Infantile - incazelo yegama

Incazelo yegama elithi "infantilism" ifunwa abaningi namuhla. Njengoba inkinga yobukhona ekubukeni kwangaphandle noma ekuziphatheni kwezimpawu zesigaba sangaphambili esidlule saba yiphuthumayo kakhulu namhlanje, ukubambezeleka ekuthuthukiseni ubuntu. Ukulondolozwa kwezimfanelo zezingane emuntwini kanye nokwehliswa ekuthuthukisweni kwendima yemimoya.

Incazelo yegama lokungabi namntwana ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso ibonakala njengendlela yokubonakaliswa kwendlela yengane ezinhlokweni ezihlukahlukene zokuphila, hhayi ikhono lokwenza izinqumo ezinolwazi nokungafuni ukuthatha izibopho.

Izimpawu zokungabi namntwana:

1. Ukuzicabangela. Ukuzicabangela, ukungakwazi ukuqonda nokuzwa isimo sabanye. Umuntu ongobugovu angeke aqaphele ukuthi abanye bangacabanga futhi babone izwe elizungezile ngenye indlela. Uqinisekile ukuthi konke kudalwa kuye kuphela, futhi labo abaseduze naye kufanele banelise izidingo zakhe. Izwe langaphakathi labanye alimthandi.
2. Ukuthembela. Ukungakwazi noma ukungathandi ukuzisebenzela wena. Lokhu kuvame kakhulu kumadoda, isibonelo, emndenini abenqaba ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole, bethi baletha imali endlini. Kuvela ukuthi le ndoda idlala izindima ezimbili ezihlukene, emsebenzini unesibopho, futhi ekhaya - umfana omncane.
3. Ukuzivocavoca emdlalweni. Iningi lokuzilibazisa nokusetshenziswa kwento esetshenziselwa umdlalo. Imidlalo ethandwa kakhulu yomntwana omdala ihlanganisa imibuthano eqhubekayo emabhasini, ama-discos, bethenga, ukuthengwa kwama-innovative ezobuchwepheshe.
4. Ukungakwazi ukuzinqumela ngokwabo. Ukwenza izinqumo, intando iyadingeka, futhi umuntu omncane ukhetha ukuhlala ngaphandle kokucindezela, ukhetha indlela enokumelana naye kancane.
5. Ukungafuni ukuphendula ngokuphila komuntu nezenzo zakhe. Inketho elula ayixazululi lutho ngokwayo, ishintshela le mishini kwabanye, futhi ngokuvamile evotelwe ubuntu obuncane ngabantu abanjalo.
6. Ukungabi namalungiselelo okuphila okuqhubekayo. Ukuphila komuntu omncane kuyinto engapheli "manje", ngakho awukwazi ukukhathazeka ngempilo nemali.
7. Ukuhluleka ukuzimela nokwazi ukuzihlonipha. Okwenzekayo empilweni akuqondakali, ngakho-ke akusizi ukuthi ukhona, uhlala umcimbi ojwayelekile. Abantu base-intanethi abafundeli ekuphileni.

Ngokwengqondo, ukungabi namntwana kuyabhekwa njengokutholakala ngemfundo yekhwalithi.

Izimbangela ze-infantilism:

1. Iningi labazali livimbela ukuzimela kwengane ngokungathembeki kwabo. Ukungathembeki, ukulawula, ukujeziswa okunzima ngezenzo ezingalungile futhi isifiso sokwenza okuthile emntanini kamuva sishabalalala kuze kube phakade.
2. Ngamazwi nangezenzo zabo, abazali baqinisekisa ingane ukuthi ilahlekile, ukuthi ayikwazi ukufundiswa, abanye benze kangcono, ekugcineni baphazamise ukuthanda nokuzizwa.
3. Ukunakekelwa okukhulu kusuka kubazali, abazithola benelisa izifiso zabo ngomntwana.
4. Abazali bakhonta ingane. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuzikhukhumeza kwengane kuphakama kakhulu, kanye nokuqiniseka ukuthi konke okukhona ekuphileni kungatholakala ngaphandle kwemizamo.
5. Ukuhlukaniswa kwabazali. Ngesikhathi abazali beqondana, umntwana uzizwa engadingekile. Uvame ukungaqondi ukuthi kwenzekani futhi uzibeke icala. Ingane ivaliwe futhi iqala ukuhlala ezweni layo, lapho ikhululekile, kodwa umhlaba wangempela uyamesabisa.

Ukungabonakali kuyinto evamile kubantu bobulili bobabili, kodwa kumadoda kuvame kakhulu. Abantu abanjalo abatholi umndeni isikhathi eside futhi bahlala nabazali babo. Umngane wokuphila angabonakala ekuphikeleni kwabazali abakhathele futhi abasakwazi ukusekela nokusekela amadodana asekhulile. Lapho izingane zizalwa, ziyabakhathalela kanye nendlu, kanye nokugcinwa komndeni, zigcwele ngokuphelele amahlombe abesifazane. "Umthengisi" uyazihlukanisa, uchitha isikhathi sonke phambi kwekhompyutha yakhe noma ithelevishini.

Ukuhlukumeza owesifazane nakho kukhona. Abesifazane abangenabantwana abangenasifazane bachithe isikhathi emaqembu, amakhasino. Bayamahloni ekuzalweni kwezingane, ukudalwa komndeni, indlu. Isixazululo sezindaba zabo zemali ekuqaleni kwabazali, bese kubaxhasi.