USocrates wabuye wagcina ukuthi "ayikho isifo somzimba esihluke emphefumulweni," okungukuthi, ukuchaza ngokungajwayelekile endlebeni yethu: "ingqondo enempilo emzimbeni onempilo," futhi ngokufanayo. Kodwa-ke, ngesizathu esithile imithi yesimanje ne-grin iyalahla izimpikiswano ezinjalo. Ingabe uSocrates wayeyisiphukuphuku kangaka? Noma, mhlawumbe, lezi odokotela zanamuhla zizikhonzile kakhulu? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, futhi kukhona iqiniso lokuthi izifo kanye nokucwaninga kwengqondo kunesixhumanisi, ngoba ngamunye wethu wabona ukuthi ukuhlukumeza kwezifo kwenzeka esikhathini esithile esinzima kwengqondo - ngenxa yokucindezeleka, injabulo, ukukhathala. Ake sikhulume nge-psychology yezifo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuzwakala kanjani kungenangqondo.
Isenzo - isenzo - umphumela
Uma uqala okuphambene nalokho, ukuthola imbangela yengqondo yesifo somzimba, futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuyiqeda, ungakwazi ukuqeda lesi sifo unomphela. Kodwa akuyona yonke into elula kakhulu ekusebenzeni. Ukuthola inkinga ngokwayo akuyona inzima kakhulu, kodwa kungathatha unyaka ukuyixazulula.
Usuku nosuku, sihlambalaza ubuchopho bethu ngokungazwakali, ukwesaba, ukungabaza. Konke lokhu akukhipha amandla, kodwa kuhlehliswa ngamapilingi amaningi. Ngesinye isikhathi kubonakala sengathi ukuphila okunye okuhambisana nobudlelwane obunjalo kungenakwenzeka. Isibonelo, thatha izinqubo zokuvuvukala, ake sithi banal angina. Ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyimpawu eziningi ngenxa yokudla okweqile kwe-ayisikhilimu, ukubandayo, ukutheleleka okungahambi kahle emabhasi? Cha, imbangela yalokhu kugula ingokwengqondo, ikakhulukazi ezinkingeni zakho zengqondo. Ukuvela kwezinqubo zokuvuvukala kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo kuqondiswa ukukhungatheka ngeqiniso elizungezile, ukufutheka, ukwesaba nokuthukuthela, kanye nokuqonda kwakho okuvuthayo.
Kulokhu kulandela ukuthi kuqala kukhona umcabango (okungalungile), ukhuthaza isenzo esingalungile (isibonelo, ukucindezeleka kwengqondo njalo), futhi ngenxa yalokho, kukhona isifo.
Izifo zesifazane
Lapha, ngisho nokuqinisekisa ukuthi akukho muntu obiza, zonke izicansi ezithandekayo kunokuba uzizwe ngokucacile ngengqondo yezifo zabesifazane futhi wazi nokuthi yiziphi imicabango "ezingalungile" eziholela kuzo.
Izimbangela ezivame kakhulu zezifo zabesifazane zivela ebusheni - imfundo engafanele yezocansi , ubuhlungu bokuqala bokulwa nabesilisa, ukungathembani kobulili obuhlukile, futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukungabi nabesilisa phakathi kwabo. Iningi lezinkinga zethu ezisondelene zibangelwa ukungabi nomuzwa womuntu wesifazane, umbono wokuthi ubulili buyinto enhle futhi engcolile.
Yonke le mvelo evumelekile yokuthuthukiswa kwezifo kumele ibonakale futhi ibonakale ngokusebenzisa inkhulumomphendvulwano yangaphakathi, bese iqedwa ngosizo lesazi sengqondo.