Inkulumo ethi "i-boomerang effect" ichaza izenzakalo ezimbili ezihlukene, enye yazo ingumqondo ovela emkhakheni wezokwelapha, kanti enye ibonakala ekuphileni kwethu okuvamile kwansuku zonke. Sizobheka kokubili.
Umphumela we-Boomerang ku-psychology
Ezingqondweni, umphumela we-boomerang umphumela womphumela womlayezo, okuphambene nalokho okulindelekile. Mane nje, uma utshele ukuthi ungacabangi ngebheja elibomvu, yonke imicabango yakho izogxila kulesi silwane. Uma uzama ukungacabangi ngaye, nakakhulu uzocabangela. Lo mphumela uboniswe yizinyathelo eziningi zokuhlola.
Ekuphileni, unenqwaba yezinhlelo zokusebenza, ichazwe inkulumo ethandwayo "isithelo esinqatshelwe siyinhle." Uma wenqabela okuthile kumntanakho, uvuselela ukwazi kwakhe kuphela, yingakho izazi ze-psychologists ziluleka ukuba zingavumeli isenzo, kodwa ukuphazamisa ukunakwa kwengane kwenye into. Noma kunjalo, indlela efanayo isebenza nabantu abadala.
Umphumela we-Boomerang empilweni
Ngolwazi olukhulu, isimo esihlukile esivela ngaphansi kwalesi nkulumo. Uma ubuza othile ukuthi umphumela we-boomerang usebenza kanjani, ngokuqinisekile uzokwaziswa ukuthi le mphumela ichaza ukubuyela kumuntu wezinto azenzayo. Ngamanye amazwi, uma wenze isenzo esingavumelekile, esikhathini esizayo othile uzokwenza isenzo esingathandeki kuwe.
Cabanga ngezibonelo zokuphila ukuthi umphumela we-boomerang ebuhlotsheni nothando ungabonakala kanjani:
- Enye intombazane encane kakhulu, ephikisana nodadewabo osekhulile, yamhlambalaza ngokuthi ikhulelwe eneminyaka engu-17 ubudala futhi kwakudingeka ikhishwe isisu, ibize amagama angamnandi kakhulu. Lapho eseneminyaka engu-17, wakhulelwa, futhi wakhipha isisu. Kamuva, waba nezinkinga, futhi ikhono lakhe lokuba nezingane manje libuzwa.
- Owesifazane osebenza njengomhlengikazi weholo eliphansi, wathatha ukushintshwa ebusuku ukuze athole okungaphezulu. Noma kunjalo, ebusuku wayengafuni ukubhekana nabagulayo, futhi izingane ezingalali abazali, zanquma i-diphenhydramine ukuze zilale futhi aziphazamanga naye.
Eminyakeni embalwa kamuva, lapho ebeletha, ingane yakhe yaba mkhulu, ibuhlungu, ingenasiphelo. Kulesi simo, umuntu angabona kalula umphumela we-boomerang. - Intombazane encane yathandana nendoda eshadile, futhi, naphezu kokuba nomfazi nengane encane, yaqala ubuhlobo naye. Lapho ehlukanisile, inzalo kuye yafa, futhi waya kwesinye, ngoba washada naye ngemva kweminyaka eminingana. Njengoba manje unomntwana omncane ezandleni zakhe, umyeni wakhe wathatha inkosikazi encane wafaka isahlukaniso. Kulokhu, umphumela we-boomerang ubonakala kakhulu.
Nokho, ukukholelwa emthekisweni we-boomerang noma cha kuyindaba yomuntu wonke. Wonke umuntu unquma lo mbuzo ngokwakhe.