ku-yoga noma ukuzindla.
- Funda abanye. Ngezinye izikhathi kunelungelo lokumane ubheke eceleni kwezenzo nezenzo zabantu abazethembayo nabathandekayo. Khumbula ukumomotheka, ukuziphatha, imikhuba, izingubo kanye nakho konke okubonakala kubalulekile kuwe endleleni yokunqoba amahloni akho.
- Funda ukuzithokozisa futhi ungaqhathanisi nobuntu bakho nabanye. Lo msebenzi kunzima kakhulu. Intombazane ngokwemvelo kunzima ukuhlala ethule, kuyilapho abanye bephethe izingubo ze-chic, izesekeli ezithakazelisayo nokunakekelwa kubafana. Kodwa uma uzinqumela ukuthi awubi kakhulu kunabanye futhi futhi une-flavour yakho siqu, uzobona maduze indlela isimo sengqondo sabanye esizoshintsha ngayo.
- Fundisa ukuzethemba. Yenza lokho owawusaba ngaphambili. Kuphela ngale ndlela uzosusa ukwesaba okungadingekile futhi uqaphele ukuthi amahloni akho ayelutho. Yazi ukuthi ungumuntu onenhlamvu enkulu futhi uzimele ozimele zabantu. Kubaluleke ngani ukuthi bacabangani? Kuwukuphila kwakho kuphela futhi konke okuthinta khona kancane.
Ngemuva kokusebenzisa wonke amathiphu angenhla, udinga ukuqhubekela kusikhathi esiyisihluthulelo. Ngokufanayo, isisombululo senkinga ephuthumayo kakhulu - indlela yokunqoba amahloni wentombazane ehlukile.
Ungakuyeka kanjani ukuhlazeka ngamadoda?
Into yokuqala okudingeka uyikhumbule - iningi labafana abazi ukuthi unakho izinkimbinkimbi. Futhi ukubatshela ukuthi ukwesaba okuthile noma unamahloni, akuvunyelwe neze. Kuwesifazane kufanele kube nemfihlakalo, futhi uvumele konke ukwesaba kwakho kube yiyimfihlakalo kuye. Amadoda athweswa abesifazane abaphumelelayo, abazethembayo, hhayi "amasitokisi aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka" ngokuzithoba futhi bodwa bodwa odongeni ngesikhathi somdanso osindayo.
Uma usuvele uthuthele kwesinye isigaba futhi unomfana osemusha, inkinga entsha ivela - awukwazi ukuyeka amahloni embhedeni. Leli cala liye lahlekelwa ngokuphelele futhi lenzeke nakubantu abazethemba kakhulu. Yisiphi isizathu? Yiqiniso, emaphakathini engeziwe, isifuba esincane, i-pose embi futhi i-cellulite engabonakali. Futhi amanye amantombazane amaningi akwazi ukunqoba amahloni ngocansi, ngokuphumelelayo akhiphe injabulo kumuntu wabo futhi angaboni ubuwula ngesikhathi esifanayo.
- Lungiselela umhlangano osondelene kusengaphambili. Ngokwemvelo, udinga ukukhipha izinwele, u-manicure no-pedicure. Ama-Lingerie nawo ayabalulekile. Ungalokothi ulale naye ngama-pajamas ngamabhantshi noma ama-trousers anezinselele. Indlela engcono kakhulu - i-negligee kanye ne-panties-thong enhle.
- Ungavali ngokuphelele ukukhanya. Shiya ukukhanya ebusuku noma ukhanyise ikhandlela ekamelweni. Lokhu kuzosiza ukufihla ingxenye yomzimba wakho futhi wengeze isithakazelo kumadoda.
- Ungabi namahloni embhedeni? Vele ukhululeke! Yiqiniso, udinga ukuhlela indawo nesikhathi somhlangano kusengaphambili. Ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi kwakungekho abazali ngemuva kodonga, uthembele ngokuphelele kumlingani wakho, futhi isikhathi asizange siphume. Futhi ubhekane nenjabulo ebhodleleni le-champagne. Vala amehlo akho futhi uzikhulule ekubandlululweni, ukwesaba nokukhathazeka. Wena-ke, ufanelwe isabelo esikhulu se-caresses nesihawu. Ngakho kungani uzincisha lokhu okuhle? Akusikho amahloni, kodwa kuyimvelo ngempela. Uma ungenayo isipiliyoni, lokhu kuzojabulisa kuphela umuntu. Yena ngokwakhe uzokujabulela ukukufundisa konke.
Uma umlingani wakho emva kocansi engakayeki ukuxhumana nawe, futhi wayefuna ukuphinda konke, ngakho konke kuhlelekile futhi kuthiwa namahloni akusalutho. Khumbula - uyindalo enhle yemvelo, futhi abantu abahle abakhona. Funda ukuzithanda futhi ubone isithunzi sakho. Khona-ke umuzwa onjengoba namahloni ngeke ulindele ukuphazamisa impilo yakho futhi.